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Spoiltbrat
New member
Username: Spoiltbrat
Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 20, 2008 - 11:45 am: | 
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Hi everyone
Hello , Ive been lurking for a while
so thought it was time to say Hi
A little about me
Ive always been interested in spanking and deep down I am a naughty girl ( brat )
I was more interested in other people getting spanked
I loved watching films with spanking scenes
( there were plenty in the late 1970,s )
and if i came across a passage in a book , I would read it over and over again.
but mostly I was interested in real discipline spankings between adults
Over and over in my head I kept telling myself I was strange
so i kept it to myself
but the need to be spanked was always there
I was so unhappy , and trapped , and very very stressed , I needed to come out !
and so I did
I was married to my husband for over 20 years before i plucked up the courage to tell him my secret ,writing him a letter broke the ice for me , and OMG , what a difference it has made to our marriage
He is a natural
I get that look , I get the Tone , I get the " you are going over my knee young lady "
and i get the discipline spankings i have craved for all my life . ( yes i`m a lucky girl )
For the first time in my life
I am in love !!
Ive always Loved him ....... but now I am deeply and totally in love with him
Im sorry for babbling on , but I felt i needed to share this , just in case anyone out there is thinking of "" telling him ""
go for it .............. it has changed my life
susanx
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3546
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 20, 2008 - 12:20 pm: |
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Hello susan and welcome to the Den. Please feel free to post eveywhere you would like, but no underage references are allowed by site protocol.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Prissietl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 299
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Friday, August 22, 2008 - 10:18 am: |
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WELCOME!! 
i too was married for many many years before getting the courage to fess up to my hubby....i'm with you.... to all who have not fessed up....go for it! It has also made us closer!
Once a princess always a princess
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Catalyst
New member
Username: Catalyst
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Friday, August 22, 2008 - 05:37 pm: |
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Welcome... I'm relatively new here too.
It seems that many women have anxiety about revealing their desire to be spanked to their man. As a man who likes to spank, there is nothing I can think of that would make me go "Oh, yeah!!!" than to hear this from my woman. Maybe you (or someone else) could explain what it is that made you reticent? What is the bad reaction you feared? Or is it more that asking and initiating is contrary to the form of masculine command that you are seeking?
To me it seems much harder to ask the other way, since the spanker has to ask the spankee to volunteer to suffer pain and some humiliation for a benefit that may or may not be consciously embraced by them. There's also an odd sort of problem that to get consent requires asking and to get satisfaction requires telling. I dealt with this once by telling my new girlfriend at the time to ask me to spank her the next time she was horny. It's fifteen years later and the outcome of that still turns me on thinking about it. Though I wouldn't trade what I have now with my wife for anything. |
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