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Lisamarie
New member
Username: Lisamarie
Post Number: 5
Registered: 07-2007
| | Posted on Friday, February 01, 2008 - 05:28 pm: | 
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I am so glad to hear from all of you on the limits I have with my vanilla husband. Nothing has changed as of now..but. I have read so much on the subject now that I think I know what the issue is...I belive..he just needs time to adjust. He is a great husband..beside the fact I have not had sex for 2 months...maybe I intimidate him..not my intention at all..but I am now at the point where I just need..do you understand? |
Lil_bit
Spanko
Username: Lil_bit
Post Number: 60
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, February 02, 2008 - 09:21 am: |
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Yes I more than understand. No sex for two months makes for a very cranky person. At least in my case it would. I know from experience it takes time for them to adjust to what we want. My hubby is not vanilla but is worried about hurting me so he holds back. We're working on it though. As for the sex part, could it be a medical issue? Maybe a checkup would help. Testosterone levels can be off and that can diminish sex drive. Just some thoughts for ya. Good luck. 
Life is not about the amount of breaths you take, its about the moments that take your breath away.
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Doitharder
New member
Username: Doitharder
Post Number: 1
Registered: 02-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 02:46 am: |
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I understand exactly what your going through but from the other side of the relationship. I love sex and love to be spanked but my wife is not too sure and thinks she is hurting me, what she doesn't understand is that's what I like as far as the not having sex and feeling like you intimidate him, you just need to talk. |
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