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Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 11
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 03:24 pm: | 
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I am new on the board but have been a spanking lifer. I am currently single, but my last DD relationship was by far the best (Just had problems with her family that lead to us splitting!)
The phone bill was a biggie with us, way out of control. I was the sole provider. So since she was into being spanked (And did not want to work) we made an agreement: We had an antique oak paddle like the schools used to use (Major burner!) she agreed to take one school style swat full strength bare for every $10 over the basic plan, the day the bill come in. So needless to say she had planned to get about 2 to 5 swats each bill day, harsh but fair. This was great cause we actually looked forward to bills and ended up making love instead of fighting over the budget.
Well, guess she got into it too good & stopped using caution, because the day came when I opened the phone bill of a life time! She saw my face and said "What?". I said you got a $300 dollar phone bill. Her face went white and a little red in the cheeks, she took a deep breath and said "Let's go get my paddling, right now." She was over $240 dollars = 24 licks. I thought "No way! No arguing? No backing out of the agreement? Not that I was not ticked, but I thought she would resist a little. I admired her remource.
She stripped herself with out a word, got on the bed on her knees, bent over, put her hands on the head board, arched her back into a flawless position and just took one deep breath and said "I'm Ready".
By the 2nd swat she was fighting tears. Started sniffling after 3rd. About the 5th swat she broak down into sobing, I actually felt sorry for her long before it was over inspite of the money, but she said keep going when I paused. Her butt was on fire like never before, the darkest plumb red I had ever seen it. She never complained once and I never complained about the budget being shot, we had great sex afterwards and no hard feelings over the bill or spanking, guess that is what it is all about. |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 138
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 05:30 pm: |
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Great story AKA, thanks for sharing.
I know if I had that kind of agreement with my guy I would pay a little more attention to the budget... and look forward to bill days as well! |
Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 06:40 pm: |
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Run up a big bill and then ask him if he is up for it! =) He will be! The way to a man's paddle is through his wallet, trust me. |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 144
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 12:17 am: |
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LOL
The only problem is that I think he would be more likely to make me pay for it fiscally than physically! |
Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 17
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 02:39 pm: |
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Ouch! =) |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1768
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 06:00 pm: |
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great story...and a good idea too!! |
Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 549
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 06:39 pm: |
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Good story Aka! |
Tplayer
Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 209
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 09:08 pm: |
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Great story and we definitely need this in our house. I think I may show it to hubby and see if he gets any ideas!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 23
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, March 11, 2007 - 09:13 pm: |
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Thanks for all the incouragement! As a person that hates conflict and loves spanking I am always looking for such a solution! =) |
Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 229
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, March 12, 2007 - 11:05 pm: |
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Great Story AKA. Maybe I should get you to talk to my brother. ;) his other half can spend money like it is going out of style. since I know her so well, I told him myself to spank her. Her dad even told him too.
But I don't think she would be into it. But then again no one knows......
He's tried everything else, giving in, being patient, so why not spanking?????
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 34
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 13, 2007 - 03:21 pm: |
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One thing I can tell him for encouragement, when a girl leaves a man she always turns to family and friends for the go ahead. The father is saying she needs it. Odds are on his side. Ironicly my marriage ended after I stopped spanking her for awhile, I had a major injury that laid me up for a good bit, when the spanking stopped the fighting started and with help from her family it was over long before I recovered. He needs to get the bluff in and sounds like she would be extra fun to spank! =) |
Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 230
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 13, 2007 - 03:32 pm: |
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Sorry about highjacking the thread....
 I get the spanknigs instead of giving them. But in her case, I would gladly give her one. I know about three or four other people that would join in. Only problem is with the way things are going she would probably put all of us in jail for assault.
She can be lots of fun when she wants to be. She is in bi%#@ mode and seems to be staying in it.
All I can do is be there to listen to either side and hope all works out.
But I can say one thing, he sure has been a real good man with what all she has put him through. Better man than any I know.
It's funny he didn't seem to have that much patience when we were growing up. Seems like he didn't have any patience at all. Now he has the patience of a saint.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 37
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 13, 2007 - 09:42 pm: |
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He sounds like a great guy. I dated a girl just like the one your describing here out of school. Deep down she knew better than her behavior, we did DD for like 4 years and would have married, but she took a long distance job and in time I decided to end it. Opposites attract I guess, I always get the ones with a tire bitting tendancey myself! But she responded very well to the DD, most ones like that deep down are insecure about loosing the person and will respond well to some laying down of the rules.
You might try giving her the personality test I posted, cross your fingers she is a square, but she sounds like a triangle who needs it worse, but has a stronger will.
By the way is he a spanko or do you know? It does run in families. I noticed my father really liked the spanking scene in the movie "Tank" and other things indicated it as well. I know for a fact at least 3 of my brothers have been active spankers and one wants to be.
A good spanking changes things!
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Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 234
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 13, 2007 - 09:48 pm: |
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I don't know about this brother being into spanking. I would think so but not for sure. Now our middle brother is a different story. I would bet my life he is into spanking. Just little things that he has said and done over the years. I know for a face that our middle brother wouldn't put up with what the oldest one has.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 40
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 - 12:57 am: |
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Most the time we have had a trigger pulled in our lives that access those feelings, but the tendencies have to be there first of course. If you got it and the other brother has it, it is a safe bet, now your broom riding sister in law needs it! =) The fact that her father agrees sounds like either he regrets not raising her strict or he thinks that is the only way to handle her cause he did. It might help if you could find that one out. Deep down this girl knows the truth, convicting her of it is the trick.
From your description he may just be worn down by her. My toughest brother who had been quite a spanker in the past, married the wrong girl, they started out ok, he spanked her some, but she has worn him down and he is just all out of fight. She runs right over him. It is sad, not just for him, but I have never know a woman like that who was happy with her life.
Your post about your sister in law reminded me of one of my favorite spanking memories. So I wrote about it in the true story section. That preacher's daughter was much like this SinLaw of yours. All people are reachable if you can convict their heart, but that is not always easy. Maybe he should talk more with her father about advice, rarely will a female go against her husband and family at the same time.
A good spanking changes things!
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Hot1
New member
Username: Hot1
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 - 02:11 pm: |
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nice one |
Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 45
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, March 15, 2007 - 10:15 am: |
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Hey Cheekychipmunk, be sure and keep us up dated on your brother if anything changes, I sure hope it works out for him. I have seen my brother's "Dead eyes" as I call them, the broken spirit hidden inside and I know how you feel. I personally don't think many a man can hold up under that and GOD agrees with me (Proverbs 21:9 / 25:24) or actually I agree with HIM, he said it first.
A good spanking changes things!
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Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 236
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, March 15, 2007 - 05:45 pm: |
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will do.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 166
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 03:12 pm: |
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Hey cheeky,
I am sorry to be the devil's advocate, but our lifestyle is not for eveyone. And I for one, would be very, very careful about encouraging a couple to enter the lifestyle while having conflict/discord in their lives. There would be too much anger in the air.
It sounds to me like this couple has some serious issues in the mutual respect and communication departments, and these are essential to a happy spanking relationship. I am concerned that their issues will lead to him spanking her in anger, and her receiving it poorly. If she does agree to this new facet of their relationship, it is a serius breach of trust to spank in anger. If she she doesn't and he does it anyway, I hear the words "abusive" being used loudly....
Before they start playing around with this, I think it is important to understand why she is overspending and acting like a *itch (to quote you). Is she acting out for attention? Does she really not understand his concerns? Is she feeling too dominated to start with, and this is her way of fighting back? Or a million other possibilities...
I hope this is helpful. Good luck!
badgirl
(Guess I really am an octagon...) |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1782
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 03:22 pm: |
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I don't think Cheeky was suggesting that anyone start playing around this.
I'm sure Cheeky knows her brother well enough to bring up the subject or not.
Good luck Cheeky!! |
Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 238
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 03:39 pm: |
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Badgirl,
I don't think you have to worry about any spankings going on.
My brother loves her so much til he wouldn't hit her.
For some of the stunts she has pulled since last year, I would have hit her, if I had been him. But he wont. I really admire him for it.
she wants space, has her own trailer, so he is giving her space.
Hopefully all will work out for them. I just know if it was my hubby doing it to me, he would be outta here in a heartbeat.
I just casually mentioned that had I been him, I would have paddled her bottom really good.
Tammy,
thanks for the good luck wishes. Nobody in my family knows of my spanking fetish,so there wont be any open discussions on it.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 168
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 04:14 pm: |
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Sorry! I guess I misunderstood. My bad?
Tammy, I certainly didn't mean to question
how well Cheeky knew her family... My sincere apologies for any offense.
Cheeky, I only meant to caution, not insult. Forgive me it I overstepped my bounds. |
Cheekychipmunk
Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 239
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 16, 2007 - 04:19 pm: |
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Badgirl,
There is nothing to forgive you for.
There are things that I can't discuss here about what is going on, and until my sister in law decides to confide in someone we don't know why she is acting this way.
YOu made several good points.
No hard feelings.
OH Yeah. Thanks for your good wishes too. Right now his family can use all the good wishes and prayers they can get.
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
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