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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 2034
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 19, 2009 - 02:48 am: | 
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We have a couple of threads going in the discussion area and I think it might be time for another experiment! This one is directed at ladies who bottom or tops that spank ladies. Because the discussions were about a couple of women bottoms, I think it best to stay in line with the proposed scenario.
The discussions dealt with spanking while away from home and what implements were quiet enough to use in hotels but won't deliver a lot of sting.
I have various toys that are quiet, but a lot of them are stingy instead of thuddy. I have some that might work; the rubber paddle, a couple of the smaller straps, a slender wooden paddle, the larger of our delrin canes, a small heavy wooden hairbrush shaped paddle, and one or two other implements.
Now I admit that I'm not exactly sure how quiet these toys really are. Mainly because I'm not quiet when they're being used and I'm not really paying that much attention to the noise since my attention is elsewhere. But if I remember right, these are the less noisy ones.
Here's where the experimentation begins. I could give any or all of these toys a try and let Dan spank me varying the intensity he uses them with and note the level of noise associated with each one. I could.
This would be easier but Dan keeps adding toys to the list in an effort to help me with this. I'm not sure how much help he's really being. I think he has other motives, like giving me a really sore bottom. That's his usual goal so it's probably a safe bet on my part. 
The question is, should I? And would anyone else join me in this experiment?  |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3667
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 19, 2009 - 10:46 am: |
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Yep, I am right with you Bethie.
But....I always wonder, besides the obvious looks you may get from your "neighbors", as long as you are not waking people up in the middle of the night and they complain, is there really anything the hotel can do if they overhear?
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 2035
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 19, 2009 - 12:24 pm: |
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Fanny asked: "...is there really anything the hotel can do if they overhear?"
Yup, if the management or staff decides there's a problem, they can call in a suspected domestic disturbance call to the police. (I worked in hospitality management when I was younger so I know a little about this sort of thing.) There could be liability issues for the hotel if there is a report of suspected abuse (or any other crime) and the hotel staff didn't report it to the authorities.
When you're on other people's property among people who may not understand, sometimes you have to be discreet. Most people mind their own business, but you never know. The truth is, nobody wants to be the one who could have intervened to save someone and then didn't.
Now to get back to the experiement, I have a question, any suggestions for quiet non-stingy toys, Fanny? Do you want to give us a hand (or bottom) with this one?
I'm still working on which toys to use. Dan's no help! 
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3668
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 19, 2009 - 04:44 pm: |
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Thanks for the information Bethie. Having worked for many years as an abuse counselor, I am pleased to know that this policy is in place. Better to be safe than sorry. (Even though it does infringe on our fun.) 
When there are times we have had to be quiet, play is never at the level either of us would like, but we have found that a thick plastic flyswatter is wickedly stingy, but males little noise.
Also a fabric woven belt doubled up is not as effective as leather, but it can do a pretty good job, especially if you have time for a longer session.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2725
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 01:07 pm: |
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A fabric belt...that never occured to me. I just thought it wouldn't anything.
Now I'm on a mission to find one.
We need something that will do the job and not be to noisy.
Thanks for the idea Fanny!! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3671
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 01:21 pm: |
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I didn't think it would do much either, Tammy, but we found one that is tightly enough woven that you can feel it. I think it has a lot to do with the type of fabric the belt is made of. Ours is almost rope like so it has a rouger texture.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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