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Tamedshrew
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Username: Tamedshrew
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, January 27, 2008 - 11:10 am: | 
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Sorry for clogging the board with questions, but I have another one! My bf likes my shirt on during the spanking but everything else off---more like a punishment that way he says (even tho we only do erotic). This true for anyone else? Also, I always make him pull down my pants/pull up my skirt. Anyone else have preferences for this? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3425
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 27, 2008 - 02:25 pm: |
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We spank in the same manner. I am (usually) completely dressed and he spanks me OTK on layers down to the bare. I find it incredibly exciting and arousing. Oh sorry, this is supposed to be disciplinary......I have a secret in the fact that I find it ALL erotic, even when it is disciplinary.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Caridee
Spanko
Username: Caridee
Post Number: 20
Registered: 08-2007
| | Posted on Monday, January 28, 2008 - 03:49 pm: |
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Quite often I get spanked with most my clothes on. My skirt will be lift up and panties pulled down to me knees. It's a completely different feeling (not necessarily worse) than being spanked nude. I love being spanked this way. |
Petergrimm
Spanko
Username: Petergrimm
Post Number: 77
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Monday, January 28, 2008 - 07:31 pm: |
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'round here most spanking is with clothes on - impromptude so to speak and does not lead to anything, just a few swats, some rubbing, a few kisses and back to what ever we were doing before the opportunity came up. The other spanking is all part of sex- both foreplay and during and we are usually both naked by that point (ropes don't count as clothing right?). I also like to get a Sunday morning "maintenance" spanking before I get out of bed so for that I am still naked but she usually is in PJ's and housecoat...
So the act of undressing as part of a progressive spanking does not happen here... Something to explore though! |
Pinkangel
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Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 43
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 29, 2008 - 07:56 pm: |
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I like when hubby starts over the clothes and then removes them one layer at a tme. By the time he gets to my panties he is usually getting impatient and takes them down quite quickly.....
I also like when he makes me pull my panties down myself too, it's quite humbling, pulling down my own panties, knowing he is going to spank my bare bottom.... |
Tom6789ca
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Username: Tom6789ca
Post Number: 25
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, February 03, 2008 - 10:20 pm: |
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Speaking as a top, I think clothes make the spanking. PJs or jeans pushed down, or a skirt pushed up, they all serve to frame a lovely pair of buttocks, and reinforce the sense of punishment and shame. |
Sexybitch22
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Username: Sexybitch22
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 06:54 pm: |
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lol i have not been punished yet as we knew things but we discused that its clothes off |
Beloved_prisoner
Spanko
Username: Beloved_prisoner
Post Number: 16
Registered: 06-2008
| | Posted on Friday, June 13, 2008 - 05:06 pm: |
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For me it depends. If my girlfriend wants to spank me on a whim, she usually would just spank me right on the spot with my cloths on. But for real punishment (or real erotic spanking), she usually orders me to undress; one of my best sessions was with me completely naked and her exquisitely dressed. It was so deliciously humiliating... |
Maestro
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Username: Maestro
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, July 05, 2008 - 03:20 pm: |
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Hi
my thoughts about this topic revolve around personal preference. A wonderful relationship will eventaully find the key to maximum fun. For me i love to bare my partner's bottom personally whilst over my knee. I have reliable feedback that she loves this unmasking too lol. |
Sexylegsvickie
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Username: Sexylegsvickie
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 22, 2008 - 03:06 pm: |
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Interesting variety here.Not the argument that only way to spank is bare bottom,panties down always.
I have been spanked over clothing,over panties, panties down, and completely nude.
It depends on a lot of things,whether its impromptu swats,or whether its an announced spanking. Whether its in play or fun, or whether its a discipline spanking.
When spanked nude its when I was already that way,I have not been made to strip.There have been playful swats when I have been skinnydipping on the one extreme, to the time I was lolling in a bubblebath and was plucked out for a paddling(I'll go into that another time).
I have had spankings on tight jeans, over my shorts and swimsuits, and lingerie. And spankings over thongs count as barebottom(despite what I have seen some claim). If I am wearing a thong it gets removed AFTER the spanking for any aftercare and "comforting." And my partner Gwen does that well!
Guess I am trying to say we have no right or wrong way to spank, it depends on different factors and situations. If I am fully dressed,I may have to lower my slacks or lift my skirt;on the other hand,if I have on a bikini I'll be spanked with it up-if its my thong bikini I'm bare anyhow. |
Batfinch
Spanko
Username: Batfinch
Post Number: 17
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, August 10, 2008 - 09:50 am: |
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I just have to bare my own bottom so she can see what she is hitting |
Lovinglife
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Username: Lovinglife
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, August 10, 2008 - 11:18 pm: |
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I also generally have my shirt on but nothing else, it just seems that's how it always ends up, I'm not sure why lol |
Jaydrawers
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Username: Jaydrawers
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Monday, August 11, 2008 - 02:34 am: |
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As a guy who is spanked by his wife, clothing removal is my wife's decision. Usually I am ordered to lower my pants and bend over. However if I've really ticked her off by my actions she will approach me and pull my pants down on the spot pushing me over to offer my bottom for the necessary punishment |
Spoiltbrat
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Username: Spoiltbrat
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 20, 2008 - 01:24 pm: |
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I`m put over his knee normally with my pj`s on, he then bares my bottom
its part of my punishment , and makes me feel very much like the naughty girl i am
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Maren_s
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Username: Maren_s
Post Number: 5
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, August 24, 2008 - 11:54 am: |
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My husband determines how bare I am at the beginning, middle and end of any spanking. I don't get much say and often trying to interject one will result in added smacks or severity. Let it not be said I cannot learn, anymore I keep my mouth shut about it.
I will say, when it comes to discipline, there have been times when he's had me bare myself and if anything that intensifies the feelings of humility. |
Bbsbbs
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Username: Bbsbbs
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Monday, September 22, 2008 - 05:00 am: |
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Just is a bra is very good if it is an erotic spanking.
I undress her slowly down to undies, telling her what I am going to do.
She then has to repeat it, and then take her knickers off herself and assume the position.
This really turns her on, especially if I then blindfold her.
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Ellie820
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Username: Ellie820
Post Number: 4
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 23, 2008 - 04:18 pm: |
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My spankings are usually over his knee. He starts out hand spanking me over my pants, then He pulls them down and spanks me over my panties, progressing to the paddle. Then he pulls my panties down, continuing to paddle me on the bare. Then the strap comes out. Lovely. |
Lovinglife
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Username: Lovinglife
Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 23, 2008 - 04:35 pm: |
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My spankings used to be bent over the bed, but lately he's been putting me over his knee almost every time. Often times he starts over my outer clothing, jeans, skirt, etc. and removes them down to the bare. |
Slavegirl
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Username: Slavegirl
Post Number: 5
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, October 11, 2008 - 07:43 am: |
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Lovinglife, or anyone else, does he like to feel you when he is removing your clothing?
My master doesn't usually and if he he does he normally just spreads my cheeks with his fingers to admire me. This is rather embarrassing for me, which is why he does it. He is so sophisticated like that.
However a former boyfriend used to get a lot of enjoyment from running his hands all over as he undressed me , tummy, back, feet etc as well as my boobs and you know where.
He spent more time doing this than on the spanking, which you might have thought defeated the purpose of the session.
In fact, the contrast between the two heightened for me both the sensuality of the stroking and the sting of the punishment.
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Lovinglife
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Username: Lovinglife
Post Number: 12
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, October 11, 2008 - 10:10 am: |
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Slavegirl, my boyfriend likes to feel me when he is removing my clothes.
He really likes to feel my breasts and my back.
He will sometimes tease me by merely putting his hand on you know where, but take it away after only a moment.
Once he has me down to the bare he likes to feel my butt for a while before he gets back to the spanking. |
Slavegirl
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Username: Slavegirl
Post Number: 7
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, October 12, 2008 - 05:42 am: |
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Lovinglife
What does this do for you?
Do you prefer being fondled, or just want him to get on with it?
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Lovinglife
New member
Username: Lovinglife
Post Number: 13
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 15, 2008 - 10:26 am: |
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The anticipation is nice for a bit, but sometimes he fondles too long for me and I just want him to get on with it, but obviously I don't have any say in that matter! |
Spankedjayne
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Username: Spankedjayne
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, October 26, 2008 - 10:05 pm: |
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We often either undress ourselves or help each other undress then when he bends over, I fondle his bottom and spank it in between fondles. he does the same but less fondling, more spanking. either way we give each other about 10 spanks but I always want much more but he doesn't want to deliver. just my (new) $0.02. |
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