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Jorge
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Username: Jorge

Post Number: 11
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 05:50 am:   Edit Post

I HAVE YET TO ENJOY SPANKING A WILLING GAL,BUT I WANT TO UNDERSTAND IN THE HOPE THAT I'LL BE MORE IN TUNE WITH ANY LADY I DO SPANK IN THE FUTURE;
MY QUESTION,WHY DO YOU LIKE TO BE SPANK?I, HONESTLY FIND IT VERY EROTIC,THE THOUGHT MAKE MY BLOOD RACE BUT I KNOW WE ARE ALL VERY DIFFERENT;ALSO, IS IT ALWAY ABOUT SUMISSION?AND DOES}}}} THE NEED TO BE DOMINATED ARISE? RESPECTFULLY, JORGE
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 2581
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 12:42 pm:   Edit Post

Jorge, just a personal preference, but most people take letters written in all caps to be a form of yelling. I find it a bit difficult to read.
That said, everyone in an individual, and enjoy spanking for their own satisfaction. A blanket statement about submission and domination does not apply to everyone. Therefore you cannot say "alway" about any aspect of life. When you met someone and that relationship develops in a spanking situation, you will need to take into account what you and the spankee want to get out of it.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Weasel
Spanko
Username: Weasel

Post Number: 106
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 - 01:29 pm:   Edit Post

...and how many un-willing gals have you spanked, hmmm? In answer to the question - yes I do like to be spanked, but our spankings are just for erotic fun, not punishment. I'm in charge of most of our life, so letting go of that being the one in charge is sort of in play for me personally. You need to negotiate with your prospective spankee what is considered ok in her book. Like Fanny said, it's going to be different for everyone. I like Blue but there are lots of shades of blue and I don't like all of them. There's lots of ways to get spanked and I certainly don't want to sign up for all of them!
Ditto on the all-caps. It's considered "yelling". If you have a vision problem that prevent you from easily reading lower case, you can set your computer to large font in windows desktop properties section. Then you could use lower case, and it would appear larger for you to see easier.
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 225
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Thursday, July 20, 2006 - 04:04 pm:   Edit Post

I like being spanked because it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. It helps me to fee wanted. In my first marriage my x reminded me how disposable I was. A spanking for being a bit mouthy is much nicer than a "if you don`t like my ways get the F out. I like being loved and I love the release of adrenaline a good spanking gives me.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Jorge
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Username: Jorge

Post Number: 12
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Friday, July 21, 2006 - 06:45 pm:   Edit Post

thank you ms. gator.
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Sissy9
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Username: Sissy9

Post Number: 24
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Monday, July 24, 2006 - 08:17 pm:   Edit Post

I need the feeling of being dominated,then the sensation of sub-space after.I like the scolding, corner,and the whole bit,role play for me I guess.
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Nicenick06
Junior Spanko
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 90
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Saturday, July 29, 2006 - 05:37 am:   Edit Post

As a switch I both like to spank and liked to be spank.
I enjoy both.
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Sarahsbrat
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Username: Sarahsbrat

Post Number: 46
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 08:44 am:   Edit Post

\why are you yelling???
Not just any naughty brat...Sarahsbrat
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 1012
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 09:17 am:   Edit Post

The yelling issue was addressed back in July!! :-)
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Atomicpuppy
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Username: Atomicpuppy

Post Number: 38
Registered: 08-2006


Posted on Wednesday, August 09, 2006 - 12:19 pm:   Edit Post

For some reason just thinking about spanking gets me excited.The feeling of someone smacking my bare bum,the sensation,warm after glow,even the pain,the many different implements you can use and yes the feeling of letting go and letting someone you trust take control.All the different senarios to explore
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Nicenick06
Spanko
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 132
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Thursday, August 10, 2006 - 11:07 pm:   Edit Post

Fannny your comment was thought provoking.
AS ALWAYS.
Welcome back.

In answer to Jorge’s question.
Endorphin’s get released into the brain when spanko’s get into the spanking frame of mind.
Why?
We are just built that way as some people are built with a 100% homosexual preference
and others less so.
Some are 100% hetero.
Some change their preference during their life.
Same with spanking.
Was it Katie or Fanny which said we are more passionate?
(both of them are the most adorable girls...)
Lucky for their partners alas.
Even if I was young enough which I am not unfortunately.

Take care to all
Nick

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