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Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Monday, April 16, 2007 - 09:23 pm: | 
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Hi. I'm new here. Thought I'd introduce myself. I've never been spanked before, but it's always been a fantasy of mine. I'm too nervous to ask for it. |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 245
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Monday, April 16, 2007 - 09:28 pm: |
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Welcome Bubble!
A lot of us feel/felt the same way. Look around, see if you can build up the courage. Have some fun! |
Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Monday, April 16, 2007 - 09:30 pm: |
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Thanks! |
Lash_le_roux
Junior Spanko
Username: Lash_le_roux
Post Number: 84
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, April 16, 2007 - 11:47 pm: |
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Bubble,
Lash Le Roux 
: Be sure brain is engaged before putting mouth in gear. — Author Unknown
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Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 596
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 09:12 am: |
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Welcome to the den Bubble!!You should get some good tips from some of the ladies here.Tell us a little about yourself. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1907
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 10:48 am: |
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Hi Bubble its nice to meet you!!
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Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 05:57 pm: |
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A little about myself? I'm from Pennsylvania. I'm in my twenties. I work as a secretary. I have a boyfriend, but he's pretty conventional, so I've never explored my fantasty with him. |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 250
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 08:12 pm: |
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Well, Bubble, not that you should be completely up front about it, but... If you've never asked how do you know?
Have you dropped any hints? There are some movies with great spanking scenes... Blushing, and something as benign as "interesting" might get him thinking.
Of course, once he opens to it a little, you will probably need to talk about it beforehand. |
Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 09:12 pm: |
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Actually, he gave me a playful smack on the ass the other night. I had a few glasses of wine in me, so my inhibitions were low. I did allude to the fact that I enjoyed it. The spank hasn't made a reappearance just yet. That's a start, right? I almost feel a little uncomfortable bringing something like this into our bedroom for fear it will change our dynamic. Is that normal? |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 257
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 10:27 pm: |
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I don't know that I have enough experience to tell you what is normal or not, but I can tell you that I felt the same way. My bf and I are still pretty new at this, and I know we both worry about that sometimes.
Part of our comfort-precautions is that we make sure that not every intimacy revolves around spanking. We try to sprinkle it here and there, like other forms of intimate play.
An easy-ish way of bringing it up again might be to leave the computer at this website, where he can see it. If he sounds horrified, you can always backtrack with a "oh I was just fooling around on the net -- you find the weirdest things" and work on him slowly. Most likely though, he will be intrigued.
At least I think so. The mods probably could offer some valuable input here. Bethie? Tammy? Fanny? Shylah? Have I put my foot in my mouth... again? |
Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 5
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 10:50 pm: |
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That doesn't sound like bad advice to me. I'm just so nervous! If he isn't into it, I'm worried that he'll think he's not satisfying me in bed. He got a little bent out of shape when he couldn't make me climax last week. I mean, c'mon. I don't finish everytime . I don't want him to think this is something he has to do to keep me happy. I'm happy with our energetic sex life. I just want a little something more. I guess I'm afraid of rejection.
It's so nice/new to be able to talk about this. I never have before...Thanks! |
Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 - 10:53 pm: |
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double post
(Message edited by tammynx on April 18, 2007) |
Spankynyc
New member
Username: Spankynyc
Post Number: 42
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 18, 2007 - 12:18 am: |
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Hello, Bubbles, Welcome to a nice site. Why couldn't you live in NYC? LOL! Anyway I like your nickname, it is cute. The advice given by my fellow spankers and spankees is usually right on point. I hope it works for you and your boyfreind. Take Care and Enjoy yourself. |
Bubble
New member
Username: Bubble
Post Number: 7
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 18, 2007 - 07:34 am: |
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Thanks Spanynyc!
Guess what? He gave me a few little whacks last night. I think he is enjoying this, but he's a little hesitant. So far so good. We are easing our way into it.
I can't wait until the day he is comfortable enough to take me over his knee!
Thanks for helping me out. |
Badgirl
Spanko
Username: Badgirl
Post Number: 259
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 18, 2007 - 09:51 am: |
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I am glad things are working out for you. Just remember: Slow and steady win the race. |
Weasel
Spanko
Username: Weasel
Post Number: 258
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 18, 2007 - 12:04 pm: |
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Hi bubble - grats on getting spanked, hope you have many more to enjoy!
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1792
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, April 23, 2007 - 03:17 pm: |
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Welcome to the Den.
This is a meet and greet area so in order to continue your conversation, start a new thread under one of the topics that fit it.
Thanks
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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