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Lenny
New member
Username: Lenny
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2012
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 21, 2012 - 07:36 pm: | 
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Hi, Lenny here after 25 years of marriage and after my wife's obsession with fifty shades of gray she unloads the statement "I want you to spank me and not those little love taps on my ass while we are doing it.......I want it hard." I need help folks, this is new to me. Has she always had this fetish and the book gave her the courage to come out with it? What do you nice ladies in here get out of it? Can you get me up to speed? thanks. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 2099
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 22, 2012 - 02:24 am: |
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quote:Has she always had this fetish and the book gave her the courage to come out with it? What do you nice ladies in here get out of it? Can you get me up to speed?
Sorry, Lenny, but these are questions only your wife can answer. She is the key to this, plain and simple. You're going to have to start talking to her about this and just keep talking. Communication is a huge part of this lifestyle. You can't get anywhere without it.
If you truly want this is work for both of you you're going to have to learn exactly what she's looking for both emotionally and physically. Then you're going to have to figure out how to work it out for yourself as well. You're in this together now. There are so many sides to this lifestyle and the only people who can figure out how yours is going to work is the two of you.
We can give you advice and tell you how it works for us, but until you get some idea of what your wife is looking for, there's not a lot we have to offer you yet. We definitely don't want to lead you in the wrong direction because what works for some of us doesn't work at all for others.
Talk, listen, experiment, then talk, listen, experiment, and repeat. That's about all the advice I can give you for now until you learn more about what your wife is looking for.
Good luck!
Bethie |
Shaymus
New member
Username: Shaymus
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2012
| | Posted on Saturday, October 20, 2012 - 03:45 pm: |
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Hallo to all members. As an older spanko , I have discovered that ours is a young persons kink. I am finding it very difficult to make contact with other spankos merely because I am 70 years old. That I am vigorous, sensitive and experienced doesnt seem to matter. I would be interested from any other"old contemptible" on this problem. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4028
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 21, 2012 - 02:02 pm: |
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Shaymus, you will find "we" come in all ages. We have plenty of active members who come with years of experiences. (my personal favorite)
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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E_class35
New member
Username: E_class35
Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2012
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 23, 2012 - 07:43 pm: |
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Hi. I am a lifelong spanko who has always enjoyed having naughty young ladies over my knee for a good warming session. However, I have recently discovered that not only do I like to give, but also receive the same treatment. My loving side has taken me in hand and it has really brought us closer together as a couple. She has expressed interest in indulging a fantasy of mine of myself being a voyuer hiding directly while she is across the knee of a third party getting here bare bottom spanked soundly! To say the least, it is a fantasy that we would not mind having come true. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4029
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, October 24, 2012 - 11:21 am: |
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Welcome and thanks for your input; however do you restrict yourself to only "young" ladies. If you read my post above, we do come in all ages!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Imagine
New member
Username: Imagine
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2012
| | Posted on Monday, November 26, 2012 - 11:31 am: |
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shaymus,you are not alone! I am 74 and like to imagine a 30 something,posh and arrogant,bending over with tight knickers and waiting for her spanking with my plastic ruler. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4032
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, November 26, 2012 - 03:13 pm: |
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Hello and welcome, Imagine......why the need to put an age on her? We naughty girls come in all ages and sizes!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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E_class35
New member
Username: E_class35
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2012
| | Posted on Saturday, January 19, 2013 - 05:26 pm: |
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I do not restrict myself to young ladies, not in the least bit. A naughty bottom is a naughty bottom.
E_Class
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