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Phxcouple22
New member Username: Phxcouple22
Post Number: 1 Registered: 08-2011
| Posted on Wednesday, August 10, 2011 - 04:08 pm: |
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Hey everyone my wife and I just joined here after reading a few stories. My wife is really into spankings and just recently opened up to me after a year of being together. So here we are. I'm into the idea and the lifestyle and would love to learn more to fulfill her wants and make her happy |
Warmpalm
Spanko Username: Warmpalm
Post Number: 142 Registered: 05-2011
| Posted on Wednesday, August 10, 2011 - 05:50 pm: |
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Welcome!!! How great that your wife is telling you what she likes. That says a lot about her and about you. One reason it makes sense to read the posts here is that you very quickly understand how normal these people are. Normal, and decent. People you feel you'd like to know even apart from the shared interest. That you're on the same page, or seem to be, is a gigantic step in the right direction. Some couples incorporate spanking in their lifestyles despite the misgivings or doubts of one of the partners. Often they make it work out very well, but obviously if you're both either into it or open to the idea, you have a good basis for real harmony. Of the women I spanked, only one had post-spanking remorse, which took of form of verbal abuse and accusations of perversity and such directed towards me---even though her spanking had been mild and she urged me on the whole time. It ended our relationship. I think most people would agree that the essential component is communication. Sounds like you have that. Congratulations. |
Yorkie69
Spanko Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 100 Registered: 08-2010
| Posted on Thursday, August 11, 2011 - 08:38 am: |
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Hi and welcome Phxcouple22! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3756 Registered: 05-2005
| Posted on Thursday, August 11, 2011 - 09:15 am: |
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Welcome to the Dem, Phxcouple. Queen of Innocence "Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tess
Spanko Username: Tess
Post Number: 54 Registered: 07-2011
| Posted on Thursday, August 11, 2011 - 11:21 am: |
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Hi there i'm sure as you go along and read about our posts you and your husband would come across some new ideas,yes we are normal people who either like to be spanked or like to spank! Some incorporate sex with it others don't.The important thing is that you are both fine about it and respect each others wishes. |