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Wilson
New member
Username: Wilson
Post Number: 7
Registered: 03-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 - 07:34 am: | 
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This may sound dumb to some of you, but, has anyone else ever got bored with the routine of being or giving a spanking ?
We try to vary our routine but it always seem to end up the same. It just doesn't have that butterfly stomach, chills (when called out) feeling lately.
It is not that I have lost interest, but, sometimes it seems THAT is the case.
Suggestions.....? Has anyone else felt this way ?
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Beloved_prisoner
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Username: Beloved_prisoner
Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 11, 2008 - 12:10 pm: |
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Try varying the spanking technique. If you were using your hand, use a crop, a paddle, even a whip or a flogger. If you were doing it OTK, maybe have the spanked person kneel in front of a chair (or bench or bed), with his/her body over the chair. Change techniques from time to time to keep interest - if you are the one delivering the spanking, change the technique from time to time without telling the spanked person which one you're using (but, of course, only use techniques your partner has consented to to start with; but vary between agreed techniques on whim).
Also, you could try adding role-play and/or some mild "kinks" (such as ordering the spanked person to stand in the corner while being spanked, or bondage if you both like it). |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3500
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 11, 2008 - 02:36 pm: |
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Wilson, I think anyone in a long term spanking relationship is going to have their interests wax and wane. This is probably true of an activity. There have been times when my partner or I have a temporary "boredom" set in. You can try any of the things prisoner suggested or just let it go for a bit and suddenly it all seems exciting again.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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