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Angel_eyes
New member
Username: Angel_eyes
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 08:07 am: | 
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Hi 
I am rather nervous about being here. My husband and I are very new to spanking. We are not DD- just doing it for the enjoyment of it. My question is this: how do I make that delicious sting last longer? My husband has really busted my butt and still the sting is gone within a few minutes. I want it to last through the love making portion of the evening, but it just isn't.  |
Warmpalm
Spanko
Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 134
Registered: 05-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 10:14 am: |
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Some people use rubbing alcohol. I don't know if this is safe. |
Mbottom
Spanko
Username: Mbottom
Post Number: 38
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 10:55 am: |
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Personally, I think u need to either have a longer spanking or one that is more intense. I know what you mean, I thought I had taken a real wholloping & next thing I knew, it was gone with no residual what so ever.....I think its because you are so new to spanking, it feels more intense than it is...does that make sense? For me, I'm not even sore the next day (which I like to be) unless there is at least some light bruising & normally I bruise easily.....but would have to say with spanking I really don't, especially if given a warm up. (It's possible now I'm just rambling, sorry.....) I hope this helps. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3750
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 10:57 am: |
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Try using some lotion or cream before the spanking, it really adds to the sting.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Angel_eyes
New member
Username: Angel_eyes
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 11:06 am: |
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Good point! It may not be as hard as I perceive. I will try the lotion and talk to my husband about upping the intensity. Thanks! |
Verywideawake1
Spanko
Username: Verywideawake1
Post Number: 27
Registered: 05-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 02:04 pm: |
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I also find that when I get spanked hard higher up on my bottom, the ache and sting lasts longer. I guess that's just 'cause there's more fat in the lower part of my butt and that part recovers more quickly. Last session I got spanked high and hard, and felt the sting for the rest of the day and the ache for a day and a half after.
Just a few notes of caution. If you are getting spanked high up, be VERY careful of your tailbone, which basically starts right at the top of your butt crack. You don't want to get hit there, especially with an implement. That could be BAD news. Maybe get your hubby to cover that spot with his other hand so he doesn't miss when he aims high?
The other thing to watch for is bruising. I don't show my bruises because I am very dark skinned, If I did, I think I may have have been black and blue after my last spanking, so just be careful about that if marks are a problem for you. |
Angel_eyes
New member
Username: Angel_eyes
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2011 - 02:14 pm: |
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Ouch! Yes, I can see that as a problem . I never thought about getting hit on the tail bone! I do show bruises and that is one of the issues we are having. Hubby doesn't like leaving marks, so he is holding back somewhat I think. Though it feels nice and hard at the time. I would just like to hang on to it for a bit . I would love to still feel the after effects the following day ;) |
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