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Mfb
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Username: Mfb
Post Number: 10
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 12:51 am: | 
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I am not a tv but my wife puts me in panties as a prelude to a spanking. It adds to the humiliation aspect which I like. Her threat is to spank me in public so everyone can see my pantie clad bottom across her knees. What a turn on! For serious spankings it's just bend over for the cane. |
D94579
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Username: D94579
Post Number: 1
Registered: 01-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 10, 2007 - 07:32 pm: |
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My partner also employs the "forced fem" aspect of our playtime. She is the one incharge and knows that no matter how much I might protest her making me wear her pink panties, she only points out the fact that my arousal disputes my cries.. she also has punished me infront of her friend and sister..ouch!! |
Mfb
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Username: Mfb
Post Number: 13
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 14, 2007 - 01:47 pm: |
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Ah to be spanked in front of an audiance. A fantasy of mine. Particularly in pink panties |
D94579
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Username: D94579
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, April 14, 2007 - 02:19 pm: |
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very intense, humiliating and arousing all at once! |
Mfb
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Username: Mfb
Post Number: 14
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 20, 2007 - 03:50 am: |
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And to finish having to stand in a corner with very red rear and panties around knees |
D94579
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Username: D94579
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2007
| | Posted on Friday, April 20, 2007 - 05:56 am: |
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yes. she makes me beg for more spankings till my bottom is flaming}} |
Pegus
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Username: Pegus
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 08, 2007 - 12:37 am: |
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A favorite role play of mine is to dress in white silk panties, short tartan skirt, stretched over our table, skirt tucked into my waistband and receiving a hard paddeling |
Mfb
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Username: Mfb
Post Number: 16
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 - 01:08 pm: |
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Sounds very interesting |
Glory
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Username: Glory
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 - 06:02 pm: |
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I like seeing how far I can get him to go. The fun is in telling him to do things I know he would NEVER do on his own. Like wearing pink panties.  |
Mfb
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Username: Mfb
Post Number: 18
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, July 15, 2007 - 10:53 am: |
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Pink panties, oh yes!! |
Anon_vii
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Username: Anon_vii
Post Number: 9
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 10:06 pm: |
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I'm one top who prefers giving pops across panties to paddling her bare "canoe." For one thing, I get a thrill out of seeing the little wet spot form on the crotch panel as I'm lining up the first swat, then grow by the second as I'm spanking her. For another, the panties let the most attractive part (i.e., the cheeks) show clearly while showing only the outline of the parts that feel good but, to me, are not all that beautiful to look at. What's guaranteed to get me going is for her to approach me in a short skirt and high platform shoes, hand me the long paddle, bend over and grab her ankles, and be wearing her high-rise leopard skin or tiger stripe panties for me to behold when I flip up her skirt. |
Peter
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Username: Peter
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 - 09:26 pm: |
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I am very much into being spanked in panties. See-through panties are a necessity for me, especially red ones. The moment when the lady who is spanking me pulls them down is one of the real thrills of the whole experience. I do like being spanked on the panties, too. |
Peter
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Username: Peter
Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2008
| | Posted on Monday, April 21, 2008 - 11:42 am: |
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While I'm on the subject, I noticed people on this thread have mentoned being spanked with an audience. I haven't had the experience yet, but I go crazy over the fantasy of an attractive woman making me dress in my see-through red panties in front of several more attractive women, then pulling my panties down and spanking my bare fanny with a hairbrush across her lap. |
Her_guy
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Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 14
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, April 25, 2008 - 10:39 pm: |
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I, too, would love to have an audience of attractive women watch me get paddled very hard by my wife. And I have observed that getting paddled with thin nylon panties on seems to sting more than getting it barebottom.
Has anyone else noticed this?
Ed |
Peter
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Username: Peter
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 30, 2008 - 07:46 pm: |
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I have not noticed that it stings more in panties. I got a good spanking yesterday, and it definitely seemed to sting more on the bare fanny. Yummmm! |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 16
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 30, 2008 - 10:39 pm: |
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Hi Peter,
You may well be right. I got a severe spanking today for my glib tongue and had panties on at the time. I was pretty sore by the time my panties got pulled down for the remainder, so it seemed to sting much more with them down.
Past research though, has led me to think that panties are more stingy. I guess I will have to get it a lot more before I make up my mind. Oh well, it's a tough job but someone's got to do it. LOL
Ed |
Mfb
Spanko
Username: Mfb
Post Number: 25
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, July 17, 2008 - 08:40 am: |
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Panties set the scene for a very sore bottom. Tight lycra, otk and the brush. Panties down for more, then the corner, hands on head. |
Sally_sometimes
New member
Username: Sally_sometimes
Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, September 04, 2008 - 05:02 pm: |
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I usually wear panties anyway but If there's a pink panty in the center of the bed I know I'm to put them on and present my bottom for spanking. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3559
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 04, 2008 - 06:59 pm: |
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Welcome Sally, please introduce yourself in the meet and greet topics.
There is no problem with your post here, but just in case you missed reading the entire thread, these are men talking about panties.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Mfb
Spanko
Username: Mfb
Post Number: 26
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, October 23, 2008 - 08:15 am: |
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My wife bought me a pair of backless panties! All contained at the front but bare bottomed. She then put them on me and made my bottom as sore as she has ever done. Wonderful! |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 27
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, October 25, 2008 - 10:47 pm: |
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Where did she get the backless panties?
I got a backless girdle which my wife and I thought would tighten up my bottom and push it out for a better (worse?) spanking. Trouble is, it was too small and we could never use it.
That has been another fantasy of mine for years. In addition to being spanked in front of a few other girls. And a few (many?) others too.
Best regards,
Ed |
Mfb
Spanko
Username: Mfb
Post Number: 29
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, November 09, 2008 - 01:14 am: |
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Not sure where she got the backless panties from. Internet shop I think but I'll try to find out.
I have tried the girdle as well but the same problem as you.
My wife threatens to spank me in public after buying new panties for me. The thought is erotic but the actual happening, not sure!! |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 30
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 - 05:23 am: |
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Mfb,
I don't think it would be practical for it to happen in public for real, although I would love to get it like that. Maybe bent over the fender of the car in a parking lot after throwing a tantrum in a store. LOL!
Actually I made my wife a purse size paddle which she carries all the time. She has used it a couple of times to smack my leg or palm while in the car. But not outside, although she has threatened a couple of times.
A more practical place would be at home with my wife entertaining a few of her girlfriends with no intent of spanking until she discovered something that I needed to be spanked for.
Oh well. We can dream, can't we.
Do you have an opinion as to which stings more? Tight nylon panties on, or barebottom? I have long maintained that there is more sting and heat with the panties on than without.
Best regards,
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 17
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 12, 2008 - 09:30 pm: |
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Ed - I got spanked both with tight nylon panties and barebottom not long ago - While the panties felt great, I didn't really feel much of a difference between the two. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 31
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 09:58 am: |
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Hi Boomer,
I have been spanked so many times and in so many ways that it's really hard to judge differences like this. Most of the times I get it now are for real infractions and my wife intends for them to be painful no matter what I am wearing. So there is not much time for this kind of evaluation.
What we need is a couple of controlled experiments with cooperative wives.
Maybe it is just the excitement of wearing them to begin with. I like the kind that are almost see-through as I think that gives the tightness without having too much between my bottom and the paddle.
It just seems to me that the nylon adds to the sting. I have a couple of scientific based theories about it, but don't want to boor anyone unless you are interested.
Best regards,
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 18
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 11:29 am: |
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Ed - Sounds to me like you've got a good thing going. I wish my wife was that enthusiastic. Regardless of the differences with or without, wearing her panties definately adds to the whole experience. I'd be happy to repeat the experiment (over and over if necessary) and report back later  |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 32
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 12:54 pm: |
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Boomer,
It has sounded from your other posts that you had a pretty good thing going too. Are you having to talk your wife into it each time? Maybe you should try to get her in the same mode as my wife.
Shall we set up the guidelines for the experiment now?
Also, has your wife any interest in participating on this forum? My wife might, under the right circumstances, but it would have to be talking to someone else in the same position.
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 19
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 05:20 pm: |
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Ed - I can't complain. I'd be receiving more action if not for raising a family (with little privacy) and some medical issues my wife is contending with that affect the frequency of our activity. While she knows what I want and need, timing is critical and it usually boils down to scheduling time alone well in advance. Our circumstances don't easily lend themselves to spontaneous activity (like timely punishment spankings) except for the occasional playful swat and a promise that my time will soon come. As our spanking activity arises out of intimacy and sexual fantasy, I know my wife would not be willing to share this part of our relationship outside of our bedroom. This is my "kink" and she is going along with the program to indulge me - I've got to love her for that. I'll be sure to give the panty "experiment" another try at my next opportunity - as yet unscheduled. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 34
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 09:53 pm: |
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Boomer,
I certainly comprehend and agree. It's great your wife goes along with it. Did she take to it readily or reluctantly? Mine was a little taken aback initially, but quickly discovered that she likes being able to give it to me whenever she feels it necessary.
Fortunately no kids left here so we can be completely spontaneous.
As far as the experiment goes, it seems to me that five pretty good smacks on each side, one with and one without panties, should be a good start. What do you think?
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 20
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 13, 2008 - 10:10 pm: |
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Ed - No reluctance, she just needed some initial direction as to what I wanted/needed. I have a high pain threshold which she needed to accommodate, requiring a little more effort on her part. I look forward to the day she can spank me anytime she wants to - I envy you for that. I'd up the ante on the "experiment" to 25 for each - of course, I don't know your wife, so I may be biting-off more than you can chew. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 35
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 06:12 am: |
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Boomer,
quote -
"of course, I don't know your wife, so I may be biting-off more than you can chew"
That's funny!
Maybe your wife hasn't learned how to be really effective yet. After about 10 from my wife I can no longer be objective. They all burn and sting and it's hard to stay in position. So, you will have to do the "25" test. I'll just wait for the report. LOL.
Do you have any idea where the panty thing came from for you?
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 22
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 05:54 pm: |
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The panty theme is pretty commonplace in F/m spanking videos - for instance the man is caught going through a woman's panty drawer and punished by being made to model the panties and get spanked in them. Seems to add to the humiliation of a spanking - particularly in a punishment scenario.
As for my wife's effectiveness, she's got a great delivery - perhaps some more experience and finding the best implements would make me squirm more (the cane has that effect). She's spanked me black and blue at my urging in the past and the effects (other than appearance) don't linger but for a couple of days. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 37
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 09:26 pm: |
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Boomer,
Sounds like your wife is more effective than I thought! Choice of implements makes a big difference. I made what I think are the ultimate paddles (for me, anyway) after experimenting for years trying to immitate others that I had seen. It has made a big difference compared to some more conventional ones.
When I get marks, they seem to last quite a while but the burning and stinging don't. What I would really like is for my bottom to remain red and hot for at least a day, but that seems to disappear too quickly. Any ideas on how to make one last a long time?
I haven't seen too many F/m spanking videos (too cheap) but I have a couple from the Disciplinary Wives Club that are pretty good. No fetish stuff, however. Just DD. But that's what goes on here.
After getting play spanked for years, I realized that what I really wanted was much more realism. Spankings that I couldn't control. So that is what I agreed to here. No turning back. You may find eventually that your desire goes the same route. There's nothing quite like the feeling that there is no way out of a spanking, and your bottom is already sore from the one you got in the AM.
If anyone else has any ideas on this, please feel free to jump in anytime.
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 23
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 10:43 pm: |
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Ed - What's made a real impression on me thus far is the cane, lexan paddle and wooden spoon. It seems that the lighter implements have the more lasting stinging effects. I'd love to feel the heat and sting for several days at least. The videos I refered to are Nu-West - Leda - Google it. Like you, ultimately, I'd like to enjoy the realism of spontaneous punishment spankings (and maybe DD), but this will have to wait. How about some more of you weighing in? |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 42
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 11:25 pm: |
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Boomer,
You should check out the DWC stuff. It sounds like you may eventually be heading in that direction anyway.
My most stinging/burning paddle is made of thin, 9 layer plywood. It is the stiffest material I have ever found and it's thinness does just what you said. I made one plain and one with holes. My wife chooses which one she wants to use at the moment. I haven't yet decided which is the best. I just completed the one with holes a couple of days ago. I will let you know when I find out.
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 24
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 14, 2008 - 11:40 pm: |
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Ed - I've been to DWC quite a number of times and even have one of their spanking hairbrushes. Keep me posted on your paddles - looks like you are getting more frequent action than I. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 43
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, November 15, 2008 - 06:24 am: |
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Boomer,
Yes, I get quite a bit, but sometimes it seems that no matter how much I get, I still want more. It sounds like that is a common theme of most of us here. My craving started really early.
Glad to hear you discovered DWC. I guess you have seen Aunt Dana giving a spanking or two. I can't believe anyone can get spanked that hard and long, but of course, I would like to try it. LOL.
If you, and anyone else, are interested, I will post a picture of the latest paddle design.
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 25
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, November 15, 2008 - 01:04 pm: |
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Ed - I'm up for seeing that as I'm sure are many others who have been following this thread. |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 24
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, November 15, 2008 - 07:15 pm: |
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Our experience with panties is that they tend to keep the cheeks together as well as protect the inner cheeks. For a non-flexible instrument like a paddle, that is fine, and works especially well if the panties are wet. Either water or alcohol will do, but alcohol adds a little more sting as the spanking progresses.
However, my wife likes to use flexible instruments to strike the inner cheeks as well, causing the tips to wrap into the crack when only the near cheek is struck. This is particularly effective when a rubber tawse with weighted tips is used. Or when a martinet is used for vertical strokes from above when kneeling. Or when a cane is used on the inner cheeks. Same with the diaper position. Panties deny access and offer protection from instruments used in this way, so, off they come. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 44
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, November 15, 2008 - 10:24 pm: |
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Hi Tawseman,
Thanks for the in-depth analysis on the panty question. I certainly never thought about the aspects you mentioned. I guess because I like a paddle more than anything.
As for the wet panties, I have to admit that you have me thinking about how to get my wife to do that. Maybe she will read it somewhere. I have tried to encourage her to explore a little bit but a lot of stuff that comes up on Google is not good, to say the least.
Alcohol - What do you think the difference is and why?
One of my theories on why spanking through nylon panties stings more is that nylon, though feeling smooth, is actually a relatively abrasive material. Pot scrubbers are made out of it. So when getting spanked, the paddle initially presses the nylon tight against the skin, and then because of the inevitable movement of your bottom, the nylon actually scrapes along somewhat. That would create a surface burning after a number of spanks.
Or - maybe I think too much about the reasons behind all this, and it is really just all psychological. LOL!
Whatever the reason, I love it and keep on the lookout for new things to try.
Boomer -
I will get a photo tomorrow along with the specs. The paddles are in a closet next to where my wife is sleeping right now and there is NO WAY I'm going to risk having her wake up and see me with HER paddles in my hand! She already has a reason to spank me and I believe it will be tomorrow morning, so I don't want to get that one on an already sore bottom. Or do I.....................!
Ed |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 25
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, November 16, 2008 - 12:19 am: |
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Alcohol...Both alcohol and water add sting to the spanking, owing to Pascal's Principal.
At the outset, alcohol adds a little coolness as it evaporates faster than water, and this coolness is an interesting contrast to the heat of the spanking. As the spanking progresses, the skin becomes a little damaged, so the alcohol adds its own sting to the sting of the spanking. It is quite remarkable.
Nylon....As far as nylon panties, they can only reduce the impact of the paddle, they cannot increase the force of the impact. The Law of Conservation of Energy. Being porous, they would interfere with the slap of a smooth, glossy paddle or a rubber strap. I believe that the most sting is created by the glossiest finish on a paddle. However, if the panties are very sheer, the effect may be more theoretical than actual. Certainly the feel of wearing them can add its own excitement, which could compensate for the lessening of the sting.
As far as their texture, most nylon I am familiar with is pretty smooth, not abrasive.
And then, there are thong panties. These allow some sensation all of their own for the wearer, but leave the cheeks totally unprotected and exposed for spanking. Additionally, they offer some protection for the wandering tails of a martinet, if such is desired.
BTW, I share your enthusiasm for thinner paddles. I make ours from Finnish birch plywood I buy at a model airplane store. I find that gluing the layers of thin plywood together with Pliobond allows just the right amount of flexibility. Combined with proper design, when the handle thickness, width and length are in balance with the striking part, they are a joy to use and feel. I make a pear-shaped top side of the handle so it fits the palm without too much grip tension to spoil the ability of the paddle to talk to the user. And the underside of the handle has pebble rubber from a ping pong paddle to allow the fingertips to grip easily, for the same reason. Properly held and used, the paddle is much more effective than if gripped firmly. To maximize sting, the striking surface is finished to a glassy gloss with gunstock finish. Our favorite paddle stings tremendously, and makes a wonderfully sonorous smack, but does not bruise, even if the subject is spanked raw.
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Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 45
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, November 16, 2008 - 03:39 am: |
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Great explanations, Tawseman.
Many years ago, I was threatened with a wet-bottom spanking, but never got it, even though I asked for it. (about four years old). Maybe now is the time to finally find out what that was all about.
Nylon - Looks like we may have a lot of experiments to try, to decide this one. Tough job, but someone has to do it. LOL!
Thin paddles - Sounds like you have discovered the same thing I did. Only difference is I buy the plywood already glued. I believe my stuff was called Baltic Birch. With the nine layers totalling about 8mm thick, the stiffness is incredible. My surfaces are glassy smooth obtained with polyurethane finish. My wife loves the sound of it.
Maybe you can show a picture of it. I am always looking for any improvements that allow a severely stinging and burning spanking to not leave any bruises.
How much spanking does it take to spank raw? And what do you mean by that? I seem never to get to that point, if I understand what you mean, and I think that is what I have looked to get for years. A general stinging and burning that lasts a long time, instead of sore spots lasting several days.
Ed |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 26
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, November 16, 2008 - 11:24 pm: |
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"How much spanking does it take to spank raw? And what do you mean by that?"
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By raw, I mean the skin is past red, past ashen gray, and is starting to give little tiny spots of blood and generally weeping clear plasma. It is uniformly shiny and wet, with little spots of blood all over.
My wife spanks me to that point, but generally goes no farther, as she wants me healed in a week.
As for how much spanking it takes, the answer varies. All bottoms are different and all spankers are different. A warm up makes the bottom last longer, as does lotioning before and during. And, of course, the force affects things, as does position.
But a recent example is 750 with a wooden bath brush with no lotion or warmup. However, my wife does not spank as hard as she can, so it would be fewer strokes for someone who put all her strength into each stroke.
I know my bottom gives up after around 350 strokes with a 9mm cane. Again, they are probably not full force, but they all make a really good whistle, so they are pretty stiff. It also depends on the aim. A full coverage spanking or caning involves more strokes to get to a raw bottom.
I believe one of our lighter paddles would take more strokes to do equivalent damage, but just don't remember if we ever used it for a complete spanking. I know it raises little blood spots on her sooner than that, but she is a girl. |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 197
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 11:25 am: |
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Blimey.........
Your Wife's arm must ache like hell afterwards?
Who does the counting? Must take ages?
Interesting views on wearing panties. I'm sure most men have thought about what it would be like to wear them at some point even if they won't admit it. Women have such a bigger/wider range than us.
Never really thought of the different aspects though if wearing them or not, what ones, dry or wet,etc.
At the moment I see it as more of an erotic thing even if my Wife made be wear them while being spanked. Though I guess it depends how hard and long she spanked me.
However, it has added some extra thoughts to my head....not that I need anymore... |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 27
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 04:44 pm: |
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"Blimey.........
Your Wife's arm must ache like hell afterwards?"
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Nah. She's pretty strong and fit. The only time she ever had a problem was with a fiberglass sail batten, which seemed to send some sort of bad vibration up her arm. She had tennis elbow for a long time. I liked to use it, as it had a lovely flexibility and taper, rather like a Super Ruler, but we burned it. However, on prolonged sessions with other things, she switches hands when on the other side. This gives each arm a rest, and allows the near cheek to be struck, as mentioned earlier. She is not truly ambidextrous, but her aim and power with our weighted rubber tawse is equally deadly on either side. And she really has that snap of the wrist that wraps the tips into the inner cheeks with either hand.
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"Who does the counting? Must take ages?"
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Either she or I. The bath brush spanking took about 17 minutes, so I used her usual speed of 50 strokes per minute to get the 750 figure. With other instruments, she tends to do blocks of 200 or 500 before switching sides or implements, so she does the counting on that. Canes, being a little more severe are done in blocks of 100. When I drift into subspace or am really suffering, I would lose count, anyway.
But, yes, my spankings usually take quite a while. The bath brush is used for a 20 minute quickie, like before going out or to help me fall asleep. I suppose harder strokes would make the time even shorter for equivalent damage. Adding water or alcohol to the experience would really ramp things up.
Hmmmmm..........Something to think about.................
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Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 46
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 09:37 pm: |
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Holy cow!
Atomic,
The real question is not Tawseman's wife's arm, but is his bottom made of leather!!!
And if you haven't tried panties, you should mention it to your wife. Show her this thread. Maybe she can help us decide which way stings more.
Tawseman,
Is your bottom made of leather? LOL!!! I don't think I could make it through that.
Since you seem to be as analytical as I am, let me run a couple more by you that I have pondered over the years.
What purpose do holes serve in a paddle? I have heard explanations that I don't agree with. I think they help avoid a cushion of air from forming between the paddle and the bottom. Maybe other factors but that is my first one.
Which is more stinging/burning? Lore from my school days has it that the holes are the worst and are to be avoided. I always bought into that but now I'm not so sure. Especially having made identical paddles with holes in only one.
And you gave me a good smile with your 20 minute bath brush "quickie"!
The promised photos of my paddles to follow.
Ed |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 26
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 09:47 pm: |
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Looks like a sub-group is forming here...no pun intended |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 47
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 09:59 pm: |
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Ed's latest creations, as promised.
Both used extensively in the last 48 hours.
I had said earlier that there are nine layers of wood, but the correct number is seven.
8.5 mm thickness. Baltic Birch plywood. Very stiff and stinging/burning.
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 28
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 17, 2008 - 11:12 pm: |
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Tawseman,
Is your bottom made of leather? LOL!!!
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Ordinary bottom. Exfoliation and lotion keep it from being leather.
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Being tied makes a difference.
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What purpose do holes serve in a paddle?
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To look scary.
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I have heard explanations that I don't agree with. I think they help avoid a cushion of air from forming between the paddle and the bottom. Maybe other factors but that is my first one.
Which is more stinging/burning? Lore from my school days has it that the holes are the worst and are to be avoided. I always bought into that but now I'm not so sure. Especially having made identical paddles with holes in only one.
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We all know that sharp edges hurt and can cause damage. Holes with sharp edges will offer more edges so more hurt and more eventual damage. And, even rounded or chamfered edges would stretch some skin, causing pain. But, at the same time, some skin is granted amnesty with each stroke. So, it could be just a chacun a son gout situation.
I wrote a little on holes in a rubber paddle on that thread a while back, with links to pictures.
As far as force, I fail to see how a strong person's stroke with a serious paddle would be enhanced very much by holes.
Now, tell us what you feel to be the difference in your two paddles. From the pictures, it sounds like you are the guy to say.
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And you gave me a good smile with your 20 minute bath brush "quickie"!
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Well, a cane or sjambok makes an even quicker quickie.
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Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 198
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 18, 2008 - 10:30 am: |
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I have lots of ideas in my head for a spanking, but I'm nowhere near your World-Class status Tawseman.
I think the first minute(50) would probably have me begging for the end. Though I'm very much a rookie.
Personally I prefer her hand,leather strap or maybe a rubber-soled slipper. I thought the wooden paddles were a bit thuddy. (each to their own , I guess)
I think if many people were asked what was the worst implement they would fear being spanked with it probably would be the cane. I've never been caned though I won't rule it out.
So many things/ideas,etc have passed through my brain, I'm just not sure which ones I would actually prefer?
I guess I'll have to try them all once and erase the ones that.....................erm, are not compatible?
What sort of panties should I try? |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 29
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 18, 2008 - 10:55 am: |
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"I think the first minute(50) would probably have me begging for the end."
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Well, you know, despite everything, the first 75 or so strokes of a hard caning are very hard to take. There is no pleasure, only pain to be endured. Then, the endorphins start to kick in and I don't want it to stop. That number of 75 strokes has remained pretty constant for years and years.
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"I think if many people were asked what was the worst implement they would fear being spanked with it probably would be the cane. I"
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In my own case, it is the sjambok. It offers more pain and less pleasure, although my wife does like to use it. I don't like to use it on her, as it is a little severe. I am a abit of a sisssy about hurting her too much. She much prefers the cane, and, if properly turned on, will actually ask for harder strokes. |
Atomicpuppy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Atomicpuppy
Post Number: 199
Registered: 08-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 18, 2008 - 03:40 pm: |
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a hard caning is very hard to take. There is no pleasure, only pain to be endured. Then, the endorphins start to kick in and I don't want it to stop.
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I've read this somewhere else. Had something to do with caning some Russian adults. They said that it releases endorphins (which makes you happy / releases stress,etc.)
Whether this is actually true I don't know?
By the way what is a sjambok?
My Wife is not interested in getting a spanking, but she does spank me from time to time.(not much, but working on that)
She enjoys it. Probably because I'm a bit of a sh#t at times, then again aren't we all.
Maybe less pleasure and more pain is needed. |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 32
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 18, 2008 - 04:42 pm: |
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"By the way what is a sjambok?"
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It's a stiff whip made of high density polyethylene, which is tapered from a handle diameter of about 7/8 inch to a tip of 1/2 inch. The taper starts a little down from the butt end, so it has a lot of power.
I think if I just wanted to hurt someone efficiently, that would be what I would choose.
The HD polyethylene is fairly dense, so it hits pretty hard. I continue the taper so the last 8 8nches or so is about 3/8" diameter. This seems to suit us a little better, although neither of us is enthusiastic about receiving it. It will bruise, too. The combination of its density and being tapered makes it hit much harder than a cane. Even denim does not offer much protection from the pain, but does allow the skin to last longer.
It has an action similar to a bull's pizzle or a whip made of a wet-twisted tapered rawhide strap.
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Gentlemalekitty
New member
Username: Gentlemalekitty
Post Number: 11
Registered: 05-2009
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 03:51 am: |
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Definitely great to be ordered into a pink pair of panties and firmly taken across a woman's knee for a paddling. I am going to today to see a professional woman who enjoys spanking and being spanked. We are going to do role-plays. I can hardly wait until 6:30pm this evening. I also have a special pair of red} punishment panties that have the bottom cut out and a insertion hole for my penis. |
Gentlemalekitty
New member
Username: Gentlemalekitty
Post Number: 13
Registered: 05-2009
| | Posted on Saturday, June 06, 2009 - 10:31 am: |
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Pink panties are a staple of my spanking experience. I sometimes wear them to work. I just ordered a pink submissive collar to give to my mistress in our next session to compliment the underwear}. I do seem to have a pink obsession, perhaps I should get a poster of the rock star Pink. |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 79
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, June 06, 2009 - 03:44 pm: |
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Quote: Her_Guy:........"I got a backless girdle which my wife and I thought would tighten up my bottom and push it out for a better (worse?) spanking. Trouble is, it was too small and we could never use it."
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I sometimes wear a pair of wetsuit shorts with the bottom and part of the crotch cut out. They compress the thighs and squeeze the hips to round and push the buttocks out a little, and protect the thighs from errant strokes of a cat or martinet when the lower cheeks are targeted. My wife really likes hit my cheeks low and inside, but hitting the thighs is of no interest to either of us. And, the skin is more failure-prone there, anyway.
Measure the circumference of the top of your thighs. Then you can measure the width of the leg of the shorts at the crotch. It should be several inches less than half of your circumference measure. Never mind the waist, as that can be made up with a belt tab in front. Once you have them, put them on and mark the bottom cutout with chalk. Start out with a smaller opening and work your way larger as you see where it is going to end up. You may end up with shorts with a waist that is too small. No matter, just cut out the front, and use a strap as a belt across the gap. This will end up as a pair of chaps, but will actually fit better than just cut out shorts.
The front might end up needing a little tailoring to fit well. In my case, I cut out a gore on each side to remove excess material and glued and stitched the edges back together for a good fit, but each situation will vary.
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Admin
Board Administrator
Username: Admin
Post Number: 126
Registered: 03-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 09, 2009 - 01:41 am: |
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This thread is now closed and any off topic or prohibited posts removed in an effort to leave only on topic and acceptable posts for future visitors to read.
If you saw my earlier post, it was off topic so I removed it during my "clean up." Now I'm sorry I did that as I stand by what I said in that post. I was serious. This is my forum, my responsibility, and my personal space, therefore my rules will be enforced. I won't apologize for those rules or explain them any further.
Thank you.
Bethie |
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