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Yorkie69
New member Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 1 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Wednesday, January 06, 2010 - 04:43 am: |
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Hi there. I joined a few days ago and have finally plucked up the courage to introduce myself. I am married with 4 kids and have been interested in spanking for years. Recently the desire has increased almost tenfold. It's been hell because I have yet to convince my wife to spank me. She did very early on in our relationship (it was sublime!) but changed her mind and refused to do it. We have a great marriage (20 years) but since last Tuesday I have a deep, deep desire to be spanked that I've yet found the courage to tell her. I'm not kidding, I don't remember it being so strong. I found this forum and just knew it was the right place to express my feelings about my kink. Maybe I'll find the courage to write a story about one of the best spankings my wife ever gave me. Cheers guys. |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko Username: Subbie
Post Number: 276 Registered: 05-2006
| Posted on Wednesday, January 06, 2010 - 06:17 pm: |
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Hi, glad you stopped in,looking forward to reading your story.. my name says it all
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Yorkie69
New member Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 1 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Sunday, January 17, 2010 - 03:34 am: |
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Well, miracles do happen. My desire to be spanked has not subsided and I grew increasingly anxious about telling my wife to the point where I was so distracted I couldn't function. I was even so distraught I deleted my account on here because I genuinely believed my spanking desire would go unfulfilled to the point where I thought I would explode. Well, last Wednesday I was in agony all day. I knew I had to tell her and with much fumbling for words I eventually told her. My darling wife never batted an eyelid and immediately said "ok"! She said she didn't understand it but could see I was in real distress by not acting on it and has agreed to do it for of for as long as I desire. Talk about a dream come true! I'm married to the woman of my dreams and now she has agreed to spank me. Life is very good. I have been spanked twice since then and we have enjoyed each other more than ever which I never thought would be possible. I am such a fortunate man to be married to this wonderful lady. I am so thankful and so happy I had to share it. I write this sporting some cute little bruises on my butt. Life is REALLY good. |
Scartlet_bottom
New member Username: Scartlet_bottom
Post Number: 15 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Sunday, January 17, 2010 - 12:35 pm: |
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Welcome Yorkie, I'm really new to this site as well and I fully understand that growing desire. I don't understand it myself an I'm so glad I found this site.I was beginning to think I had some psychological problem. I knew there were other people out there who were into it but I'm so used to seeing them depicted as deviants. Maybe we're not so deviant after all. Anyway, I had to coax my husband into spanking me at first but now he enjoys it wholeheartedly. Here's hoping your wife learns to love warming your bottom as much as you need. Love means never having to say you are sorry but you will in the end Wah haa!!!
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Oftenred
Spanko Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 69 Registered: 02-2007
| Posted on Sunday, January 17, 2010 - 12:54 pm: |
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It is great to hear of such wonderful outcomes of couples growing and loving each other more and more...even if a good bottom warming is what it takes to do it....How I do understand that!!! Best of luck to all. |
Boomer
Spanko Username: Boomer
Post Number: 40 Registered: 07-2008
| Posted on Sunday, January 17, 2010 - 09:58 pm: |
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You go Yorkie! I've been there myself and revealed my desires to my wife. She's made great strides in accommodating my spanking needs and is actually becoming quite comfortable in the role. She learns quickly and it certainly enhances the relationship. Best of luck. |
Yorkie69
New member Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 2 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 02:38 am: |
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Yes, my wife was good before we were married and she's even better now. She says she is just following instructions, but she's way more creative than she admits. It really is a dream come true. |
Spker4u
New member Username: Spker4u
Post Number: 2 Registered: 12-2009
| Posted on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 03:33 pm: |
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Good Luck Yorkie69. My ex-wife allowed be to spank her before our marriage and for about the first 5 years of our marriage. Then one day she said she didn't want to be spanked anymore and I began a 20 year dry spell. I retired at 55; at 62 I decided I didn't want to live without spanking any more and we divorced. Of course there were other reasons. It has been 7 years since our divorce and I have had several spanking friends. It's not the best lifestyle but it is better then living without someone to spank. I'm 69 now but still looking. You are one lucky man. spker4u/Dennis |
Yorkie69
New member Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 4 Registered: 01-2010
| Posted on Tuesday, January 19, 2010 - 01:47 am: |
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"You are one lucky man" You can say that again! I keep pinching myself to see if I'm dreaming but it turns out I'm living the dream. |