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Pegus
New member
Username: Pegus
Post Number: 5
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 09, 2007 - 05:56 pm: | 
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I recently broke up with my spanking partner and have yet to find another. We were both secretive about this aspect of our relationship. I know some one will eventually appear but in the meantime I have some very strong needs going unmet
It has gotten to the point that I have tried self spanking. I am having two problems giving myself a hard spanking. First, it is hard to take as much as when I give it to myself. Second, it is hard for me to hit the target I want, all the positions I have tried seem awkward. I'm right handed and it is difficult for me to reach around and give proper attention to my left cheek. Any suggestions? Also has anyone found an implement that works well for this pupose? |
Burningcheeks
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Username: Burningcheeks
Post Number: 7
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, May 10, 2007 - 09:56 pm: |
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i found a long belt works for me,depending on witch hand you use, and put the other hand on your shoulder so its out of the way and try lighty raping the belt across one cheek of your bum to get the right place you want and then extend the stroke acroos both i think you will so find the target |
Rawhide
New member
Username: Rawhide
Post Number: 20
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, May 20, 2007 - 07:40 am: |
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Pegus,
I found that if you use a wooden hair brush with a long handle, you can't miss! Plus it gives your bottom all the attention you will need! Good luck with the sting! I got mine from The Country Store. I believe that was posted here in ths discussion area. If you need the URL, ask in the discussion area.} |
Tdom
New member
Username: Tdom
Post Number: 9
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Monday, May 21, 2007 - 11:53 am: |
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I wish you luck, I've not found a successful method. Somehow it always seems better with a partner.
Tried setting up a spring-loaded paddle, but never quite got it set up where it worked. '
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 381
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 03, 2007 - 11:02 am: |
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I know this thread hasn't seen some attention for a while, but I have found that diaper position works best for me, because I was born without a hip socket, so I have issues balancing on my knees and other similar positions, but in diaper position I can hold my legs with one hand and paddle with the other (I'm ambidextrous, so I'ts easy for me to switch) I have also found that a rubber ruler (I found mine at wally world) works better if you are trying to get both sides on one pass.. (I'm incredibly tiny so it's easy for me)
Hope that helps
Krys
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rawhide
New member
Username: Rawhide
Post Number: 30
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, July 22, 2007 - 11:31 am: |
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I found that if you get a Jokari paddle and stand in front of the long mirror you can't miss your target area and you can swing in long hard swats. I left some marks on my butt with that thing! I do warm ups with a hair brush first and then a long handled wooden spoon, then a long handled wooden hair brush, ruler,wooden stirring spatula,paddle with holes, then the Jokari paddle last. By the time you get to the Jokari paddle your butt is about numb and hot and red but you can take more hits. I found this to be a very effective method. I have a hard time with a belt because it keeps hitting my hip and leaves a long lasting bruise! I have not tried the over the shoulder trick yet and am still wondering how you do that trick! You need to do a warm up before you get into the heavy stuff! I lost my spanking partner too so on with the search and I spank myself for practice and when I find her I will know how to use them effectively. Can someone tell me how you do the belt trick over the shoulder? I would probably hit my back! I hope this helped you out. Look in the mirror after each implement to see which is most effective. Oh and a long handled spatula is good for getting the sweet spot where your butt meets the leg. A real OUCH! You can use these implements with either hand too. I am right handed and it works out fine! DEN} |
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