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Babyj4
Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 206
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 29, 2005 - 04:16 pm: | 
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Welcome to the den, I can totally relate to your problem. I am 22 years old, and I have been a spanko since I can remember. I have been with my husband for 7 years now, married for 4. At first I didn't dare tell him of my ubsession afraid I might scare him off. About 1 year into our marrage I talked to him about my desire to be spanked, be was sceptical, but we tried it out. Since than we have enjoyed it durring foreplay, but not as anything elso. At first it was okay like this, but 2 years ago I decided I wanted him to discipline spank me as well. This through him for a loop. He did once about 1 week after I told him, but then he didn't do it any more. About 4 months ago I was so frusterated with myself I wanted a spanking despratly and brought up the topic again. He said no because he was afraid of hurting me. I dropped it for a while, but lately I've become ubsessed with it. I tried talking to him, I printed out some stories about it, I wrote him letters about it, and it helped. He spanked me last week, but it wasn't exactly what I was looking for. We talked about it and I forwarded an email to him from another male member in the den about him and his wife. He read it last night and told me this morning that when he gets home tonight we are going to talk. I don't know what kind of spanking you are into, but try educating her more on the subject, she might become interested. But till then join in our cyber play, it has kept me busy while I wait. Sorry for the long blog, but I thought hearing about my experience so far might help. Good luck
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Blb2
New member
Username: Blb2
Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 29, 2005 - 04:28 pm: |
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Babyj4
Thanks for your post!! It makes me feel better I am not the only person. She does spank me once in a while but just like you I have the desire to be disciplined. She was spanked as a child and has very bad memories, so it is hard for her to discipline. I will take yor advice and join the cyber play. Thanks for your concern!
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Babyj4
Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 209
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, September 29, 2005 - 04:39 pm: |
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your welcome, I was beat as a child, but a spanking is different. I don't want to be beat or whipped, I just want to be spanked. Try explaining the difference and tell her that if you can't take it you'll tell her. Explain that yes a spanking hurts, but it doesn't injur you when done properly. Tell her exactly what you want, and how you want her to do it. Good luck and I'll see you in cyber play.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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