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Ctspanker34
New member
Username: Ctspanker34
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 14, 2006 - 10:35 pm: | 
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Hi all,
I'm recently separated and from all appearances on my way to a divorce due to my wife's mid-life crisis wherein she "changed her mind" about loving me.  It has been a lot of pain and heartache for me, but one thing that has come of it is that I met and started a spanking friendship with a great gal (who generally prefers gals) who was also recently dumped by a long time vanilla partner. There is absolutely no urge on my part or on hers to carry it any farther than just meeting for spankings, drinks and more spankings so in that regard it's helping me cope with this weird world I've been thrust into where all the things I thought would last forever apparently won't. But even that ray of light will probably end soon as I think her girlfriend is ready for a reconciliation.
In the time I've spent hanging out with this fun girl, and as much as I love and miss my wife, I've discovered (re-discovered) how much fun it is to spank a spanko... a woman who I can bring to orgasm over my knee twice in a night. (whereas my wife wasn't a big fan but just went along with me when she had to.)
So that's kind of where I'm coming from, and I look forward to talking about my most beloved kink with you folks, especially on how one goes about finding nice spanko girls without spending an arm and a leg on personals sites, etc. Or even, how do you bring it up to someone you think might be into it, when the time comes?
If I'm doomed to never be with the woman who has been first in my heart for over a decade and gave me the worlds greatest kids, then when the time comes to find someone else to give my heart to, I want it to be to someone who will match up right on this very important part of who I am.
I hope this post isn't off topic or innapropriate for the site. My apologies if so and I'll do better next time. I'm really a smart, funny, creative, super nice guy--until you put a naked butt in my lap, that is. Then I'm just plain devilish...hehehe |
Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 248
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 12:08 am: |
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LOL
Welcome to the Den *S*
May we answer all your questions to the best of our knowledge ...
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2516
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 01:03 am: |
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Hi CT and welcome, we are a diversified group of individuals with a lot of different approaches. I'm sure you will find ideas if you just keep reading.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 539
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 07:14 am: |
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Hi Ct...and welcome - I am sure you will find that we are a very diversified group and love to chat about lots of things.....Glad to have you here!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1155
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 07:46 am: |
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Hello Ctspanker34!
Welcome to the Den!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Obx_peach
New member
Username: Obx_peach
Post Number: 20
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 09:09 am: |
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Ctspanker34 welcome !! There are many a pretty lady looking for a willing Top , be honest and open and I'm sure the doors will open. I love this site and have found lots of helpful info. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 742
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 09:53 am: |
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Hi Ctspanker Nice to meet you!!!
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 33
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 11:16 am: |
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Hi Ct, welcome to you! I just found this place myself and felt like a duck getting tossed in a pond. Everyone's been great so far.
Be patient, the right spanko-gal will come along for you! In the meantime, I'm sure all the goings on here will keep you entertained!
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Ctspanker34
New member
Username: Ctspanker34
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 02:23 pm: |
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Thanks for the warm welcome, everyone. I've spent some time reading through old threads and there is much goodness afoot here. It's nice to be able to talk openly about this with people who really understand.
Of particular interest is the spanking fiction. Great work! I dabble with genre writing myself and have even been published a few times in some respectable places. Maybe it's time I turned my pen to Spanking Sci-Fi and see what happens?! Anyone have any links to Spanking-friendly paying markets laying about?
The CT is for Connecticut, BTW. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2528
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 02:32 pm: |
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Yes, I am aware of what CT is, I am MA. Sorry I just shortened your name, not that I am lazy or anything. It is just my brain thinks faster than my fingers can type. Not necessarily a good thing, BTW.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ctspanker34
New member
Username: Ctspanker34
Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 02:42 pm: |
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I figured people would mistakenly take it to mean the initials "C.T" (not true) or "Cute" (who am I to say?) is all.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2529
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 03:28 pm: |
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Slap me silly but how is C.T. mean not true (N.T.?) and who knows maybe we think of you as bring cute?
As long as is doesn't stand for crazy top, I think all is okay.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ctspanker34
New member
Username: Ctspanker34
Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 03:46 pm: |
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HA!
I meant someone might think my initials were C.T. which is not true, they are something else entirely.
But since you mentioned it, slapping silly is one of the things I do best! ;) |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2534
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:20 pm: |
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Chatter on, my dear boy, but take it to the discussion area. 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ctspanker34
New member
Username: Ctspanker34
Post Number: 8
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 15, 2006 - 05:50 pm: |
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Aye aye ma'am! |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 519
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:15 am: |
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welcome to the den and happy spankings! Sorry to hear about your loss but I'm sure there are many ladies looking for a firm spanking. Good luck and enjoy the den!
The Princess of Spanking
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