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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 516
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, June 06, 2006 - 11:37 pm: | 
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I know all of us on here have either been spanked or spank; clearly, so normally wouldn't post about a spanking. However, earlier tonight I got my first spanking in about 6 or 7 weeks and although it was only a hand spanking, it was long and hard, and I cried. Not hysterical crying but I had tears, and I'm not sure but I think it had to be a combination of the pain and my feeling guilty; I mean, I have never cried from a hand spanking alone, but have cried many times when implements are involved. It was definitely a severe hand spanking but I've had much much worse both with just the hand alone, and certainly with implements, but tonight it hurt so much. I couldn't beieve it! Had I developed a tolerance and now don't have it anymore and therefore, have to build it up again? Is this a plausible explanation for why it hurt so much? It was a little over an hour ago and it is still stingy to sit on... ouchy ouchy ouchy!
The Princess of Spanking
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Subbie
Junior Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 53
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 03:13 am: |
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OMG don't know if i could go that long with out a spanking, I need at least one a week to keep my on an even keel. I would probably cry if I had to go 6 or 7 weeks without getting a good dose of the paddle. sure hope things get better for you.
my name says it all
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 914
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 09:56 am: |
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Katie, I know how you feel! Sometimes life happens and you're forced to take a break. Last year I became ill and the last thing I needed was a spanking. It took over a month before I was well enough to even think about playing, and then Dan eased me back into my spankings very carefully.
It didn't take too long though but I think that's due more to my years of spanking experience than anything. I don't even want to think about how my years compare to yours...
Once nice thing about being sensitive is that even the light spankings leave you feeling tender and well-spanked longer. That's a plus! Don't worry, you'll be back to your usual self in no time. You just need to give your body a little time to readjust, being sick takes alot out of a person so take it easy.  |
Bailey
New member
Username: Bailey
Post Number: 15
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 10:38 am: |
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Katie,
I know personally my tolerance is up and down all the time depending on what time of the month it is, and how other areas of my life are going. I've also noticed that my right side inevitably can handle more (easily) than my left side. I think it's perfectly normal that after being ill your body might be a little hyper sensitive. I wouldn't worry about it. The main thing is to be self aware enough about where you are that you're pushing yourself (if you want to), but not over doing it.
"She makes love just like a woman ... but she breaks just like a little girl."
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Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 187
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 11:10 am: |
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Hi Katie,
Were you anxious about it b/c it had been so long? Perhaps you are not psychologically as up for it as you used to be. Also, I always think a spanking hurts more whenever it first starts. Maybe it does, maybe not. But the idea that you lost your tolerance might have psyched you out. Or else you just forgot how much it hurts. And the hand really does hurt. I'm sure you'll be back to your old self in no time.
Cheers,
Victoria
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Little_miss
New member
Username: Little_miss
Post Number: 21
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 11:28 am: |
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Katie, me and Adam had to lay off spanking for over 3 months because of a mixed up living arrangement and when we started again, i couldn't handle anything. I'm still more sensitive but only because we haven't had a chance to do any severe spankings (and i don't do naughty things on a daily basis now. lol). No worries, the tolerance goes up with every spanking you do. Good Luck!
"Lately it just seems to me like we have the letters ADD branded into our mentality"
~Reliant K
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 506
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 12:11 pm: |
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Most of you know that my spankings are on hold for at least 6-8 weeks because of my surgery....but I have to tell you Bethie - Hubby was THRILLED when I told him about winning the oar in the contest!! He can't wait to see it. But because of the surgery, we are going to start ever so slowly.....mmmmm...now that's something to look forward too 
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 178
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 07, 2006 - 04:11 pm: |
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lol Katie ...My last hand spanking punishment ..actually hurt me MORE (then the tire ??? paddle and hole filled paddle)and left me marked and tender the next day ...the dang fingers left welts ..and the intimatcy of it made it worse for me ...not to mention ...the heat of his hand ..made my heated rear explode in more pain then a cool insterment
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 541
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 10:57 pm: |
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Wow, thanks everyone for their input. Yea, it's still way off but there was nothing we could do with my being ill. Bailey - that is interesting about one side being able to take more; I wonder why - actually that is quite interesting. Has it always been this way?
I do think it might have hurt more because I built it up a great deal in my hear beforehand, but then again I overthink everything so it could be that too, LOL. Thanks for everyone's input and concern...
The Princess of Spanking
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