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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1916
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 04:15 am: | 
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You should never ever say "Ohhh I hate that!" or the equivalent while watching a spanking movie with your spanker! I did that very thing recently while watching a movie with Dan and my bottom paid the price.
For starters, the movie featured a male spanker and a female spankee and even though it was a little lame, it was watchable. After a long hand spanking, the guy reached down and placing his hand flat against the upper part of his spankee's bottom, he pushed up which made her skin get tight. That made the underside of her bottom tight and more accessible. It also gives each spank on that area extra sting.
When I saw the guy in the movie do that, I immediately blurted out, "Ohhhh I hate that!" I think I even shuddered.
Dan noticed, of course, and the next day, in the middle of a spanking, he did the exact same thing! And he did it while he was spanking me with the rubber paddle! That thing burns enough without that extra treatment. 
This isn't the first time this has happened either. Will I ever learn??? Don't draw attention to spanking techniques unless I want them used on me! 
I'm telling you all this to share my latest lesson learned. Anyone have anything they'd like to share so other unsuspecting bottoms can learn from your experiences? Or you can just laugh at mine.  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2647
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 09:56 am: |
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I made the same mistake!! I said something about "hating" a cetain paddle we have...so of course that is what hubby uesd the next he spanked me.
Well thinking I would be smart about it..the next time we got an "evil" hair brush...
I said "I really like that!!" He used it for the few weeks telling me he knew how much I liked it.
I didn't like it was awful!!
I cant win!!! |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1918
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 05:44 pm: |
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Well, I guess that means my next plan is out of the question then. I was going to try the reverse psychology tactic on Dan but now I see that might not work.
Thank you for testing that theory out for me, Tammy! What a pal!  |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1912
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 14, 2008 - 09:37 pm: |
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I can never remember not to shoot off my mouth when I dislike a toy, position, trick or whatever...my Dom always pays attention to those things and uses them against me! And reverse psychology doesnt work either, he knows me too well for that. It's too hard for me to lie when Im flinching and squealing and trying to get away..."Why yes sweetie, I LOVE that strap!" 
My biggest problem has always been my curiosity. I wonder what that would feel like, or I wonder what that position is like will always get me into trouble. The latest position left me leg locked on the bed, sit spots wide open for him to torment at his leisure. When will I ever learn? 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1921
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, September 15, 2008 - 11:47 pm: |
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Curiosity gets my bottom in more trouble than anything else I do. I can't just think something, I have to blurt it out. Then I wonder about what I just said, agreed to, or worse, just bought. 
I've got to get the greedy bottom buying urge under control!!!
That is, after my latest purchase arrives...and after I buy that one other thing I've been thinking about...oh yeah, I almost forgot I wanted that one paddle I saw...ummmm...I really need to start a support group for this.  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2649
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 16, 2008 - 12:23 pm: |
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No problem testing the theory out Bethie...
I just wish it would have worked the way I wanted to!!
Men tend to be a little "slow" sometimes so I was thinking it was perfect.
About that support group....I could lead that and help you because I only actually buy maybe 1/4 of what intrests me..so maybe we could get you down to 1/2 instead of you getting everything!!! |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1915
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 17, 2008 - 01:06 am: |
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Is there a 12 step program for spanko's? 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1922
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 18, 2008 - 05:37 am: |
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I wish there was a program! Could we have chocolate, cookies, or a combination of both at the meetings? I could do that! 
I'll need lots of cookies support to kick the toy habit because Dan sure doesn't discourage me. The man actually laughs at me when a toy I bought is more than I bargained for and I start complaining when he's spanking me with it. He very cheerfully tells me that I shouldn't complain because I'm the one who wanted it bad enough to buy it. Ack!  |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2651
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 18, 2008 - 10:43 am: |
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I think you need a support group for the support group!!
Ever notice how the word "cookie" creeps into every support group?? |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1917
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, October 02, 2008 - 11:58 pm: |
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Ok, can we replace the word cookie with the word "cupcake"? I think I could get a lot of support from a cupcake when it comes to kicking my toy obsession/habit. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1927
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 03, 2008 - 05:34 am: |
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Mmmmm cupcake! I love cupcakes so much that it might help curb my toy buying fits.
It's funny, Wolfie, that you brought up cupcakes in this thread because I had a wonderful fancy cupcake last night and then later I got spanked with that extra stingy acrylic paddle I bought. If only I'd had that cupcake for my support system when I first saw that paddle I might have been able to resist it! |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1921
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 03, 2008 - 09:15 am: |
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Ok Bethie...first part of the 12 step program to keep from buying more nasty toys:
1) Chocolate chip cookie
2) Brownie
3) Cupcake...
Oh yeah, step 12 happens to be beefcake instead!
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1931
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 08, 2008 - 05:35 am: |
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I can't wait to get to step 12 then! Yowza!
With all those steps, I might have to spend some quality time on the step machine at the gym though. |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1927
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 08, 2008 - 09:46 am: |
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I couldnt agree more. Too many cupcakes makes wolfie a chunky monkey. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2660
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 08, 2008 - 01:30 pm: |
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ohh boy now we need a cupcake support group!! |
Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1930
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, October 09, 2008 - 12:51 am: |
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Count me in... 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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