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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1167
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 09:22 am: | 
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Okay I thought about this last night AFTER it happened and wondered if this had happend to you.
After having great sex with my hubby..we bantered back and forth over silly things. He swatted me a few times and it stung so I told him to cut it out....
Thats all it took...he started spanking for real.
Just his hand..but it really stung much more then it usually does.
He said it was because I was so relaxed after sex.
Anyone else want to try this or has it happened?
Is my husband right or did he just make it up?? |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 831
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 10:34 am: |
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I read somewhere that our skin is the largest sexual organ we have! That being said, I wonder if after sex the endorphines are still high, so the skin itself is still aroused - thus more sting with a spanking?
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1170
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 11:52 am: |
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I don't know...but it sounds good to me!!
Wait I just re read that.... our skinis a sexual organ??? hmmmm I'll have to give that some thought....very intresting...
(Message edited by tammynx on September 13, 2006) |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1171
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 12:13 pm: |
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sheeshhh even after I did an edit I still messed that up...should be a space between skin and is....  |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2679
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 12:57 pm: |
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Is this your new scientific experient, Tammy? Interesting concept. MAYBE I will try it and give my results.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2680
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 12:59 pm: |
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I was thinking that the brain is the largest sex organ, I am going to have to investigate this.
Anything for science Fanny
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2681
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 01:03 pm: |
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"The brain is known as the largest sex organ because of its integral role in sexual arousal"
Damn.....I should have placed $$ on this one.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2682
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 01:07 pm: |
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"Your skin is like a very large container. It's the largest organ of your body, and without it, all your delicate insides would spill right out."
Here is where the confusion comes in, skin is the largest organ, but not the largest sexual organ.
I am just full of it today!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 120
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 01:59 pm: |
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Pinkcheeks is right that our skin is our biggest organ,(It covers your entire body and has a surface area of around 2 square metres. Its thickness varies from 0.5mm on your eyelids to 4mm or more on the palms of your hands and the soles of your feet. In total, it accounts for around 16 percent of your body weight).
but Fanny is right,our brain is still the biggest sexual organ.
However I would agree with Pink about your skin still being aroused,infact not just your skin,but the whole of you and yes you should be more relaxed which means you will enjoy the spanking more.
Plus more people sweat when having fun so
Your skin's blood vessels, sweat glands and hairs play a crucial role in regulating your body temperature. When you need to cool down
Your blood vessels widen and allow heat to escape through your skin
You start sweating, and as your sweat dries, it uses heat from your skin and cools you down
Your hairs lie flat to make sure little warm air doesn't get trapped between your skin and your hairs.
Therefore with your skin a little wet it will have the same result as being spanked with a wet bottom,more sting |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1172
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 03:58 pm: |
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But when did skin become an organ??
All this science...I just thought it was something simple |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1173
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 03:59 pm: |
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Fanny didn't you have another idea for a new exeriment??
And, you really should give this a try!! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2684
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 04:34 pm: |
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I'll get back to you ASAP Tammy.
Atomicpuppy went in for the full details, I only had time for the Reader's Digest definition.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1175
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 05:55 pm: |
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I'm not sure I wanted the full details. It was like being in school again in class  |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 159
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 07:21 pm: |
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a spanking after sex, oh dear does this mean I have been doing it backwards all this time ?
my name says it all
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1179
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 07:30 pm: |
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NOOO subbie not at all. This just happened to me and I was wondering why it seemed that the spanking hurt more AFTER sex then before.
Are you up for another experiment subbie???? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2685
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 08:36 pm: |
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I'll volunteer this time, but I have to wait until my mood is right.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1180
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 08:49 pm: |
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Thanks Fanny!!
Keep me informed. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2688
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 13, 2006 - 10:43 pm: |
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Just keep holding your breath, and I promise to get around to it sooner than later.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 160
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 12:13 am: |
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Tammy, my days of of being a volunteer are over!!!, but three cheers for Fanny,
my name says it all
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Ma_vie_en_rose
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 224
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 01:34 am: |
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Go Fanny!
so wait! if the skin is 16% of our body weight, than if we could get RID of it! think of all the weight that could be lost :D!
I like that, it's like the argument "Oh, well.. my hair weighs a lot" "Oh, it's just skin weight." |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1128
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 02:05 am: |
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I think Pink was right about the endorphins. It has to do with human physiology, particularly the effects of endorphins.
During a spanking before sex, endorphins are being released by your brain in response to the pain and that allows you to handle a spanking just fine. As your arousal increases, so does the amount endorphins in your system as they work to offset the pain and also in response to your mounting sexual tension. It can be a little like runner's high, if anyone has experienced that. Sometimes you think you can go on forever.
Then after the deed is done, all those endorphins crash and suddenly you can feel it all again. Depending on the soreness of your bottom and how relaxed you are, the contrast can be intense.
See? I'm not completely flaky after all!  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1182
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 08:39 am: |
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Now thats an explanation that makes sense to me Bethie!!
I never thought you were flaky |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 162
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 08:55 am: |
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Got to agree with that, nothing hurts when I am having sex and the spankings before sex only get me more aroused and it isn't until after that I am aware of just how much sting and throbbing my bottom has.
my name says it all
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2690
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 10:10 am: |
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Great, now I don't need to perform the experiment. Thanks Bethie.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2691
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 10:13 am: |
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In my research of skin I learned the average person sheds 40 pounds of skin cells a year. Just think if you could do it all at once before a bit night out. That "skin" tight dress would fit for sure.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1185
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 11:19 am: |
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Hey Fanny!! You DO need to try this experiment I want to know if its just me...or is this real?? |
Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 159
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 11:32 am: |
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The skin is biggest sexual organ but the brain is the most important.(big isn,t always better)Any part of your skin can arouse you but if the message doesn,t get to brain nothing happens. |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 832
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 12:02 pm: |
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that was my point earlier Buenaventura
And I said exactly what Bethie said - but in one sentence...lol...good job Bethie
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2693
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 12:03 pm: |
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Check you research Buenaventura, the brain is the largest SEX organ.
Tammy, get real, Bethie already went into a great explanation.
Crap, I already mentioned it to my husband, there may be no way of backing out. Don't worry, I will come up with a good one for you.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 834
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 12:18 pm: |
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I think what Buenaventura means is that the skin is the largest sex organ in terms of surface area (physically larger then the brain). We all have to agree that the brain is the main sex organ.
While doing a bit of research myself, I found this piece of info: *interesting to say the least*
"the skin makes many of the neurotransmitters and hormones found in the brain."
So...the skin makes some hormones found in the brain leading to stinging spankings and great sex! (thats my own research!...lol)}
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1186
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 01:46 pm: |
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hehehe Fanny you may have no choice if you hubby already knows....
come on...it will be fun... |
Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 160
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 02:19 pm: |
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Interesting Pink I didn,t know that. |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 836
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 03:37 pm: |
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Its amazing what little "tid-bits" of info you can find on the net 
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2694
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 03:38 pm: |
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Tammy (ever so politely) SHUT UP!! Dearheart.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1187
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 14, 2006 - 04:12 pm: |
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Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 125
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 12:54 pm: |
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So all that science,great isn't it? I enjoy the research especially on my computer and thought some of you might find it interesting.Looks like it worked as there's been a bit more done.
It definitely feels like being back at school though I've learnt more in the outside world.
I've also learnt that nothing is simple.We would like it to be,but unfortunately we also tend to complicate things.
Volunteers? I thought people would have learnt not to by now.Oh well,maybe we can't help it.It is in the name of science.
Fanny 40lbs,a year,all at once would make a very powerful weight loss program.I think many people would love to do that.Good luck with experiment. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1198
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 10:11 am: |
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I'm afraid I dont have any takers for the experiment how about you Atomicpuppy??
Care to give it a try??? |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 129
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 12:06 pm: |
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I'm not committing myself,but I may give it a go.
Any preferences for this experiment or is it sex and then a hand spanking? Straight after? How long for(spanking)?
I've had a spanking while engaging in sexually activity.Found it heightened the pleasure and very erotic.Took a lot to hold on.Didn't notice the burning until I tried to sleep,had to lie on my side,lol. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1203
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 03:21 pm: |
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Well...your the one that may do the experiment try it anyway you want.
When it was me it was a hand spanking right after sex. Usually hand spankings don't really sting much...you know the real sting...and this time right after sex it stung like hell!! It felt more like he was using a paddle, but it was just his hand. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1352
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 05:08 pm: |
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After sex I usually pass out.
If he spanked me I probably wouldn't feel it. So me trying to experiment wouldn't be feasable.
Geez Tammy, try it again and let us know how it went. Sometimes you have to do it more than once to get the full idea.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2711
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 17, 2006 - 05:13 pm: |
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Be patient Tammy, I will get to your experiment, I just haven't been feeling full go lately.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1223
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 24, 2006 - 04:48 pm: |
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ummm Fanny.... are you feeling better??
I'm still waiting....I'm being patient...really I am!! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2737
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 24, 2006 - 05:08 pm: |
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sorry Tammy, but I am being slow in recovering from strep throat, I have not forgotten
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1225
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, September 25, 2006 - 07:56 am: |
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awww I hope you feel better soon!!!! |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 141
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Monday, September 25, 2006 - 04:57 pm: |
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Ok. My wife spanked me before sex and then after.
There was definitely more sting and less spanks were needed.Was relaxed,skin hot,but soft and still sexually charged.
So make of that what you can? Experiment done. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1262
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 03, 2006 - 05:51 pm: |
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I must have missed this when you posted sorry about that.
See I thought it stung more too....my husband said it was because I was more relaxed. Guess he was right.
Thanks Atomicpuppy for testing this out for me!! |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 153
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 04, 2006 - 03:28 pm: |
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No problem,well until I wanted to go to sleep.Waited for burning to ease,strange though as it did not take that long,but definitely stings more.Also when my bum is spanked when cold it stings more too. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1286
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, October 05, 2006 - 03:58 pm: |
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It stings more when its cold too?? MMMM amother intresting experiment I think. |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 160
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 06, 2006 - 02:29 pm: |
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Ever had your hands smacked after being out in the cold when your fingers feel like ice? Hurts like hell.Dare you to try it.... |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1294
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 06, 2006 - 02:33 pm: |
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No thanks!!
Dare me....sheeshhh |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1395
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 09, 2006 - 02:14 pm: |
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Double dog dare?
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1322
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 09, 2006 - 03:10 pm: |
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Shylah don't even go there!!! I KNEW you were going to see that and chime in!!
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1398
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 09, 2006 - 04:59 pm: |
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I couldn't help it!
I'm not responsible!
You dangle that in front of me and expect me NOT to do anything?
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Saxman
New member
Username: Saxman
Post Number: 4
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, January 12, 2007 - 08:50 pm: |
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Spanking after sex can be really good!
Spanking during sex is good also. Ny lady friend enjoys the thrust and spank when we have sex doggie style. she gets really hot and fired up. |
Lexymalfoy
New member
Username: Lexymalfoy
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 06, 2007 - 03:56 pm: |
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Spanking after sex feels really good, especially when I'm lying on my stomach, maybe falling into a deep sleep  , as my boyfriend is rubbing my bum, thighs, and back all lovingly. And then...without any warnings...
SLAP!!!
*sighs* Ah yes...good times. 
Sticks and stones may breaks my bones but whips and chains excite me...
...so throw me down, tie me up, and show me that you like me!
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Redbuttbyher
New member
Username: Redbuttbyher
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2007
| | Posted on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 12:59 pm: |
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My wife knows that before sex, I am game for anything but receiving a spanking after sex is not as much fun. She uses this information to get me to agree to a spanking while we are making love, or if she is nice and giving me a BJ. She will suddenly stop, and make me negotiate by agreeing to so many minutes of spanking afterwards before she will continue. By the time she is done, I may have agreed to 30 minutes or more. In the past, she has let me off the hook, but no longer. I always hope whe will forget it but I know when she gets up and goes to the closet that my moments of after-sex relaxing are over and I am in for a good paddling. |
Bbsbbs
Spanko
Username: Bbsbbs
Post Number: 17
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, December 28, 2008 - 02:01 pm: |
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I can't imagine spanking after sex would work for us.
For one thing like most men after sex I tend to fall asleep!
For another sex for us is about togetherness and tenderness and spanking afterwards rather cuts across this.
However I had not thought of it before in that order and will see what my wife thinks. If we try it I'll let you know!
bbsbbs |
Fred2010
New member
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, June 24, 2010 - 03:49 pm: |
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I always wondered why in the Story of O, she gets whipped after sex with Sir Stephen. I sort of loose interest after sex. |
Markiee
New member
Username: Markiee
Post Number: 4
Registered: 03-2013
| | Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 - 11:50 pm: |
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My wife won't make love to me without first going over her knee for a bare bottomed spanking. Then I have to thank her and pay homage to her naked hiney with kisses, licking and playful bites before she mounts me in a 69 position and our mutual satisfaction. |
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