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Darry
New member
Username: Darry
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Thursday, April 07, 2011 - 05:05 pm: | 
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Hello ALL
I am a 40 year old female who has thought about spanking all her life (well from as long as I can remember)...
My Husband and I have been together for 20 years married for 18 and I told him about a year into our relationship I thougt I would like to be spanked.
It wasnt what I was really looking for and (excuse the pun)has been hit and miss for most of our time together...
Not sure if it was turning 40 made me delve a little more into the world of spanking and DD but finaly found the courage to show him what I wanted and cant believe how things have changed.
For the first time in my life I feel complete he is enjoying (a little too much) spanking me and our life together is better than ever (although it was not too bad before)...
Cant belive I am posting this I would be mortified if friends or family ever found out (does everyone feel like that?)...
We have two older teenage daughters so have to be very careful (but seem to have spent a lot of time in hotels lately) and we always stay local (I am sure the receptionists think we are having an afair) and as they have better social lives than us have plenty of time at home alone....
Really dont know what else to say and cant believe how many times I have written the word Spanked it always used to make me cringe if I so much as read it and if anyone made a joke out of it I would assume they had read my mind and die...
Anyhow nice to meet you all x |
Mrscleaver
Spanko
Username: Mrscleaver
Post Number: 16
Registered: 03-2011
| | Posted on Thursday, April 07, 2011 - 07:50 pm: |
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hi Darry-to answer your question, YES I have felt that feeling of "NO ONE CAN KNOW!" We are still very private though. I have a funny story about when I first met my husband. I was curious about spanking already and exploring things online. I went on a three week trip not long after we started dating, and he agreed to come over and keep an eye on my apt., get the mail, feed the fish, etc. I was very careful to delete anything from my computer that was DD related...but I missed ONE thing. Thank heavens I did! He found it and it turns out that is the kind of relationship he wanted too, but we were both hiding it from each other! |
Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1753
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, April 08, 2011 - 12:37 am: |
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Hi Darry! Welcome to the Den! Since general society still views the lifestyle as something taboo, I have to agree, that I too operate under the cloak of secrecy. It is one of the main reasons I so enjoy forums such as this, where we can discuss our lifestyles without the fear of being judged. I am by no means ashamed of my lifestyle choice, but dont feel I need to explain or justify it either to others who think it is just a weird kink. Again, welcome to the forum, and I hope you enjoy your time with us here!
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Darry
New member
Username: Darry
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Friday, April 08, 2011 - 03:31 am: |
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Hello MrsCleaver and Zippo...
thanks for replying I feel a bit out of it and you have made me feel better...
I know what you mean about hidding things I am browsing InPrivate and have to keep shutting down in case one of my daughters picks up my laptop...
Thank goodeness you missed one thing MrsC and found the relationship you were looking for.
Also pleased to know people keep things quiet I am not ashamed either but think I would move to the ends of the earth if found out...
We have a daughter free weekend so will get my Husband to have a read although he is comfortable with everything he like me is still learning and I still think he is not sure...
Nice to meet you x |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2792
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, April 09, 2011 - 12:34 pm: |
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Darry Welcome!!
I cant tell you how many times I felt the same way you did. I to have older children and either have to wait for them all to be gone or like you we do the hotel thing.
You are not alone!! This is a great place to come chat with like minded folks. Have fun!!! |
Darry
New member
Username: Darry
Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, April 09, 2011 - 01:20 pm: |
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Hi Tammynx
It is nice to be around like minded people although I still cant belive I posted (so pleased I did though)....
I am sure we will learn a lot x |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 76
Registered: 08-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, April 10, 2011 - 09:01 am: |
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Hi Darry. You are definitely not alone. I'm a 42yr old male, married with 4 children. I've just moved house and my wife and I don't have a bedroom yet. Hopefully we will get it sorted soon so I can get the spankings I crave so much. Enjoy yourself here. |
Warmpalm
New member
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 3
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 10, 2011 - 12:19 pm: |
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Darry:
I think if some magical spell could be cast that gave every spanking-enthusiast on earth, realized or wannabe, a red glowing halo for one week, you would be flabbergasted to see the staggering number of halos you'd encounter in your wanderings.
When my parents were growing up, oral sex was the big unspoken naughtiness. It was regarded as unexcusable perversion, engaged in by only a tiny majority of sickos. That was the prevailing notion. In private, however, it was extraordinarily popular, and with good reason. Incrementally, over the years, the taint diminished. Now, it is accepted as a major part of the sexual menu. Not for everybody, maybe, but released from the nasty circle of disgust to which it was so long consigned.
I think spanking is like this. But notice how often winking references to spanking turn up in movies and so forth. It is, I think, infinitely more popular than you'd imagine.
My point, Darry, is: don't feel embarrassed or ashamed. The club you just joined has many millions of members. Welcome!!! |
Mbottom
New member
Username: Mbottom
Post Number: 6
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2011 - 09:00 am: |
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Hey there, I am new to the forum also, I introduced myself in the meet & greet....have been lurking for a while though...glad to see new posts, things have been quite quiet!! I too have and do feel like all of you...Secretive, embarassed someone will find out...I have been married for 15 years and just within the past few months, honestly layed it all out for my husband...he knew I was interested in spanking, but had no idea to what extent...Darry, everything you said is exactly how I have always felt! You are not alone!! We have to wait until they are fast asleep, which leaves us up all hours of the night & tired the next day...I guess we all bend to make this fit in our lifestyles, one way or another...
Looking forward to getting to know you all!! :o) |
Warmpalm
New member
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 11
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2011 - 09:26 am: |
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~~Content Edit by Admin - If you haven't had time to read the rules please do so before posting again. All discussions must be about adults and their activities only. |
Mbottom
New member
Username: Mbottom
Post Number: 9
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 11, 2011 - 09:43 am: |
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Content edited by Admin - see previous post.
For now, late nights it is.  |
Darlingjenna
New member
Username: Darlingjenna
Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 10:51 pm: |
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It's so cool that you've been able to talk to your husband after all this time and start getting what you want! Good for you!
-Jen |
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