| Author |
Message |
    
Newbie_wife
New member
Username: Newbie_wife
Post Number: 1
Registered: 02-2011
| | Posted on Friday, February 25, 2011 - 10:27 pm: | 
|
help someone my husband of 30 yrs started off really enthusiasticly when we started nearly 4yrs ago now but has stopped all of a sudden !!! |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 65
Registered: 08-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, February 27, 2011 - 05:14 am: |
|
Try talking to him. My wife has her ups and downs with spanking me. One moment she's fine the next it's a no go. After talking about it, it's just the noise and lack of privacy. Maybe your husband doesn't want to hurt you? Communication is the key. Good luck! |
Sweetansassy
New member
Username: Sweetansassy
Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 16, 2011 - 03:59 am: |
|
OMG yorkie..........you hit it on the nose with your response of......."maybe your husband doesn't want to hurt you"....that's exactly what my hubby said after a year. sighs He just doesn't understand that......yes.......it hurts like hell.......yes..........I dread and sometimes try to get out of the spankings..............but.........it helps me..........it keeps me focused.......it keeps me in tune........and it helps to keep me aware of the fact that He's the boss and the one in charge........and the spankings help me to remember that when I suddenly get out of control and want to start demanding things go the way I want them..............sighs again..........but no matter how much I try to explain this......He just doesn't seem to get it!!!..........and unfortunately.........it's really starting to harm the security of our marriage. Anybody else have this prob?? |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 71
Registered: 08-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2011 - 08:40 am: |
|
Give him time to come around. There is a chance that he might not but don't give up hope. Take your time and be gentle with him. Remember it's something completely foreign to him. If he does do it again for you show him your gratitude, encourage him and if it's not what you anticipated, be constructive.
Hope this helps and good luck! |
Meet And Greet Area