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Mstrjasotk
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Username: Mstrjasotk

Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2007
Posted on Tuesday, September 18, 2007 - 05:06 pm:   Edit Post

What part does embarassment play in your spanking play? Not talking about humiliation, but embarassment at having your pants or panties taken down, being over a lap, standing in the corner, being scolded, or just being told you are going to get a good spanking, and someone over hears it.
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Clairebare
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Username: Clairebare

Post Number: 25
Registered: 08-2006


Posted on Tuesday, September 18, 2007 - 08:36 pm:   Edit Post

My guy sits me down and lectures pre-spanking, and I find it just about impossible to make eye contact. He also makes me repeat phrases during the spanking about how I've been naughty or whatever, and I feel like a fool.

Also, I know my neighbor can hear, and that makes the other cheeks red.
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3341
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, September 19, 2007 - 01:57 pm:   Edit Post

No embarrassment here, I love every part of it. Very thrilling.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tmichellebrat
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Username: Tmichellebrat

Post Number: 160
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Wednesday, September 19, 2007 - 09:36 pm:   Edit Post

It takes alot to embarrass me and I just think it's because of my experience as a spankee. But when I do something wrong to disappoint my guy I feel so ashamed that I can hardly look him in the eye when he is lecturing, or scolding me. Although I can say that during a spanking I hate being naked in front of him and I think it's because I know that I am wrong and what I did was wrong and it's just embarrassing to have my clothes off during a punishment.
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Caridee
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Username: Caridee

Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2007
Posted on Thursday, September 20, 2007 - 06:08 am:   Edit Post

It's always a bit embarrassing to get the skirt lift up and panties pulled down. But I have been spanked in front of other once and it can't be more embarrassing than that. I've also been spanked hard in a hotel room where I am sure those who passed our room heard it. Several times my boyfriend theathens me with a spanking when other could hear it. I hate it and I love it at the same time.
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David_m
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Username: David_m

Post Number: 2
Registered: 09-2007
Posted on Saturday, September 29, 2007 - 08:27 pm:   Edit Post

Hi All,
It's embarassing to even write here but standing in front of her, discussing why the spanking is necessary, with an aching erection is as embarassed as I care to be. Sheesh! If I look as silly as I feel }and I'm pretty sure I do, it's not surprising she likes that part. The sweet little darling does enjoy my discomfort. Hope all is well.
david
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Pixiekitten
Junior Spanko
Username: Pixiekitten

Post Number: 52
Registered: 02-2007


Posted on Monday, October 08, 2007 - 04:58 pm:   Edit Post

I think embarrassment is a valid aspect of a punishment spanking. In my relationship it heightens my level of submission greatly and shows my Husband that I am willing to take my punishment both physically & emotionally. It also makes the spankee very AWARE that she is being punished and is "on the spot" so to speak. For some, we get off on the embarassment/humiliation but that's a whole other topic.
"Naughty Pixies Always Get Caught."
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Marygrace
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Username: Marygrace

Post Number: 6
Registered: 11-2007
Posted on Tuesday, November 13, 2007 - 03:42 pm:   Edit Post

The part embarrassment plays for me is one of an extra thrill. The idea that i am taken over my partner's knees, skirt or dress up, panties down; and bare bottom fully exposed is a part of the total experience for me. And when one or more people we both agreed to being there is present, the embarrassment of them seeing what I am getting is both embarrassing, and a total turn on for me. I am not very often spanked as a punishment. For me, it's more about fore play, role play, games, fantasy fulfillment and spanking parties activites.

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