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Clairebare
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Username: Clairebare

Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2006
Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 01:07 pm:   Edit Post

So, reading blogs makes me covetous of other peoples' toys. Over the past year or so, this smallish rubber paddle kept popping up. I decided I wanted one. I pestered my boyfriend like crazy. I got it for my birthday. I am an IDIOT.

I have a love/hate relationship with most of our toys. I claim to HATE the DD punishment strap and Jokari, but I definitely crave them. This is not the case with the rubber paddle. It made me cry, which I have never done (and, as I have gone back and re-read those original tempting blog entries, I notice I am not alone in crying during a session with it--why did I not notice this BEFORE???). I have a big spanking coming up (we have a book where he writes down my misdeeds. I sort of stole it and wrote in it. Oops), and I'm dreading its reappearance.

Sorry for the long post! Question: what implement did you REALLY want that you later REALLY wanted to just go away?
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Clairebare
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Username: Clairebare

Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2006


Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 01:55 pm:   Edit Post

I decided my avatar needed to reflect my hate for the rubber devil.
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1662
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 04:50 pm:   Edit Post

I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your experience with the rubber paddle. I absolutely love mine! Maybe that's due to the fact that it's only been used for erotic spankings, but I don't know. I honestly think it's yummy so it'd be hard to use it for anything else but erotic spankings with me. I have an iron butt, in case you hadn't guessed that yet.

As for the toy I thought I wanted but later wanted to go away, I don't really have one of those, due to the iron butt syndrome, you see. I have the greedy butt syndrome as well, so I can sympathize with you. And like you, I complain about certain toys, but secretly I want them. It's not something that's unheard of among us bottoms.

Now when it comes to toys he really wanted that I'd like to see go away, that's easy to say! The loopy rattan cane paddle can go away anytime. The same goes for the evil rubber spatula. Unlike the rubber paddle, that rubber thing is awful! I don't know where Dan found that thing, but it's the biggest, heaviest spatula I've ever seen. I can't imagine what anyone would ever need with a utensil like that.
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Clairebare
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Username: Clairebare

Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2006


Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2007 - 05:01 pm:   Edit Post

By the way, it is totally your fault that I got all into the idea of the rubber paddle in the first place. I can also "thank" you for the presence of Jokari in my life. And the CB paddle. I have GOT to stop reading your blog.

And okay, I'm kind of looking forward to my next round with the rubber paddle. I'm sure I feel this way right up to the first whack...

Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go look for a large rubber spatula!
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Neoserenity87
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Username: Neoserenity87

Post Number: 307
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, September 07, 2007 - 06:48 am:   Edit Post

there are two implements my honey uses. One I LOVE but can't seem to get him to make a reapperance with it, his belt is NICE. The one that I wish would return to his bedroom closet is his HUGE bath brush!! That thing is MEAN if it's not used right! I mean owie! It's hard wood and it's evil, and the thing that he does that drives me crazy i mean cRAZY is that he'll give me a good whack or two and then flip it over and use the brush very lightly on my burned bottom. It's enough to make me go insane....so i guess it's more of a love/hate relationship. LoL, that's my input. I'll watch out for that rubber paddle though!
Naughty little soldiers are always caught shaking in their combat boots.
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Boomer
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Username: Boomer

Post Number: 10
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 06:38 pm:   Edit Post

I own two of these rubber paddles - one black and between 1/4" and 1/2" thick, the other is just as thick, but holes and a plastic handle. There's no other feel like them and they burn deep. I have a tolerance for them and love the sensation (OK, pain) they produce. It's one of the first implements my wife reaches for when she wants to make an impression.
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Maren_s
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Username: Maren_s

Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2008
Posted on Monday, August 25, 2008 - 12:40 am:   Edit Post

Oh wow. Back when I too had a butt of solid steel, I bought a lot of toys that I have later come to half-heartedly regret.

The Jokari I actually like...but usually in hindsight or when it's not being used. I am NOT a fan of the rubber paddle, or the two tailed rubber tawse that bites like a demon! But I do enjoy the warm afterglow.

The implement that I absolutely cannot stand would have to be, without hesitation, the Punishment Paddle. Anyone who has ever read my stories will probably recognize it, because now and then I will write something true to life when this implement was used. The dimensions on this thing are as evil as its impact. It's 18" long, 3/4" thick and 4" wide. It is light weight, filling every smack with an intensity of sting unfathomable to the human psyche. The woodworking devil who honed this beauty into the dastardly piece of work that I keep buried in the farthest recesses of my back closet, made the paddle out of cherry wood, which gives it a lovely reddish-purplish hue...which, incidentally, is also the same color that my butt ends up being by the time it's finished with me.

The Punishment Paddle is never used for play, for erotic spankings, or for minor infractions of any kind. This paddle has such a mental and physical impact on me that it is only ever used for serious, hard core discipline, and I am ALWAYS in tears within just a very few smacks.

It's not a love/hate relationship. It's totally hate/hate. And the kicker of it is, I bought the darn thing. Too bad I don't have the power to burn it or in two seconds flat I'd be out at the BBQ with a can of lighter fluid and a match, by God!
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Bratattitude
Advanced Spanko
Username: Bratattitude

Post Number: 130
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Tuesday, August 26, 2008 - 01:54 pm:   Edit Post

I have this nasty little mat that I won in someone's online contest. I dread that thing. Esp. after the hairbrush that someone included with it!!!

Seriously. That brush is like prime evil when he uses it and then makes me sit on that darn mat. I have lucked out for a while and he has forgotten them -- I think!
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1889
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, September 02, 2008 - 05:14 am:   Edit Post

For the curious, the mat Bratattitude is talking about is the perfect compliment to any spanking regimen. It's a rubber mat with little nubs that were originally meant to keep it from moving when laid down. I think they call them non-skid runner mats. I perverted it though and cut it up into smaller mats for naughty bottoms to sit on. If it's turned upside down with the nub side up, it's a great mat for a spankee to sit on for extra tenderizing.

mat pic

It's the gift that just keeps on giving, right, Bratattitude?
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Maren_s
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Username: Maren_s

Post Number: 24
Registered: 08-2008
Posted on Tuesday, September 02, 2008 - 12:43 pm:   Edit Post

Bethie, what an awesome idea! That mat is so going to make it into my next story. I think I need to test it out first. I hear Office Depot calling! lol

(Message edited by maren_s on September 02, 2008)
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1892
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Tuesday, September 02, 2008 - 07:02 pm:   Edit Post

I found my runners at a couple of stores (Walmart & Freddie's). They come in various sizes and they're not expensive either.

Once you find one, you really should test it out for yourself. I suggest spending some time sitting on your mat before and after a spanking for the best results.

Yeah, I know, I'm always full of evil good suggestions.
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Rex138
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Username: Rex138

Post Number: 78
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Tuesday, September 16, 2008 - 03:35 pm:   Edit Post

Hey Clairebare,

I had the same experience. Saw that rubber paddle and had to have it. (What goes on in our minds?)

Couldn't wait to "feel" it on my backside.

Well, got a spanking with it once and then it must've "accidentally" gotten buried under some other "toys". I'll never tell.

And Bethie, that little mat butt tenderizer thing!? I don't think my Mistress will EVER see that picture.

My butt hurts plenty fine afterwards without it thank you very much!
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
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Slavegirl
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Username: Slavegirl

Post Number: 4
Registered: 09-2008
Posted on Sunday, October 05, 2008 - 12:24 pm:   Edit Post

i prefer leather to rubber for a paddle or tawse.

for one thing it is a natural material. most "rubber" paddles are some kind of polyester.

also being a natural "breathing" material it needs rubbing with grease every now and again and my man makes this part of the punishment ie i have to grease it two or three hours before the punishment. natuarally while i am greasing it it makes me think of what he is going to do with it and I spend the intervening two or three hours anticipating the smacks across my bum, which makes them more delicious when i get them.
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Tawseman
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Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 6
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Monday, October 06, 2008 - 01:47 pm:   Edit Post

Our most recent rubber paddle is made of 3/16" thick Neoprene rubber and is 12 inches long and 3 1/4 wide, with a 12 inch handle. It jinked a little as it went through the air, and its large area allowed a cushion of air to soften its impact.

I added four 3/8 holes near the end, and rounded the edges. To compensate for the weight of the rubber removed in making the holes, and to add a little extra weight, I backed up the holes with one washer each, glued to the back side. Now, it swings very straight and flat and hits with authority. It suits our preferences as to the balance between thud and sting. With proper lotioning, the skin lasts a long time, and there is no bruising.

It still doesn't wrap as well into the inner cheek when the near cheek is struck on a kneeling subject as our rubber tawse, but that is another story.

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(Message edited by bethie on April 02, 2009)

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