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Vipurrr
New member
Username: Vipurrr
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2009
| | Posted on Friday, May 22, 2009 - 09:18 pm: | 
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I just became a devoted receiver of spanking,even the thought of getting one damppens me to no end.I actually ask to go over his knees when ever the mood strikes and have my jeans down before he even sits down...now I'm having fantasy's of being over anothers knees and have my bottom spanked to no end.When I told him of my fantasy he tanned me good and told me to explore,then return home and show him what I received.Am I the only one who has this need?I have no idea how to go about it but I'm sure I'll figure something out...and it better be soon!
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Peachybot
New member
Username: Peachybot
Post Number: 10
Registered: 10-2008
| | Posted on Monday, May 25, 2009 - 10:38 am: |
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vipurr
wanting to be spanked by someone other than your partner is very common. it is part of the power play exchange. on the one hand it's a bit embarrassing showing your knickers or bum or whatever to someone you are not intimate with normally and this is part of your punishment. on the other hand you are rebelling against your master or mistress, and this means you need to be punished by them.
while my lesbian girlriend and i are very close, we get a kick out it.
she loves me to spank another girl in front of her. she also likes me to spank her in front of another friend, usually female, but male if she has been really naughty.
a common scenario is for the friend to come round for coffee, which my girlfriend serves in her undies or naked. she then goes on all fours and i put a clear sheet of plastic on her back and the friend and i put our coffee cups and plates of biscuits on it. we chat of this and that and if we want to feel up my girlfriend so be it.
coffee over our friend gets spanked by me in front of my girlfriend.
my girlfriend then gets spanked in front of the friend.
by then we are all a bit frisky so if the friend is female out come the toys and away we all go.
i enjoy spanking them too. I like spanking my girlfriend because she is embarrassed by being spanked in front of someone else and when she is being the table by being put in such a submissive, revealing and available position.
I like spanking the friend because i know how my girlfriend will react, what she does and doesn't like and what she can and can't take and it is fun and so dominating to find out on someone else.
i also play sometimes with a m/f couple, who spank me or i spank them in front of each other. being spanked by them is a great turn on, particulary being naked in front of a man. my girlfriend finds the thought of this a turn on and always wants to know the details, before we get the strapon out and we get laid.
so you are not at all unsual!
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Vipurrr
New member
Username: Vipurrr
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2009
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 26, 2009 - 10:45 am: |
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Well I would not care in the least if it was another man or woman who took me over their knees as I am also very bi curious.Being spanked by a female then made to service her would be a total turn-on for me...perhaps I should really start searching for someone to play this out! |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 219
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, June 11, 2009 - 05:14 pm: |
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I know that it is a turn on for many, just not for me, however the spanking tent is large enough for all of us to be here, good luck in finding the right person.
my name says it all
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Naughtypants
New member
Username: Naughtypants
Post Number: 23
Registered: 06-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 01:57 pm: |
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I have recently been wondering what it'd be like to be spanked by another man. I do get spanked occasionally by my husband of three years, but I think it would be the added embarrassment of being spanked by another man and having him see my bare bottom would be a little thrilling. It would truly feel like a punishment and although I would only allow it to go just as far as spanking, I have entertained the idea of finding someone who might like to do that to a married woman, as long as my Hubby says it's alright. ;) What do others think? Or have they engaged in being spanked by others? |
Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 59
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, August 20, 2009 - 06:49 pm: |
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While I do not really desire to be spanked by another, I have seen my husband spank three other women, and I do so much love that. after each time he did that I just could not wait to get home and get his attention on my bottom |
Disciplinedwife
New member
Username: Disciplinedwife
Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2009
| | Posted on Saturday, August 22, 2009 - 01:51 am: |
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For me the situation is a complete reverse in that I have been spanked by another’s hand on four occasions now all with my husband watching and have always enjoyed the experience of being spanked by another woman with my husband acting as a witness. Recently I have started to wonder what it would be like to watch for a change the thought of seeing my husband take another woman across his knee has started to occupy my thoughts more and more and I hope that it is something I will get to see very soon |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 241
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, August 24, 2009 - 08:32 am: |
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This thread has given me something to think about, but if I were to be spanked by another person, I would prefer it to be another woman,
I could see where it coud be very exceiting for both me and my hubby, I have never asked him but do believe he would enjoy it.
As far as my being spanked by another male, that I don't think he would approve of it, maybe with another couple, not just a single male, of course we have never talked about any of this, have to think about how do I start this conversation off.
Have to pick a time when we both are in a kinky mood, and see what he says, even at that it would be a scary time for me to ask,
help me out and give me some advise on saying this to him.
my name says it all
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Disciplinedwife
New member
Username: Disciplinedwife
Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2009
| | Posted on Monday, August 24, 2009 - 02:26 pm: |
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Subbie
I would love to give you some advice on how you go about asking your husband but in our case it was my husband that made the first move. My husband had taken me over his knee and spanked me for swearing something he just will not tolerate and has he allowed me up form across his knee, he turned to me and said swear again and I will not spank you, I will arrange for you to be spanked. The rest as they say is history
I will you every sucess in finding a way of approaching your husband |
Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 943
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 - 11:42 pm: |
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Why don,t you show him this thread Subbie? |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 242
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 26, 2009 - 06:12 pm: |
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I did talk to him, brought the subject up when I thought he would be interested in talking, talked about what his fantasy would be, that type of conversation but it didn't seem to go over too good.
Maybe the timing was off, what ever, he didn't have much to say, so time to stop, it's not a case that I don't enjoy what we have or he doesn't enjoy it.
Living with him I know when he's not saying no but is saying no, think it is time to cut my losses and just drop the subject.
my name says it all
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Slavegirl
Spanko
Username: Slavegirl
Post Number: 32
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, September 10, 2009 - 02:16 pm: |
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I find the thought of someone other than my husband spanking me highly erotic, though I doubt if I would enjoy the reality and as I love my husband I have certainly never tried it.
Pandering to this, sometimes my husband blindfolds me and pretends he is someone else, or pretends to hand me over to someone else. He is good at this, feeling me up and spanking me in a different way or using unusual implements or positions to highten the pretence.
Although we both know it is him it does give it an edge for both of us.
So you can have the best of both worlds!
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 247
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, September 10, 2009 - 10:14 pm: |
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Slavegirl, that sounds like a great idea, it's funny sometime my husband talks a little fantsay and then he cools the conversation. makes it hard for me to get a feel of just where he is on certain things. don't want to rock the boat but it is hard some times to fgure him out, don't get me wrong I like what we have. maybe I'll wait until he brings up some fantasy spanking ideas again and tell him about yours. sure can't hurt..
my name says it all
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Vixie
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Username: Vixie
Post Number: 9
Registered: 07-2009
| | Posted on Monday, September 14, 2009 - 12:45 am: |
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Subbie:
Maybe you could see if he would be interested in playing a game with spanking involved and adding in a 3rd person or another couple. A just for fun thing to start, fully clothed, and move on if he finds he is OK with that much.
Or maybe he would take you to a spanking party/meet or one of the fetish fair flea market events. Then you can just watch what others get up to until he is comfortable with that and move on from there.
It is a big leap to make. Whatever you do go slow and handle carefully to some extent his ego is at stake and you don't want him to get the wrong idea and think you don't like how he does things or that he isn't enough. Make sure to include him as much as possible, and reassure him it has nothing to do with his abilities just your own curiosities. |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 249
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, September 14, 2009 - 06:49 pm: |
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Vixie, thanks that's good advice, if we do go to a meet it will probably be almost a year from now, we plan to go slow and think about it and in the mean time see what others have to say, just some thing to think about..
my name says it all
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2728
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 16, 2009 - 11:14 am: |
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I have to say for me... Only my husband spanks me.
I don't have the desire to have anyone else spank me.
This is our lifstyle. It is personal to us and to be honest a sexual turn on between us. I wouldn't ever be willing to share that with anyone else. |
Scartlet_bottom
New member
Username: Scartlet_bottom
Post Number: 3
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 02:50 pm: |
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It was hard enough for me to trust my bottom to my husband I'm not about to actually let another person do it.But WTG if you enjoy living out the fantacy! |
Gwoman111
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Username: Gwoman111
Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 15, 2010 - 01:37 pm: |
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Hello, new here, My husband likes humilitation, he wanted to be spanked by a boyfriend of mine in front of me, he thought it would be the ultimate humilitation to have another man spank him and then have sex with the other guy while his ass was still burning, we made it happen and have now done it several times with different guy friends.
Does anyone find this a strange request by my husband? |
Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie
Post Number: 12
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, December 23, 2010 - 02:21 am: |
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I have to say that I love both being spanked in front of others and on occasion being spanked by another. Before I go on too far here, let me make it clear that I get spanked with a belt or whip, no one other than my bf touches me.
I love being submissive to my bf and love him completely, and trust him completely. I have turned total control over to him; I really like that as a sub. I have been spanked when he thinks I deserved it or for maintenance whenever HE decides and several times I have been spanked when it was the last thing I wanted, but the real turn on is being completely submissive. That being said, I sometimes brat myself into a spanking, not being an offensive brat, but just enough to let him know I think I need a spanking.
So to the topic at hand, the first time I was spanked in front of others, we were at the home of a friend of his. There were five other people besides us, seven all together, one other female, Dan and four other guys. We all get together to watch Saturday afternoon football. I don’t remember exactly what I did to get his goat, but when he said something to me, I felt this tingle of naughtiness and remember challenging him, in front of everyone, with a comment about oh I suppose you’re going to strip & whip me right here in front of everyone. Of course everyone got a good laugh, and started to encourage him. There was some friendly, bratty banter between us, with him finally asking his friend if he could take me up to the guest bedroom as I needed a spanking. They all laughed and suggested that he do it right there, show them how he keeps me in line all that stuff, it was all said as a joke but you know there were really hoping he would do it and let them watch. So he “orders” me to bare myself, meaning strip nude, for my spanking. I undressed down to my bra & panties and again before I removed my bra I asked him are you sure you want me to take my bra off in front of everyone, he ordered me to, and same with my panties. Then he made me wait until half-time, gave me 15 strokes with his belt, I think he hit harder than usual, my bottom was sore, and jokingly took a vote if I should be allowed to get dressed or have to stay bare for the rest of the game and show off my red bottom. Of course everyone voted to keep me bare, including the other girl.
That was my first “public” spanking. When we got home I took such good care of him, he knew I liked it and suggested we do it again. I of course agreed. After several more spankings at Bill’s house, Bill was always suggesting that I needed a spanking; I think he just wanted to see me bare. Then one day Dan suggested that he was going to let Bill spank me next time. Even though I am completely submissive to Dan, I do have some say, and I agreed to let his friend Bill whip me under certain conditions, and as long as the conditions were met I would submit completely. First was that Bill would have no authority over me, I would only remove my clothing and be spanked at the specific direction of my BF, Dan. Second, that Bill could not ever touch my bare skin with his hands, he could not touch me for any reason while I was nude, no exceptions. No photos, no exceptions!
I have found the entire experience to be very erotic and l love the feelings I get when I look around and see people looking at me as the belt or whip strikes my bottom ! Dan is looking for someone else he can let spank me, I can’t wait.
I hope I was not too far off topic; I don’t get spanked by another’s actual hand but do love to be spanked by others and while others watch ! |
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