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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2208
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 08:59 am: | 
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I have recently met a woman who is a professional Dominatrix. She specializes in ball and cock torture.
Can someone help me understand why this is desired? She's a busy woman with this and I'm just curious.
I told by her that she's also VERY expensive.
It's just beyone my realms of thinking so that's why I'm asking. I would like to be able to understand it better from the mans point of view.
Every time I say the word "exercise" I wash my mouth out with chocolate
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 41
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, February 08, 2009 - 09:59 am: |
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Owing to the lack of respoase here, I will try to contribute a little, from my somewhat limited exoerience and understanding.
There are two components to masochism, physical and emotional/psychological. As far as cock and ball torture, I have just a little bit of attraction. On a very light level, and mostly physical. When spanking or whipping me, my wife will often whip my erection with a light martinet. I find this both painful and stimulating. After a little while, she soothes the injured member by "kissing it and making it better".
As much as I like my bottom pained by a lady, I get no pleasure out of pain applied to my testicles, and only a limited amount of pleasure from penis whipping.
On an emotion or psychological level, pain applied by a female to a man's cock or balls is complete control, and the triumph of female over male. Some could say it is the highest expression of physical domination. Or, perhaps the male feels guilty for being a male or for being sexual, and that is the most direct form of punishment. And, of course, on a simple "I lke pain from a female" standpoint, cock and ball torture is pretty painful and is certainly personal.
The masochistic side of my switching has very little of the emotional/ psychological component, so I am just thinking out loud here. |
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 2226
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 24, 2009 - 09:48 am: |
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Thanks for your response Tawseman. She did explain it to me. She wanted to respond in here and tell of her experiences but certian protocol rules made it difficult.
I guess I'm such a wuss that I had trouble understanding.
Every time I say the word "exercise" I wash my mouth out with chocolate
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Spankingdesires
New member
Username: Spankingdesires
Post Number: 11
Registered: 04-2009
| | Posted on Thursday, April 09, 2009 - 11:46 pm: |
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I have experienced CBT and it is certainly not for everyone. I personally am a fan of it but not all aspects of it. I guess its like anything else, whatever floats your boat. |
Rimfire
New member
Username: Rimfire
Post Number: 6
Registered: 11-2009
| | Posted on Saturday, November 28, 2009 - 09:36 am: |
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Rimfire
New member
Username: Rimfire
Post Number: 7
Registered: 11-2009
| | Posted on Saturday, November 28, 2009 - 09:38 am: |
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weird i uploaded the picture and the text disappeared!...to repeat i said;
submission is fine,pain to the testicals is degradition and not fun or needed! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3696
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 28, 2009 - 12:30 pm: |
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Thank you for your opinion, Rimfire, but please state that it is only your opinion to avoid offending people who have made their own life style choices.
Please keep in mind that we are a nonjudgemental group, and the main reason The Den is here, is too avoid others who tell us that any part of our activites are not fun or needed.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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