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Caridee
New member
Username: Caridee
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, August 26, 2007 - 09:38 am: | 
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I think many of us have not only positive memories but also negative memories from spankings. Which would be the best/worst spanking you ever received/gave and why do you consider it the best/worst? |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1668
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 26, 2007 - 05:20 pm: |
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I'm a bit uncomfortable with this topic. When you ask for "worst" the conversation could go into areas we don't discuss here, such as abusive and non-consensual activities. A spanking can be severe without being abusive or non-consensual, but I want to make sure that those who answer are clear about that distinction. Please be careful when answering. |
Blushingbride
Spanko
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 128
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 26, 2007 - 06:13 pm: |
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That's easy... the best one is almost always the most recent one. The worst one is the one where he accidentally connected the wooden hairbrush with the side of my foot due to over-squirming on my part. My foot was bruised for about 2 weeks.
Life is short. Eat dessert first.
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Clairebare
New member
Username: Clairebare
Post Number: 23
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 26, 2007 - 06:42 pm: |
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I agree. I always look fondly at the most recent ones. One I wasn't crazy about was when I was on my back with my legs up and Jokari. With the legs straight up, it really leaves the sit spot exposed. He didn't even hit that hard, but the paddle was accurately placed. |
Prissietl
Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 230
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Monday, August 27, 2007 - 12:55 pm: |
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My best and worse were one in the same. It was with the belt. It hurt to walk the first night, hurt to sit for 3 days and i wore the proof of that spanking for over 2 weeks.  It was on my upper leg so everyone saw it, thank goodness i was on vacation and i didn't know many people.
Once a princess always a princess
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Caridee
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Username: Caridee
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2007
| | Posted on Monday, August 27, 2007 - 04:19 pm: |
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I agree Bethie, I should have clarified that I only asked about spankings that was given in agreement. I was not asking for spankings given in abuse.
My best spanking is difficult but I think the first time I received an orgasm from a long and hard (started medium and slowly grow in intensity to really hard) handspanking otk was one of the most overwhelmimg experience I ever had.
I consider 2 spankings the worst.
One was when I had been cheating on my boyfriend. He gave me two choices. Leave or get a spanking with the birch. I actually choose the birch. My god did that sting! And my god, did I bawl! But I choose it and I think I did deserve it. The 2nd one I'm not sure I should tell since I was not all in agreement to it, but it was much less severe than the birch. |
Caridee
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Username: Caridee
Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2007
| | Posted on Monday, August 27, 2007 - 05:18 pm: |
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Maybe I could ask about which spanking was the most memorable one?  |
Tmichellebrat
Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 155
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 12, 2007 - 08:56 pm: |
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The best spanking I had was when MG gave me my first erotic gg spanking. It was very nice and I have to say that it was the best orgasm I had in a very long time.
The worst spanking I have recieved from him was about a month and a half ago ...I had lied to him about money issues and he spanked me good for that. I got some very long corner time, and he spanked me with a strap, bath brush, and the loopy johnny which I absolutley hate but it was a well deserved spanking since I did lie to him! |
Valleygal
New member
Username: Valleygal
Post Number: 23
Registered: 09-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, September 13, 2007 - 11:40 pm: |
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well, I am oh so new to the spanking thing....I mean actually getting them in real life....lots of years of fantasy....but that's another story.
here's an experience that I just had a couple of weeks ago......at the time I have now had a grand total of 5 spankings...4 too mild and one that left me bruised for more than a week in less than 10 minutes.....
so......We have been corersponding (how do you spell that word!!) for several weeks now and as I am in need of a place to stay, he has offered me one, and I will get a spanking every night....oh goodie!! just what I am looking for......the fly in the ointment is that he is a "dom" type spanker, and no offence to anyone, for I am a firm believer in to each his or her own and go for it and have fun, but calling anyone sir or master or wearing a collar, well it pretty much sends me into fits of giggling.....and I made that very clear......
so, this fellow picks me up and off we go to his place,Of course he didn't follow my directions and has gone out of his way by 10 miles or more before he finally gets to me (what he never heard of maps before, I go all over the planet with maps!)and of course he's not in a good mood.. ....I wasn't in the car for 5 minutes before I knew that this wasn't going to work out. He wasn't scary by any means , what he was, was eyerolling, sleep inducing, so puffed up with his own self- importance, flat out boring that I kept having stern talks with myself. It is rude to laugh in someones face. but we've all been on them, those dates, the ones that last forever....
When we get to his place, an old water tower, so it was basically 3 stories high open all the way the only room with a door was the tiniest bathroom I had ever seen I my life... oh good this'll work!
by now I have dragged at least a couple of topics of conversation that limped along instead of the "word, word word.. splat!" exchange we had on the ride over......
but I have been traipsing up and down the steepest streets in this hilly little town I had been in, in a gajillion degree weather, and what I needed was a shower, mr. hosptality gave me a towel and a glass of iced tea ( no ice) and I repaired to that tiny little bath to giggle to myself and wash a thick layer of dust off me.
so out of the bathroom I slink, clad in my "spank me" outfit.....(remember I am desperate for a place to stay at this point) I love this outfit, long black silk shirt, waist cincher,(black) black satin panties and lace topped black stockings, with 4 inch heels.....(sort of the sexy version of the girl in the guys shirt look, with heels)
after inquiring if I was ready for my spanking, he led me up the stairs to his bed room where I sat onna bed and he dug around in his closet and came up with a ratty old backpack, which he swings onto the bed with a flourish.....zips it open and after acouple of minutes of rooting around in it, pulls out a wooden spoon.....ah no....says I, back it goes, next out is some white cotton clothesline....maybe says I..and then he pulls out a floggy thingy, what the hell I think and nod at him.
Come on upstairs to where I will spank you, fine, I love going up steep stairs in high heels... (since I only wear the things once a year, I am not the most stable creature on these things...)
so we arrive in yet another little bity room and I am looking at a computer table (with computer) and one of those high backed, I am mr. big office man, swivel chairs...I can see it has arms, not a good candidate for a nice OTK spanking....and the rest of the room is empty except for the stereo on the wall....but wait ..
hold on to the railing he tells me...the railing that is over the stairs. fine says I and leaning over, I grab the railing...kind of sticking my fanny out invitingly. smack...and a minute later smack again....pretty soon he has my shirt up over my back and is alternating slaps of his hand and lashes with this wet noodle tool he has, and I am wiggling my fanny and dancing my legs around....didn't hurt, I just wanted to do something with my legs, I was getting bored!
I swear, you know it's a bad spanking when you're bored...while your're being spanked!!!!
I know women have a reputation of "faking" orgasms, but I never thought I be faking a spanking!
Now that , my new den friends is a "bad spanking"
what a long strange trip it's been
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Buenaventura
Advanced Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 810
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Friday, September 14, 2007 - 07:47 am: |
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It never fails to amaze me how many really bad spankers there are out there.I,ve downloaded lots and lots of movies and the spankees run from mediocre to really excellent but 85 porcent of the spankers suck!I have no solutions for you valleygal except to keep looking or train one of your own.(Which is probably best) |
Bratattitude
Spanko
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 116
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, September 14, 2007 - 08:43 am: |
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Worst for me was the most bland and boring I ever got was from a guy I met (and I will show my age here) through shadowlanes old BOOK of ads they used to send out. We had corresponded and he seemed like a great role player. So i get all dolled up, have the apartment to myself and he shows up and is the most boring, UNplayful, roleplayer I ever met. Theer was no sizzle, no fun, no nothing. He spanked too hard, too fast, had no communication skills and was a total dud. All I got out of it was a sore backside and the knowledge that not all men can take it from paper and phone to real life.
The best I ever got...was from my husband who was at the time a guy I was dating. We had not been exclusive, he knew I saw other guys form time to time and one night I had been out with someone else only to come home to find him over. (His brother was dating my roommate and they were over hanging out) I was a bit tipsy and I honestly do not remember what transpired between us but before I realized it he had pulled me over his lap and while blistering my bottom informed me I would NOT be seeing anyone else. I was shocked and stunned and totally in love. He had never spanked me before. I had made a few comments about it but never thought of him doing it. Well OK I HAD fantasized but never thought it woudl become reality. Years later, there are days I wish he wasn't SO good at it. He realized early on a good spanking cured manyt hings between us and it remains a part of our lives. (I still prefer good girl spankings...) |
Valleygal
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Username: Valleygal
Post Number: 24
Registered: 09-2007
| | Posted on Friday, September 14, 2007 - 11:48 am: |
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boy isn't that the truth aqbout not making it from paper and phone to real life!!!!!!!!
I think most of the guys I have run into are more afraid of hurting me than anything else....but that's what safe words are for isn't it?????
Ah well, it's hard enough to find "true love" much less someone who is willing and able to you a good spanking tooo!!!!!
But patience and perseverance gets you a lot farther than sitting there waiting to be found.
I hope.
what a long strange trip it's been
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Yhtac72
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Username: Yhtac72
Post Number: 4
Registered: 09-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, October 14, 2007 - 08:35 pm: |
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Ahh the best: the best was a planned spanking that I had definitely earned. He had told me I was going to get a spanking but he was too angry to give it to me then. (I had forgot to put a bill payment in the mail and the lights went blink then off) Four days passed and when I woke up there was a note on the mirror saying be ready at 5 pm today be in the corner when I get home. And let me tell you I started at 12:00 watching the clock. I watched it all afternoon while I was at work and I rushed home and was in that corner by 4:55. Why tempt fate? He came home and I heard the car pull up, I heard the front door open and I heard every move he made. Then he came in lit a couple of candles and turned off the light. THe last thing I heard was the belt coming out of his belt loops. That sound almost made me weak in the knees. JESUS I thought. He did not say a word just came to over to the corner grabbed my arm and brought me over to the chaise louge and OTK I went. He spent a good amount of times over my jeans before he told me to stand up and take them off. He then quite frankly wore me out. Not saying a word the whole time. Tears were rolling down my face and after it was all over he put me in the corner again bare bottom with my hands on my head. When he came back he cut on the lights and said "I don't want to have this conversation again" lol POINT MADE
The worst was my first spanker. He decided he wanted to make his own paddles. Do I need to say more? |
Bellaluvsspike
New member
Username: Bellaluvsspike
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, October 14, 2007 - 11:30 pm: |
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This is a hard one. I don't think I can pick a favorite. I can EASILY pick the worst one, though. It was with the guy I am currently kinda dating, who happens to not be into spanking, but is making a damn good effort. But I forgot to tell him that I'm used to taking canings slowly, and he assumed that it should be given at the same pace/frequency as he was used to giving me with his belt.
Worst damn 60 seconds of my life. Owchie! It didn't help that my mind went blank and I forgot our safeword for a bit. |
Marygrace
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Username: Marygrace
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Monday, November 12, 2007 - 10:52 am: |
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the best one i ever got was at a spanking pool party at a private home. everyone knew and liked everyone in advance. we were all into the scene. at one point, every sub got to pick her or his Domme or Dom. like a sadie hawkins day dance. and we all went poolside over the knees of the partner we chose. what made it so great was that all of us got it bare at the same time. you have to be careful about who you do this with, given hypocracy and such in general society. here, it was so free, open and normal. for once, you felt part of group where you totally fit in and were accepted. |
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