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Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1001
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 10:15 am: | 
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can you believe it, one of the residents did it. we had a long some what heated disscuion, I told him what he could do with his Idea about how nurses talk to the Docs. Not knowing how mad he got, I was only joking, but took it wrong. Well he grab my by my arm down the hall we went(fighting all the way) he found an empty office, he grab a chair and before I figured out what was gong to happen I was over his knee and he was spanking me so hard, wow it took about 15 mins and he stopped, I was crying and upset, he told me to get my stuff togeth and go home, I have a hard time to sit today, I can't believe it at all. Tonight should be very interesting for sure, we have to work again together. I better keep my mouth shut, he did it over my scubs, not much material on these things. LOL
when caught run faster then him !!
Me and Thur riding into the sunset !!
I am a TA junkie !!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 758
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 10:38 am: |
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Ummmm, Ziggy you do realize you could have him arrested? In most work places that would be considered sexual harrassment and/or abuse. Just because we're into spanking doesnt mean we should let anyone spank us...especially when it is done out of anger and a wish to punish.
Please dont just blow this off. You need to sit down quietly with this doctor and let him know that what he did is wrong, even if you wont press charges. The next nurse wont be so forgiving or he may really hurt someone and lose his license.
Its very difficult when something like this happens to a spanko, but think about the vanilla who runs into this guy and what their reaction would be. He needs to be stopped...NOW! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 268
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 10:45 am: |
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Is this real? Or a fun fantasy?
Because if it's real...I'm stunned. I can't imagine anyone thinking they could get away with something like that in this day and age.
If this happened to me, I'd FLIP, and scream blue bloody murder. Yeah, he'd have to worry about professional and legal repercussions...but beyond that? He'd better watch his back. Because my husband would KILL him. |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 145
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 11:05 am: |
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I'm a human resources professional, and unfortunately I find no humor or pleasure in this situation. This type of behavior, whether welcome or not, is enough to fire both of you (him for doing it, and you, for letting him and keeping quiet about it). The hospital could be libel as well.
As another member mentioned, the man could also be criminally charged, should anyone hear of his actions. Spanking interest and "mutual consent" aside, this doesn't sound like anything but violence and sexual abuse, as well as harassment, to me....and I'm a spanko!
Fantasy fun is one thing, but do this "at work" is putting you and all us spankos at risk, IMO.
I always end up shaking my head when spanko folks take their fantasies to such levels.
Here's hoping this post was meant to go in the "fictional" section. As "fiction" it's fun...as real life...it's shocking.
K |
Sdhrts
Junior Spanko
Username: Sdhrts
Post Number: 69
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 12:10 pm: |
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This is a lawsuit period. This doctor was way out of line, and he knows it. Regardless if he knows you're into spanking or not. I'm very much into spanking, but don’t like to hear or condone this behavior. He's very lucky you’re not my woman or he'd need his own doctor.
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 273
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 12:25 pm: |
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Wow Ziggy, this isn't good..... I agree with Ftop as well. I also work in a human resource department at my unit. Don't get me wrong, I see know problem with this in the fantasy world, but in this day and age it's just plain wrong in r/l. This needs to be stopped for the sake of his job, yours, and your co-workers. You could get both you and him into serious trouble for not saying anything. Say something about this and do it NOW. People like this are violent and need help.
Kuwait here I come!!!
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 146
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 01:38 pm: |
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My first real job was in a hospital, and I know all too well how some doctors enjoy taking liberties where they can, but in this day and age, you'd think they would know better.
A surgeon was dictating, in the file room, and while I was placing a file down, he grabbed my bottom. I quickly turned...grabbed his wrist, and slammed it VERY down on the countertop. While I tightened my gripe, I got right up next to his face, and told him in a calm, yet firm voice, that if he ever touched me again, his arm would be broken, and then some. He stuttered a bit, but immediately apologized, and thereafter gained a new respectful attitude toward me, and the other ladies in my office. (In fact, he later became my own surgeon.)
The reason he did this...because OTHER women allowed him to all the time. They didn't say a word when he grabbed and groped. He took liberties that were in effect "offered" to him, from them always allowing it.
This behavior (again if it's real), is that of a man that will persist in violence. Apparently a few spankos will find it hot and funny. Anyone else will find it criminal.
K
PS My other issue with this type of message being given, is that some clueless newbee spanker will read this, and figure they can try it too. Some people read posts and take them quite seriously. |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 179
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 05:30 pm: |
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Wow I have to say that this really amazes me also. But if it were to happen in any setting and profession it would be the medical setting. To many Doctor's do feel superior to the nurses and other hospital/medical staff that they have to work with.
I have never seen a more egostical group of professionals in my life. So it does not surprise me that it may have happened. Particularly on a night shift when the setting is much more quiet and sparse of personnel. But he does need to be told he has gone over the line. If he does not take the warning well, then I do think you should approach HR.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 436
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 06:03 pm: |
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Perhaps Ziggy revealed her interest in spanking to this doctor at some point in time. If so, she should make this known before anymore lawsuit suggestions are made. I don't see where she has made a comment since everyone else has been jumping in with all the opinions.....
Ziggy?? Your turn.
Once I thought I was wrong but I was mistaken
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 180
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 06:20 pm: |
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It will be interesting to get more information on this happening and to see what happens tonight.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 759
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 09:10 pm: |
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I dont think it matters whether she let him know of her fetish or not. It sounded like he did it without her foreknowledge or consent, and that in my books is wrong.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 147
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 09:38 pm: |
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Wolfie...ya beat me to it!  |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1008
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 09:27 am: |
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I have taken care of the slap happy doc. I have told my hubbie and the doc has also talk with him. So I really don't think that will happen again, , thanks for you supoort though. It was a totally a shock when it happen,
when caught run faster then him !!
Me and Thur riding into the sunset !!
I am a TA junkie !!
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Pagan
Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 269
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 09:50 am: |
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I'm glad, Ziggy. Even if you don't want to make a federal case out of it, it's still important that you let him know that his behaviour was unacceptable.
I'm glad you told your hubby. My fear would be that my mild-mannered hubby would deck him. I'm almost 100% certain that the 'talk' would have gotten physical. |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 151
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 10:06 am: |
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ABC Primetime had a work incident on the show last night. The "supervisor" was immediately fired. The abusing men are both charged with sexual crimes. The company is being sued, along with the "supervisor." The woman that this was perpetrated against will probably have a windfall with the money she will undoubtedly be awarded(based on the info provided), but it couldn't possibly compensate her for the trauma she must live with, for the rest of her life.
"I really don't think it will happen again"....is the response to this posted assault?
I am shocked. My stomach is turning at the thought of this, and still can't help but think it was all posted in fantasy. I don't know any responsible adult that would abide by this behavior and just "pass it off" so flippantly.
K <---still shaking her head in disbelief |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1013
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 10:17 am: |
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I wish was just a fantasy, but Trust me it is all taken care of, he has 1 1/2 week rotation at this hospital and then he will gone back to La. I am working the oppsite nights then him. he won't be on the geiatrics floor, that is where I work. we have talked this all out, and I called my hubbie while he was sitting in front of me. and keith ( my hubbie talk with him, loudly and to the point. I am glad that keith is on his rig, he would have had a physical reaction to it. sO please it is over and lets take a deep breath and go on with our day shall we. thanks for your concern though
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 65
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 06:38 pm: |
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Ziggy,
I have been reading this and to be honest with you as a former bedside nurse I would be outraged that any doctor woukd consider it OK to lay his hands on me at all never mind take me over his knee and spank me. I once had a doctor yell at me in front of the whole nursing staff to which I replied in a very firm but even tone that My husband doesn't yell at me and he pays all my bills what makes you think you can. I personally am very outraged that any MD , Do or whatever would consider spanking a nurse as OK. If he did do this on a floor that he is only doing a rotation on than image what he thinks he can get away with on floors that he normally works on.
I am sorry but I am having a very hard time thinking that this is true. Nurses have worked very hard to get physicians to see that they are very important to the healthcare of the patient to allow this to happen without any "formal reporting". By the way if this is really true you ahve every rigth to report him to the professional board who will investigate this and may take away his ability to practice. This is considered sexaul harresment and licensing boards really frown on that.
If this happened to me I would be right there at the licensing board the very next day.
Because soemone likes to get spanked does not mean that it is OK for anyone to do it. Yes we all have fantasy about the tall dark stanger or the movie star or even the UPS men ( you all should see the one who makes deliveries to my office- God in the summer with the tight brown shorts on- the whole staff is panying by the time he leaves) but to actual be a subject of a unrequested spanking just is plain wrong. |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1019
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 09:02 am: |
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This is the last time I will say It is not a fantasy at all. This the last time I will bring my personel life into the den, it will be on ones busniess.
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 774
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 12:16 pm: |
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Ziggy, in all the time I've known you here I have never thought that you were a liar...and I dont think so now. Please dont take people's shock that such a thing could happen as a personal attack, I'm sure no one meant it that way.
Things like this do happen in the real world, Ive been sexually harrassed and threatened myself at some jobs I held. At the time I didnt have the wisdom or confidence to handle it well and mostly just kept things to myself and coped the best I could.
I just worry that because this guy got away with this (no serious repercussions) he will simply continue to push nurses around when he goes back to Louisiana. Hopefully one of them will slap him with a lawsuit and he'll be stopped for good.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Covert13777
New member
Username: Covert13777
Post Number: 20
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 01:58 pm: |
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and i ll bet you enjoyed every moment of it |
Covert13777
New member
Username: Covert13777
Post Number: 21
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 02:02 pm: |
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now that i got you going i agee with wolfie unless you indicated to him that you wanted a otk he was definately wrong. Now if you started it then thats a horse of a different color. but all kidding aside he had no right if you didnt consent to it. Trouble with docotrs they think there god. |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 181
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 06:23 pm: |
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As I have seen instances where a spanking would be considered much less that what was done. I can definitely see this happening particularly at night when it is generally more quiet, a doc could have privacy to do whatever he chose.
A couple of instances I can think of right now and these all happened in the daytime with other nurses and patients as witnesses.
A Doc throwing a syringe at a nurse and it sticking in the wall the syringe was filled with Poison - chemotherapy. The other docs in the practice slapped his had and said you can't do that.
Or the doc that shoved the nurse against the wall with his hands around her throat. Again the other Docs said you can't do that and slapped his hand.
Or the Doc that punched a nurse in the arm, with enough strength behind it to make her stagger and almost fall as another nurse caught her. Same scenario - don't do that Doc.
Or the verbally abuse Doc who was constantly making fun of one of the nurses weight problem and making her run to see how long it would take her to get to him when he called.
What did all the Docs have in common - money. The nurses did not have the kind of money they had to buy them off. Put simply the Docs paid them off not to press charges. Then when it hit their wallet they would behave for at least a while. Actually all those instances were from different Docs. So maybe they do learn when it costs them money. By the way all these Doctors were the very best and the care and bedside manner they gave to their patients was outstanding. But what they offered to their co-workers was terrible. It was mostly excused as stress related. The Doctor did not mean to do it he just had a very bad day.
But we in the admin office wished someone would press charges then maybe they would learn a lesson that they are not Gods.
I know that there are a lot of reputable doctors out there that treat their nurses very good, but there are also the ones that can and do get away with inappropriate acts.
Ziggy - I am glad this doctor is leaving shortly and maybe someday he will cross that line and get burnt.
(Message edited by beachley on November 12, 2005)
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 158
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 06:52 pm: |
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Beachley, I worked in a hospital for over ten years (my first job), so I know about the DoctorGod Syndrome. When I was inappropriately grabbed by a doctor..."I" stopped it. I think most of us can agree that part of the problem occurs when someone "allows" it, and does nothing to stop it. Why WOULD a doctor stop taking liberties, when they can clearly get away with it?
As for the OP...she's been posting about this particular doctor, and mentioning how hot he is, so it's not something new, in postings here. She's posted about it, and the idea of him spanking, and they've been fun posts, in the past. She found it funny enough to enjoy joking about the situation in this thread, and even including an "lol" in the post about the spanking night, and I think that's where I, and others, have had issue with the entire "story."
If anything, it's certainly brought about some interesting dialogue, here in the Den.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 182
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 09:32 am: |
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I agree FT - it has been an interesting discussion and good info has come out of it.
One that I notice particularly is that we spanko's may look at a situation totally diffrent from someone who is not a spanko. We have to still remember as spanko's that although a situation may be exciting to our spanko desires, it is not acceptable in todays society and not acceptable to non-spanko's. The key word is consensual in our spanko life and actually in all areas of our life.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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