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Fanny
Advanced Spanko Username: Fanny
Post Number: 797 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 12:00 pm: |
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I know that an intense relationship is not to everyone's liking or understanding. I believe it takes a whole lot of committment and time. I have written extensively about my relationship with R, so you know our life style. I want to share with the other side of an intense, passionate relationship. I am very sad right now as my sister is nearing death. There is nothing that can be done and she lives thousands of miles away from me. I try to be an emotional support to my brother-in-law and have visited with my sister recently, but there is nothing else I can do, but to accept the inevitable. R did something for me today that showed me that he really cares about and for me in all areas of my life. Not only will he take me in hand when necessary, he will also go to whatever lenghts necessary to fulfill my wants. As I have said before, a passionate man knows what a woman needs and gives it to her, unhesitantly. "Queen of Innocence" If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning! "oooooo", she says!!
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Bethie
Post Number: 286 Registered: 04-2005
| Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 12:44 pm: |
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Fanny, I'm so sorry about your sister. I can't imagine what you're going through, it's got to be so hard on you. Let me know if there's anything we can do for you. I'm glad R is there for you when you need him. That's what really counts as far as I'm concerned. I'll be thinking of you and your sister. |
Opal
New member Username: Opal
Post Number: 23 Registered: 04-2005
| Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 04:53 pm: |
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Fanny I am sorry you have to face losing your sister that has to be very difficult. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. I'm sure R will be exactly what you need when you need it and that is a wonderful blessing. |
Biggirl
New member Username: Biggirl
Post Number: 38 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Saturday, July 16, 2005 - 09:22 pm: |
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Fanny: I will light a white candle for you. You are in my nightly meditation prayer. I am sorry for the deep ache in your heart. You have some rough days ahead. Lean on R & all of those who love you during this most difficult of times. With Empathy,BigGirl |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko Username: Fanny
Post Number: 812 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Saturday, July 16, 2005 - 11:04 pm: |
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Thank you ladies. I appreciate every one of your kind words. Your thoughts and prayers will help get us through this rough time. "Queen of Innocence" If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning! "oooooo", she says!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 253 Registered: 04-2005
| Posted on Sunday, July 17, 2005 - 10:17 am: |
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Fanny, having lost so many loved ones recently I can understand what you are going thru. Lean on R for his love and support, and if you need to talk, I'm here. Remember to take care of yourself as well. wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko Username: Fanny
Post Number: 819 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Sunday, July 17, 2005 - 10:31 am: |
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Thank you Wolfie. For a place where you never meet face to face, I feel I have made so many friends here. It's good. "Queen of Innocence" If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning! "oooooo", she says!!
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Biggirl
New member Username: Biggirl
Post Number: 39 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Sunday, July 17, 2005 - 08:13 pm: |
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To me that is the cool thing about the internet. You can get to know people,,,,really know them.. and never have met them. Whatever you need Fanny....whenever you need it.. we are all "hear" for you. Your candle is still lit & I am asking "god" to send you extra Love & Strength now. You are in my heart,BigGirl |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko Username: Fanny
Post Number: 834 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Sunday, July 17, 2005 - 08:58 pm: |
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Thank you BG. I really feel that this is one place where passion and care are present, and I feel heard. I hope my candle burns on for a good, long time. "Queen of Innocence" If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning! "oooooo", she says!!
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Biggirl
New member Username: Biggirl
Post Number: 47 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Monday, July 18, 2005 - 08:41 pm: |
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Fanny: I have lots of different candles that I use for Spirituality. Kind of my way of reminding myself everytime I see it to say a small prayer. From what you shared in your initial email I knew that although the time of her release from her body is imminent (sp?) there is still some time that is going to pass. Because of that I lit my Largest size white candle which lasts 7 days. When the time comes & you let us know.......I just can't say it as I do NOT wish to make you cry....but I will lite a new candle as well. I have experienced many passings in my life but I have no siblings so I do NOT know what you are experiencing or feeling. Whatever you need....whenever you need it my dear you just let me know. If only there was a way to send a hug thru the computer I would. But no matter what our distances are....we all look up at & live under the same sky. you are in my Heart,BigGirl |