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Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 08:23 am: | 
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I have never actually been spanked. I have just started looking at videos and reading this site. Wow I am hooked. I am really excited about the thought of being spanked. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 34
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 09:32 am: |
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What spanking scenario most titillates you, Jena j? If you were to be spanked today, how would you like it? What would be the circumstances, the setting, the spanker? Would it like it soft at first, or a real spanking? |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 10:44 am: |
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It would be over the knee by someone experienced. They would be telling me what to do. It should be a hard spanking. I will not be a quiet spankee. I will not lay still. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 35
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 01:55 pm: |
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My most cherished spanking experience was with a young woman very much like you. I told her she was a very, very naughty girl to be into this, and that someone ought to spank this impulse out of her. I then pulled her over my knee. We were on a bed. I spanked her first on her white skirt, then on her blue panties, then on her beautiful bare bottom. She fought like a tiger, but never uttered the safe word, so I knew she wanted it. Her bottom was rosy red, and I kissed it afterwords many times with great tenderness. Oh, was she ever hot!!! As we parted later, she kissed me with a hunger I have never felt before in a kiss. It was evident that I had fulfilled a long fantasy of her, to be spanked hard and long by a no-nonsense man who knew what he was doing. Is this the kind of thing you'd find appealing, Jena j? |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 02:53 pm: |
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Oh my God yes!!! I am walking around with a huge smile on my face. A huge smild and very naughty thoughts. It's 103 degrees out and I think I may need to go running just to get my mind off of this topic. I hope that helps. OMG I have lost my mind. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 37
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 09:14 pm: |
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I have sent a private message to you, Jena j, and by jupiter I hope it went through!!! Very naughty thoughts, eh? That sort of thing is unacceptable, young lady! |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 09:17 am: |
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I Really have got to focus on something other than being spanked. Thank God I got my degrees before I discovered Spanking Tube and The Den. Maybe if I actually got my ass whipped it would cool my jets. Looks like I need to go running again. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 41
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 09:23 am: |
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If you actually did get your ass whipped it would warm your jets, make no mistake. Seems like nothing will do but for you to get yourself thoroughly spanked. Running is a great exercise and a great way to dissipate stress, but a spanking on your sweet bare bottom would align you physically, psychologically, and sexually. You can't just fantasize about it, Jena j., you have to carpe the diem. |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 11:39 am: |
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Yes, you are correct. I am in need of an ass spanking no doubt, but I need to do this carefully. Find the right person. I am way way to hot and I need not be reckless. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 42
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 11:59 am: |
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Yes. Recklessness is contraindicated. But how do you proceed? There are spanking dating lines, or whatever they are called, but whether or not they are an intelligent way to proceed is open to discussion. I had an ad in a weekly paper once and met a couple of spanking partners that way. Of course, there always is an element of risk involved. You can meet in a public place and talk (I have done this and it does help), but until you are alone with the person you can't know what it will be like. I've had wonderful encounters and one unfortunate one---but that would be par for the course even in non-kink dating experiences. Not that I feel spanking is a kink, because I don't. Too many people are turned on by it for it to qualify as a pathology, in my opinion.
At one point, oral sex was the big forbidden no-no. I'm talking years ago, when my parents were growing up. Nobody would dare admit they do it or fantasize about it. Things have changed, and now it's pretty universally accepted that oral sex is a major entree on the sexual menu. Spanking will achieve that status one day, but it will take a while.
What do you think about this, Jena j.? |
Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 225
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 01:59 pm: |
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Jena, my husband has always been vanilla, and through the years, I have found partners. I have been overly cautious, and I have not had any incidences. You must be 100% confident if you go this route, but it is a viable alternative. One of my favorites was a woman who was a married sub and she wanted to switch. We were both straight. Because she knew of the levels she sought as a sub, she was great at pushing my limits. Best wishes in your search.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 25, 2011 - 06:35 pm: |
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Thanks Tplayer and Warmpalm. I will be careful on my quest. This is a very exciting quest. I will start with whipping my own ass tonight when I get a private moment. Can't wait!!! Thanks for the advice. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 43
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 08:05 am: |
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Jena j., we care about you, and we want to remain updated. By all means whip your own ass, but give us a full debriefing. (There's a pun in there someplace.) Where did you do it in the house, what was your posture, what did you spank yourself with, how long did you continue, was it sexually as well as physically exciting, did you get a nice red bottom? What was the fantasy as you did it?
Let us know, Jena j! |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 8
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 12:09 pm: |
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Excellent!!! I spanked myself last night before going out with some friends. It was the same feeling as catching a great wave and riding it well. Getting to the top of a mountain exhausted and invigerated. I know, I know...details. OK I carried out this spanking in my walk in closet. I was naked in the touch your toes position. I used a wooden bath brush (I love baths). Five on each cheek, hard. Repet...repet...repet. Ouch!!! After I went skiney dipping in the pool. Cool water on red hot ass, very nice. Going out after with friends with a sore ass, excellent! |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 44
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 01:35 pm: |
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Your "spank-in" closet. Hmmmm.....did you tell your friends about your self-punishment? I'm sure that would snag their attention, unless they lead very fast lives indeed. |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 9
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 05:28 pm: |
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I did not tell my friends. I will put some thought into that. Hhmm interesting idea.
I found the experience to be very stimulating in every way. My ass is tender today and is giving a nice reminder of last night. I am wondering how long the bruses will last. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 45
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 06:01 pm: |
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You could take a photo of the bruises and start a scrapbook. A diary of your life as a self-spanker. Something to show the grandkids. Or maybe not. Or you could see it on e-Bay. Believe me, you wouldn't have to search long to locate buyers. People probably already do this. There's probably a specific category available.
Did you go in the walk-in closet to muffle the sound? So neighbors wouldn't cluck their tongues? |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 11
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 09:46 pm: |
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Warmpalm, I went in the walk-in closet for sound control and privacy. I like the idea of a picture of my sore ass but it would probably end up on the local news. On my walk today I kept reaching around and rubbing my ass. It felt great! I liked your entries about waiting and anticipation...That is a key part and is such a turn on. |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 46
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, June 26, 2011 - 10:14 pm: |
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Pain and pleasure are not distinct entities. It's a continuum. Intense pleasure can feel like pain, mild pain can feel like pleasure. You enjoyed having a tender fanny today. But I'm sure you hate it when you stub your toe or bang your knee on something, right?
Spanking is on the road to being widely understood as a pleasure. Within limits, of course. It makes sense for you to self-spank for awhile, to get a sense of what your limits might be, so when you do hook up with a spanking partner, sometime in the future, you will have some guidelines. Of course, getting a spanking from somebody is always going to be very different in a lot of ways. Still....regular self-spanking workshops for you, Jena j. And keep us clued in on your findings, won't you? |
Jena_j
New member
Username: Jena_j
Post Number: 14
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 28, 2011 - 11:17 am: |
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I am interested in brain science and effects of spanking. It felt great psychologicall and physically. I felt energised, very focused, and aroused. I would love to see a Functional MRI on my brain before, and after being spanked. Great idea for a study!! |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 50
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 28, 2011 - 01:30 pm: |
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I don't know about spanking, but I believe there is some research indicating that all mammals enjoy intensity in lovemaking. Primates bite one another during sex. And of course, having opposable thumbs, they can wield a paddle.
I would love to be the MRI technician who measures your baseline brain waves before I spank you, while I spank you, and afterwords. Science is such a wondrous thing! |
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