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Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 61
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 11, 2009 - 05:58 pm: | 
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Hi all, it has been a while since I have been on here. Also been so busy he has not spanked me in a while. I have been so "needing" one!!! I finally came home today, got out our little paddle, removed my jeans and gave myself a good little spanking!! It was sure not as good as him giving me one...but what can a girl in need do??? Ha Ha Anyway my question is does anyone else Self-spank??? |
Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman
Post Number: 96
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 16, 2009 - 12:21 pm: |
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I do, but only to test an implement. I make and modify a lot. |
Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 39
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 16, 2009 - 07:26 pm: |
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I'll admit to self administering a little bun-warming when the mood strikes and the conditions are ideal. I find that the long-handled plastic bath brush and wooden spoon are handy and particularly well-suited for the task. |
Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 63
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 18, 2009 - 08:43 pm: |
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I find that I tend to use a short leather strap, or a thin wooden paddle for my self spanking. |
Yorkie69
New member
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, January 07, 2010 - 03:02 am: |
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I have done it the past. I once gave myself a really sound whacking one night with a 3/8" dowel - 50 strokes. The next morning it was 20 with a bath brush. The brush on an already tender bottom was gorgeous. I had bruises for days. At work that day I went to sit on the edge of a desk and I actually jumped back up! Ah the memories.... |
Scartlet_bottom
New member
Username: Scartlet_bottom
Post Number: 1
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 02:12 pm: |
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Before I got my husband into the whole spanking thing I spanked myself regularly -When I finally got the courage to ask him to do it I still filled in the time gap with a good self paddling. I can get up to 200 whacks in leaving my tushy glowing and it helps toughen it up for when he takes control. |
Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 65
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 06:47 pm: |
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Well it is good to know that I am not the only one that likes to do a little butt tanning between getting it from hubby. |
Pinkangel
Spanko
Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 57
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 30, 2010 - 08:59 pm: |
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I too have given myself a good spanking with a hairbrush paddle when my husband has been away and unable to spank me. Sometimes you just need a good spanking even if there isn't anyone there to give it to you. |
Beloved_prisoner
Spanko
Username: Beloved_prisoner
Post Number: 55
Registered: 06-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, October 21, 2010 - 02:45 pm: |
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When I feel more guilt than I can usually hold inside, I take off my shirt, take off my belt and whip myself harshly on the back. This is interesting - I rarely receive punishment spanking from my spouse (she usually spanks me as foreplay before sex), but I sometimes have punishment self-spankings.
My spouse doesn't like this, and has recently begun to threaten that she will handcuff me if I will dare to do so again - only she is allowed to hit me! |
4pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: 4pinkcheeks
Post Number: 27
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, October 24, 2010 - 10:44 am: |
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as often as i get my bottom spanked, self-spanking would be all kinds of redundant! but i did it in the couple of years between leaving home & meeting my soulmate. i used a long-handled wooden hairbrush that had an exqusite sting.
Stay Pink! Love, Paula 
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 357
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Friday, November 05, 2010 - 07:58 pm: |
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During times when I have been alone, I have used a long handled bathbrush, not that often, however evil bathbrush does make ones bottom red
my name says it all
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Spanker11
New member
Username: Spanker11
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, March 06, 2011 - 01:49 am: |
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I have spanked myself a few times in the past. Its useful with experimenting on new implements and how it feels and what works best and how hard. |
Stelin
New member
Username: Stelin
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 12, 2011 - 12:57 pm: |
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When my partner is not around to do so herself, I sometimes receive a message demanding that I bare my bottom and subject it to a sound spanking with a birch, paddle or large bath-brush. I'm often required to ensure it's welted or bruised and she'll check for marks when she gets home. |
Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 220
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 20, 2011 - 07:44 pm: |
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The best spanking, I ever got was actually self administered. It was over a two-day period, and the soreness stayed great for about five days.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 53
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Monday, June 20, 2011 - 11:01 pm: |
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How did you do it? |
Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1780
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 08:13 am: |
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For those who engage in self spanking, I have a question for you.
I see from some of the previous posts that it may not be the first choice, but rather if no one is around to administer a spanking, a self spanking serves the purpose.
Many like to be in a certain mindset when receiving a spanking, relinquishing control to another ect. How do you prepare yourself mentally, do you feel that you are able to achieve your spanking objectives? How do your emotions differ, since you are the one in ultimate control?
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 223
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 11:52 am: |
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Mine is out of necessity. My husband not only is not into spanking;he is not into anyhting else..sigh.
The first time I did it was with switches in graduate school 29 years ago. I was hooked! My husband gave it a few attempts, but he never got into it. About 8 years ago, when at home by myself for a week, I gave self spanking another try. At first, it was just a try for the rush, and as I got more creative, I really got to that place in my head that I crave. Because it was a SS, I think that it really helped that I had days instead of minutes to get me there. Spanking on prior soreness helped mimick someone else doing it.
But what I found is that I got to where no one else had ever gotten me to. After that, I "borrowed" two men. #2 did actually get me to that place, but he was into bondage which was a turn off for me.
After that, I kind of gave up on it, until yesterday. I think I will give self spanking another chance.
Sorry--long story to say very little!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 224
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 12:16 pm: |
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Fred,
How I do it is to just start and see what works. I do have the advantage of being ambidextrous (I can even play tennis left or right handed..screws with folks heads!!). But even going outside to cut some switches helps the head thing. Longer implements also aid in this process. I am fortunate to have obtained a nice arsenal over the last 10 years.
For me, it does take time. A SS arm will give out before someone else's will. Swithces are great(especially springtime) because they are readily available and can be altered to the correct size. A belt will work, but a strap or tawse work better. And any wood implement still hurts like hell when self administered.
As far as creating the necessary pain, submission to yourself is required. For ex: say you are going to give five on each cheek with a bath brush, then do it. You may lighten up on yourself by the fifth, but the cummulative effect will still occur. If you need to take a break. The endorphine's will continue to flow and just continue the process until nirvana!! is reached. For me, the after effects are where I am headed, and I know when it is reached. Best wishes!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Stelin
New member
Username: Stelin
Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 02:00 pm: |
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I agree with Tplayer. I sometimes receive a demand from my wife to self punish and am told how many strokes to deliver, on which part, with what implement and how severe. I'm usually also told what time to do it. Preparing myself by gathering the implements and thinking about carrying out the punishment usually gets me in the right head-space to accept it. Starting with a good warm-up definately helps particularly if a sizeable number of strokes have been ordered - such as what I was required to self-administer last week lol. |
Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 54
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 03:44 pm: |
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I find it easier to use a crop on my chest. I have more control and can direct the instrument better. Have you tried it? |
Stelin
New member
Username: Stelin
Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 - 04:55 pm: |
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Oh yes. I've had my chest both cropped and self cropped. Hard enough to leave stripes and welts  |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 01:13 pm: |
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Ok this sounds interesting. I will try it tonight. I have never been spanked and would like to be sure I will like it before I get someone to beat my hot ass. I will report the result soon! Ouch!!! It hurts already. |
Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 227
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 02:25 pm: |
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Jena, I have become adept at it. You probably have what you need around your house...ruler, wooden spoon, belt, rubbermaid spatula, switches. Give it a try. The actual spanking is not as meaningful, but the after effects are!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 10
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 09:34 pm: |
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Thanks Tplayer. I used a wooden bathbrush. I didn't have a lot of time so there was no warmup. I had a pretty strong feeling that I would like it and I did. I am enjoying the tenderness today. I look forward to expermenting with different implements. Because of what I do for a living and safety concerns I will have to be very careful finding someone to share this new hobbie of mine. I am also thinking I would like to spank as well as being spanked. Hopeflly your SS went as well as mine. |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 13
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 28, 2011 - 09:01 am: |
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My ass is almost back to normal. I will try a belt next. Can't wait. The belt has been a long held fantasy of mine. I have an exhusband who would gladly assist but that would complacate my life in so many ways lol. Will report the details soon. |
Winggoddess
New member
Username: Winggoddess
Post Number: 12
Registered: 09-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, September 24, 2011 - 06:25 pm: |
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Self spanking can give me a little bit of warmth on my bottom. I generally just use my own hands or my plastic hairbrush. However, I don't like it only for the simple reason that the element of surprise is just not there. I know how hard I can hit, and I know when and with what I am going to be hit. Of course, I can't really compare it to anything else since I am still talking with my husband about spankings and he hasn't actually administered any yet. |
Winggoddess
Spanko
Username: Winggoddess
Post Number: 50
Registered: 09-2011
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2011 - 07:45 pm: |
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I am being such a bad girl right now. I can't figure out something on my computer and every time it fails to do what I want I get frustrated and give myself a spanking. Alas, the spankings are not really helping me figure out my computer issue. And because I've been giving myself so many spankings lately my back up under my shoulders has been killing me! My butt hurts in a good way, my back aches mercilessly in a bad way and I still can't get my darn computer to do what I want it to. (And Den members, I'm sorry that I keep posting in the self spanking thread, but that seems to be my fate.) |
Countryspanker
New member
Username: Countryspanker
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2012
| | Posted on Monday, January 02, 2012 - 02:31 am: |
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Occasionally Mrs CS has self spanked in front of me, very erotic. |
Therder
New member
Username: Therder
Post Number: 6
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Thursday, September 06, 2012 - 03:13 am: |
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I tried self spanking once but found it frustrating and gave it up. I am much happier since I opened up to my wife about my need and allowed her to give me treatments. |
Spanktheman
New member
Username: Spanktheman
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2012
| | Posted on Sunday, October 21, 2012 - 10:14 am: |
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I used to be able to self spank VERY hard (bruises) but have lost it a little. Men have times of the month these days too {??}, so maybe that's it. |
Subwife92
Spanko
Username: Subwife92
Post Number: 20
Registered: 01-2017
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 - 09:55 am: |
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I am spanked so often by my husband it is not often I have to self spank. When my husband goes on business trips he makes me video chat with him and apply a good warming to my bottom with his direction. He never stops till I'm in tears and promising to be good till he gets back home.
Once I confessed I had not finished my chores that day while he was away. While he was proud I told him knowing I could have gotten away with it, laziness isn't tolerated at our house. I felt like I was bent over our spanking wedge forever ! He lectured and made me paddle myself till I was crying like a baby. If the lick wasn't hard enough I got an extra when he returned home. I paddled myself with our wooden paddle on my bottom and thighs till he was satisfied.
When he returned home a couple days later I was whipped with his belt and he took the ruler to my inner thighs for a long session. I always try to behave when he is gone |
Sahithi
New member
Username: Sahithi
Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2017
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2017 - 11:30 pm: |
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I wanted to spank so hard bt only when someone assigns me the punishment}} |
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