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Paddletime
New member
Username: Paddletime
Post Number: 3
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Friday, January 11, 2008 - 02:29 am: | 
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What's the best implement you've used? How do we start? What's a good first?
So far my spankings have been long and hard, by hand. I think I can take quite a bit.
I want to try a belt. What do you think? |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2042
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 03:36 pm: |
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There are several topics in the Spanking Discussion area that you might find interesting about implements.
check them out
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Whipped5
New member
Username: Whipped5
Post Number: 3
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 10:08 am: |
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When spanking long and hard by hand I think that it is very exhausting for spanker.
Using the belt makes much better effect in shorter time. 
Sweet Kiss of the LEATHER BELT!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3445
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 03:01 pm: |
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Paddletime, takes Shylah's advice about looking at some of the other threads. I am wondering why you are asking us if you are ready to move on to impliments, most especially the belt. This is something you need to discuss with your spanker and finding out if you are in agreement with what is best for the two of you.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Petergrimm
Spanko
Username: Petergrimm
Post Number: 80
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, February 23, 2008 - 08:32 pm: |
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Personally I would recommend a wooden spoon or a hairbrush over a flexible implement for a "first" implement due to the ease of control of stroke speed (hence intensity). With a flexible implement like a belt there is a sort of minimum speed that is needed to have reliable aim - and that may be to much for a first implement spanking. On the other hand, the spoon or brush can be easily controlled anywhere from a light tapping to ass blistering wallops so your top can monitor your response and feedback and adjust from less to more as needed |
Whipped5
New member
Username: Whipped5
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 01:55 pm: |
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Oh, }Petergrimm,}}}
You probably didn't notice the post of Fanny (witch I agree in full with), though it has been put before yours.
You could find out what Fanny said;
Yes, you are wrong when you recommend using the spoon or hairbrush for others.
They may work perfect in your situation but not for all.
My gf hates the both because the spoon should be in kitchen and does good job there and hairbrush mostly in the bathroom to do good job with your hair.
The best implement in our situation is one of the leather belts we decide to use for spanking. The genuine leather has a very positive influence on our bodies (and our feelings) when it touches our skin.
So you should learn out that what is good for you, it may be fatal for others.
Sweet Kiss of the LEATHER BELT!
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Bratattitude
Advanced Spanko
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 125
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 02:10 pm: |
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OK, my DH, has a very firm hand. His hand spankings alone are enough to get my attention. However, we ahve learned over time that while I cannot withsatnd many licks from paddles we have - I can take a fair number of licks from a belt. It is actually my preferred impliment - even if it is a bad girl spanking. My fav good girl spanking item is my bungee cord flogger. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2505
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 24, 2008 - 07:08 pm: |
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Whipped5,
At the start of the thread if you read it, asked for suggestions and I think that is all Peter was trying to do.
Please don't assume Peter is wrong or use words like "fatal" thats a very strong word.
When a poster askes for suggestions they are most likely to get a variety of answers.
That doesn't mean that one suggestions is wrong or another is right. |
Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 848
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 28, 2008 - 05:55 pm: |
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Whipped5:You might try buying a kitchen spoon and a hairbrush just for the bedroom .What the hell live a little!! |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2517
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 03:51 pm: |
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BV I'm sure you have a CLOSET full of "other" itmes just for the bedroom that can be used for spanking....
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Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 850
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, March 20, 2008 - 01:32 pm: |
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I,m accumulatin!Tammy |
Shippy
New member
Username: Shippy
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, March 23, 2008 - 06:29 am: |
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must be the cane. the swish followed by the pain!!! |
John028
New member
Username: John028
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, April 12, 2008 - 11:22 pm: |
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<b>lol with Buenaventura about the 'live a little' comment. I prefer the paddle. The belt, for me, is more difficult to control re damage.</g> |
Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 851
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 13, 2008 - 03:35 pm: |
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Now have 3 paddles a bathbrush a backscratcher (perfect for the sitspot)a cane a whip a chicote two straps(one of which belongs to Prissi,s husband  various kitchen implements (what the hell I use them in the kitchen too)all of which I plan to use on Prissi (2 and a half months to go dear) |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2532
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, April 14, 2008 - 12:43 pm: |
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Sounds like a good collection BV!!
I hope Pris has a tough butt she is going to need one for all that!! |
Prissietl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 279
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 15, 2008 - 02:02 pm: |
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Oh No No....I don't think so!!!!!!! 
Once a princess always a princess
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2534
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 - 10:45 am: |
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2102
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 - 02:10 pm: |
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I think everyone is picking on poor Pris.
BTW you guys...
tsk tsk tsk
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Prissietl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 281
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 - 08:14 pm: |
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Thank you Shylah 
haha BV 
Once a princess always a princess
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Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 855
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, April 17, 2008 - 01:24 pm: |
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Shylah could use an application of these tools almost as much as you Prissi. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2103
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, April 17, 2008 - 01:37 pm: |
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Well BV...bring your happy lil self to the UK and we will discuss that!!!
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Prissietl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 283
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 18, 2008 - 02:16 pm: |
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You go girl!!!!!!  Go Shylah, Go Shylah Go Shylah
Once a princess always a princess
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3477
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 18, 2008 - 05:17 pm: |
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You are right Pris, if I were BV I wouldn't mess with Shylah either.
I think both Shylah and I can hold our own whenever necessary. No, I take that back, I KNOW we can. 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2537
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 19, 2008 - 11:10 am: |
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Yeah you two are not to mess with.... I can see that...about both of you!!
I wouldn't like BV's odds if he tried!!! |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2109
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 19, 2008 - 11:42 am: |
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You make us sound like we are vicious or something.
Well..actually...
WE ARE!
MUWAHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAAAA
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3479
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 19, 2008 - 02:42 pm: |
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Not so much vicious, Shylah, just seekers of all that is fair and just a tiny bit vindictive.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2539
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 - 11:25 am: |
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yep yep yep...just what I was thinking.....
whew....it is hard being the GOOD one around here!!! |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2114
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 - 01:31 pm: |
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COUGH!!! SPUTTER!!!!! CHOKE!!!!!
Paddle Faster!!!! I hear Banjos!!!
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Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 856
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 - 01:31 pm: |
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You,re all lucky I live so far away!My spankee is as tough as they get(the only kind of women that,s interesting)And Shylah don,t give up hope I just might get a trip across the pondone of these days! |
Scartlet_bottom
New member
Username: Scartlet_bottom
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 03:57 pm: |
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Darn guys I've been enjoying reading all these posts so much I walked away from the Bacon I left on the stove and when I went to check on it the pan was on fire! If my Paddler was home I'd be in for a whooppin! As It is I think it is time for self discipline so I drew a punishment card and to my woe it calls for 100 smacks of the studded leather paddle-back in a bit with a sore tushie to boot! |
Darkdruid09
New member
Username: Darkdruid09
Post Number: 6
Registered: 12-2009
| | Posted on Thursday, February 18, 2010 - 03:48 am: |
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We have found a heavy suede flogger to be a very useful implement and not as difficult to control as you might think? It is very versatile as it can be used for stroking and for striking. My wife, who is not as into the spanking as much as I am (but I am working on that? ) finds the flogger easy to take as even hard strokes still give only a mild sting. And it is a great tool for warm ups. |
Scartlet_bottoms
New member
Username: Scartlet_bottoms
Post Number: 13
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, February 18, 2010 - 10:45 pm: |
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My advice is EXPERIMENT! If something interests you try it - you can always throw it away. Unless you have no money concerns try what you havefirst -if you like- it you can look for more professional versions of what you have. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2755
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 20, 2010 - 03:39 pm: |
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What no HANDS??
MY husbands hand can be WICKED when he wants it to be!! |
Slipperboi
New member
Username: Slipperboi
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2010
| | Posted on Monday, March 15, 2010 - 08:29 pm: |
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i like the slipper heavy furry with rubber soles very effective... |
Winggoddess
Spanko
Username: Winggoddess
Post Number: 26
Registered: 09-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2011 - 01:20 am: |
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Eeeks! My husband took his belt to me! We came home from a dressed up evening out, I slipped off my dress, and he whipped his belt off and snapped it at me. I said "come on, try it." I turned to face my dresser and placed my hands on top of it. He folded his belt in half, and hit me once. He asked, "harder?" "Yes", and he hit me twice more. They were really light it seemed to me, and it was only 3 times, but omg! I love my husband. I said thank you. |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 162
Registered: 08-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2011 - 09:06 am: |
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Very nice Winggoddess! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3859
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2011 - 09:33 am: |
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Glad you got your wish, Winggoddess
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1856
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2011 - 09:46 am: |
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 Congrats...Keep encouraging him and he may decide taqke the leap and give you what your really asking for
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Winggoddess
Spanko
Username: Winggoddess
Post Number: 28
Registered: 09-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2011 - 04:25 pm: |
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Thanks everyone. I think the next thing I'm going to do is write him a letter, which I read about as a suggestion on this web site. I think I really owe everyone on the Den a big thank you too for sharing all your thoughts. THANK YOU! |
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