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Glory
New member
Username: Glory
Post Number: 12
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 05, 2007 - 07:50 pm: | 
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My best friend knows of my "lifestyle". She knows that my husband is disciplined when he needs it. I have another friend who is spanked on occassion by her husband, and I have "helped out" a time or two. They are my close friends, and they do not judge me or my husband. It's nice to chat with my friends about ALL of my life.
Does anyone here share their personal info with their "vanilla" friends? |
Rose
New member
Username: Rose
Post Number: 21
Registered: 06-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 05, 2007 - 10:29 pm: |
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No, absolutely not. And I seriously doubt that any of my friends or family would guess this about either my husband or me. I'm just not comfortable with sharing this part of my life with them. |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 1419
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 06:19 am: |
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I agree with Rose 
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Bratattitude
Spanko
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 111
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 07:24 am: |
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I know a lot of us have visited this topic once or twice so you might find some helpful inshight from some old posts on here - if you dig thru them.
As for me none of MY siblings know...but my sister in laws both know ad one even practices DD in their home too. The other does nto practice but she has coem to understand how we do and she is actually very supportive and tries to keep me and my other SIL out of trouble. |
Lil_bit
New member
Username: Lil_bit
Post Number: 37
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 07:39 am: |
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We have one "vanilla" friend who knows but isn't quiet sure about the whole thing. He really doesn't believe it. As for the rest of them no way. None of them would understand. |
O4mstrsnee
New member
Username: O4mstrsnee
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 09:58 am: |
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As I have gotten older I have found that I have less problems with others knowing that I am in the lifestyle. Many of my friends and family just say be safe and be happy. My Mom had a bit of a hard time accepting it because she saw it as my being weak at first. Now she just says do what you want and i will hope you are safe and happy but please do not flaunt it in my face. |
Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 303
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 02:21 pm: |
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little me??? I don't tell ANYONE who's vanilla. They just don't understand plain and simple. As for in relationships I only bring it up if I'm asked what my fetishes are....what else I'm going to do lie? Can I help it if I'm turned on by my man telling me I'm a naughty little girl and I need a spanking??? It's all preference really, as to who you tell. As long as your happy with your level of comfort. ;-)
Naughty little soldiers are always caught shaking in their combat boots.
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Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 304
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 02:28 pm: |
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a tender issue indeed, this one is all about your comfort level really. Personally I don't tell any vanillas. It's just a part of my life that's too personal. As far as relationships go I will only tell my guy if he askes what my fetishes are....what else I'm going to do lie?I can't help it if I'm sooooo turned on by a guy telling me I'm such a naughty girl and I need a spanking!;-)
Naughty little soldiers are always caught shaking in their combat boots.
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Oftenred
New member
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 31
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2007 - 07:16 pm: |
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I have two sisters who know and are cool with it and one couple who are close friends who also are into it. I think maybe some of my other family menbers may know or suspect, but would never mention it. And I agree as I get older I really am less concerned about who knows. |
Glory
New member
Username: Glory
Post Number: 13
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Friday, September 07, 2007 - 06:03 pm: |
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Its kind of funny when you start talking about sex with friends the topics that come up,,,and how many people might be interested in spanking as a part of foreplay. Its not a far stretch for them to understand DD as well. I'm not ashamed of it.. I just wish more people were understanding. I have a feeling a lot of people are accepting once they fully understand it. |
Spankynyc
New member
Username: Spankynyc
Post Number: 46
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 09, 2007 - 08:31 pm: |
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I once had a vanilla person tell me that anyone that was into spanking was a real freak. And she said it with such disgust on her face. So somethings I rather keep to myself. However what is funny about this is that people who are into heavy S/M regards us spankers/spankees as lightweights. Some of them also look at us with disgust. So go figure. |
Valleygal
New member
Username: Valleygal
Post Number: 11
Registered: 09-2007
| | Posted on Monday, September 10, 2007 - 02:17 am: |
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Nope nope nope nope.....would probably dig a hole and then pull the dirt on over me.......waaaayyyy to shy for anyone to know, hey I think I am doing good to let the guy spanking me know I want to be spanked !!!
sure am glad you guys are around ......her I thought I was only one of maybe 40 or 50 people in the country!!!! whew!
what a long strange trip it's been
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Abigaillynn
New member
Username: Abigaillynn
Post Number: 12
Registered: 09-2007
| | Posted on Monday, September 17, 2007 - 03:12 pm: |
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Only a few people know, and that is my Mother-in-law (almost) and Sis-in-law and brother-in-law. And they all support my fiance in it.
I'm just a naughty little girl in an adult's body, whats so wrong with that???
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Mylittlesecret
New member
Username: Mylittlesecret
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 13, 2007 - 05:28 pm: |
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There are 3 people that know: my hubby, my ex-hubby, and my boss (don't ask) Oh-once a girlfriend and I went to the sex store and I bought a crop-she thought i was going to use it on my hubby! she was pretty wild, and honestly could have joined the fun if she had stayed in my life....My other friends would be shocked. LOL....my conservative girlfriend was over with her husband, and he noticed "Secretary" on my DVD shelf and started asking my opinion of the movie...that's about as close as I want to get.... |
Paddlebutt
New member
Username: Paddlebutt
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 14, 2007 - 09:19 am: |
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This is something very private and both my wife and i would never let anyone know what goes on in our bedroom. |
Lil_miss_naughty
New member
Username: Lil_miss_naughty
Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 27, 2007 - 03:29 pm: |
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no one else knows just my online friends i wouldnt tell anyone in rl because they wouldnt understand |
I_whisper
New member
Username: I_whisper
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, December 01, 2007 - 02:24 pm: |
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My hubby's bestfriend knows as he delivered my first by antoher's hand at my hubby's request in front of him.It was quite exciting being over his knees exposed and knowing he was watching.}}}
I WHISPER
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