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Spankedjayne
New member Username: Spankedjayne
Post Number: 1 Registered: 10-2008
| Posted on Sunday, October 26, 2008 - 01:07 pm: |
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Hello! I am MJ and I live in MO. I have been interested in spanking. I have a boyfriend that doesn't mind spanking me and being spanked, though I cannot convince him that I want more than a few spanks. I have talked with him about my need of therapy spankings just to cry and he says he will do it but then doesn't. We both just give each other a few token and move on. He doesn't want to hurt but doesn't understand that I do. I am hoping I can get Ideas from this sight on how to approach this. We are both overweight and that makes it hard to go over each others' laps but that is the position I like and feel safe in. we both wind up bent over the bed. I am happy to be a user of this sight! Thanks for reading. MJ (Message edited by bethie on October 26, 2008) |
Badgirl000
New member Username: Badgirl000
Post Number: 5 Registered: 10-2008
| Posted on Sunday, October 26, 2008 - 04:52 pm: |
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Hi MJ! Welcome. I just joined also I have been in a DD relationship for the last few years. My boyfriend wasn't a spanker when we first started and he does not like to be spanked. Now he is a strict disciplinarian and he gives me what I deserve and need. We also spank for fun. I finally told my boyfriend what I wanted by sitting him down, having a serious discussion about it and we started reading about spankings together. I had to start the discussion and brought the information to his attention. He got interested. Now here we are. We too have questions and look to others for help sometimes. Try showing him the discussions and posts. There are a lot of good ones here and discuss what you are interested in. Bring it to his attention. Good luck!! |
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