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Bobbi71
New member
Username: Bobbi71
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 12:02 pm: | 
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Hello! Hmmmm...How did I get myself into this position? I had been dating a man for a couple of months and he started getting me involved into new interests. He started things out subtley by one night I met him at a truck stop, and he used one of his denim shirts to restrain my arms. At first I thought does he think he is raping me, hell I'm putting out? But I found the experience to be soooo exciting. Then we tried other ways of light bondage and light spanking. OMG I love it! We have since broken up and I am scared I will never have another partner who is so insync the way we were!!!! There was so much more I wanted to try with him... |
Wild1
Junior Spanko
Username: Wild1
Post Number: 68
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 12:31 pm: |
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welcome to the den
wild1 ;)
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Bobbi71
New member
Username: Bobbi71
Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 07:09 am: |
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Thankyou wild1 for posting to my greeting. 
(Message edited by bethie on August 20, 2005) |
Smartnnaughty
Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 227
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 07:59 am: |
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Bobbi-
Do tell! What things did you want to try with him? We LOVE details here!
SNN |
Ziggy
Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 117
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 09:22 am: |
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welcome Bobbi71, I know how you feel. I had a boy friend who use to spank me, and now I am married to a great guy who thinks this spanking thing is nuts. we have alot of fun here in the den |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 385
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 09:42 am: |
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Welcome to the Den Bobbi.
I know it feels right now as if you barely got a taste of what you enjoy, but there are many, many wonderful men out there who are into spanking and bondage as well as other things. Keep looking and you'll find the right one for you.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Bobbi71
New member
Username: Bobbi71
Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 07:51 pm: |
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To address SNN
The things we tried were light bondage, some spanking but not much leaving me desiring it all the more. Oh how i wish he would have taken me over the knee. And even though we had grazed the spanking a bit we only used his hand and never used any implements such as a paddle, belt, or strap etc, etc. So I have an intense desire to be spanked over the knee, but in my fantasy I want the warm up to be with my jeans up and then later pulled down.
I am a sub, I love being a sub it makes me feel feminime and protected and loved (at the time). My dom would say to me "When you finish sucking my cock, what are you going to do next?" To which I would always reply "What ever you tell me to." I believe we both loved that answer. I loved the excitement of wondering what was going to happen next. We would barely start into this and in an instant I was wet as wet could be, in some ways he seemed like the only REAL MAN I had ever been with.....everyone else was so VANILLA!!!!
Me and he broke up because he continued to catch me in stupid, white lies, which lead him to believe I was practicing up for the big lies, now had he after my 1st or 2nd lie gave me a spanking, I believe I would have really made an effort not to let a lie slip through my lips again. Although the thought of being spanked almost intoxicates me, it almost scares the hell out of me, because I hated being spanked as a child growing up. In fact, most of the time I could plead my way out of it or have my parents use an alternate means to disapline. |
Bobbi71
New member
Username: Bobbi71
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 07:54 pm: |
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Thanks Ziggy and Wolfie for your comments, Bobbi |
Bobbi71
New member
Username: Bobbi71
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 08:54 pm: |
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After being in a relationship of this nature and loving it the way I do I could never go back to old style relationships.... They are so generic...so VANILLA....yes I have adopted the word vanilla and i give this sight the credit for giving it to me...To go back to a plain jane relationship would be like getting a pizza with no cheese it. |
Ziggy
Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 122
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 09:51 am: |
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boy do I know that feeling. Bobbi, but I really hope my hubbie at least try it. not that I haven't given him enogh reasons to, LOL |
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