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Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 1
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 07:56 pm: | 
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I have been wanting my husband to start spanking me for a very long time(years).
I printed out all kind of dd articles and wrote him a letter and bought a book and put it in his briefcase last night. He is away from home tonight and i know he has to have found it by now for sure but he has not said anything yet???
is this bad or good???? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3387
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 02:47 pm: |
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There is no way of knowing until you see and speak to him. Good luck.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2456
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 04:53 pm: |
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Hi candy its nice to meet you!!
Its been my experience that sometimes men have to think things over before they say anything.
Good luck to you!! |
Punteam
New member
Username: Punteam
Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 07:15 pm: |
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Give him a chance to read the book. What my wife and I did to break the ice with spanking is to email each other as alter egos. We could say things in the email we felt nervouse saying on the phone of face to face. GOOD LUCK! |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 08:07 pm: |
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those are good ideas... he is home tonight but he did not mention it and all the material is gone from his briefcase.. i hope i did not make it worse |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 11:21 pm: |
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MAJOR UPDATE.... I was fussing about him not taking out the trash and he grinned and said i need to watch it because after my little letter i left him i may just get it!!! so he admits he read it!!!! so now I put a paddle in his briefcase!! wish me luck that i may get my bottom red by this weekend!!! |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2046
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 17, 2008 - 02:19 pm: |
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Hi Candy and Welcome to the Den!
It sounds to me that you have taken the first step. Now it's up to him. Don't get pushy and just give him time to digest it all. I think you'll soon have what you are looking for.
Keep us posted! Start a thread in the discussion area to let us know how you get along.
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Punteam
New member
Username: Punteam
Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Friday, January 18, 2008 - 06:29 am: |
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Keep us posted, WITH DETAILS!
Trust me send him an email confessing some thing you did wrong... |
Sunnyhunnylouie
New member
Username: Sunnyhunnylouie
Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2006
| | Posted on Friday, January 18, 2008 - 03:59 pm: |
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hello, Just thought I would put my two cents in I did the same thing a couple of years ago to my husband after about 2 weeks I asked him about it he still doesnt spank like I want but it did get the door open a little. Good Luck |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 9
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Friday, January 18, 2008 - 07:51 pm: |
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well now he gives my bottom a few pats as he walks away or rubs it when i give him a hug.. i think he is working up his nerve?? what do you think? |
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