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Nightflite
New member Username: Nightflite
Post Number: 1 Registered: 07-2010
| Posted on Wednesday, July 28, 2010 - 06:33 pm: |
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Hi, I'm very very new to this and wondering if anyone has any advice etc.....for a newbie? Maybe on best way to use site chat etc.... I've been interested in spanking for many years but have never really had the opportunity to explore it properly and would really love to try. anyhoo, getting a bit embarrassed now, so I'll head and log on again, to check out further. Nightflite |
Houjami
New member Username: Houjami
Post Number: 15 Registered: 02-2008
| Posted on Thursday, July 29, 2010 - 05:53 pm: |
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Nightflite, No reason to get embarrassed, all of us here enjoy spanking. Look around, and read some of the messages and you will get an idea of how things work, and you might get some tips to help you bring spankings into relationships. Enjoy! Jami |
Nightflite
New member Username: Nightflite
Post Number: 2 Registered: 07-2010
| Posted on Thursday, July 29, 2010 - 06:21 pm: |
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Thanks Jami, have been looking around and it seems really good. To be honest I've been interested in this for years, but never had the opportunity to explore and felt I was a bit emmmmm 'unusual'. I have now met a man who will spank but only on a light sexual basis - hey it's a start - but life's too short for hiding from who you are |
Houjami
Spanko Username: Houjami
Post Number: 16 Registered: 02-2008
| Posted on Saturday, July 31, 2010 - 10:28 am: |
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Glad to hear you found someone who also enjoys your "special secret". Enjoy the light spankings, and I have a feeling as he sees how much you enjoy it, and you encourage him for a little more he will. There is nothing wrong with taking it slow, so you both will be comfortable with the spankings. |
Yorkie69
New member Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 2 Registered: 08-2010
| Posted on Friday, August 27, 2010 - 06:29 am: |
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Nightflite, you are definitely not unusual. I used to think like that but, as you can see, we are not alone and not so different. As Houjami says there is nothing wrong with taking it slow. Learn to "normalize" it and, as I've learned the hard way, don't be afraid to talk about it with your partner. And most of all, enjoy! |
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