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Straddlinnpaddlin
New member
Username: Straddlinnpaddlin
Post Number: 15
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 07:35 pm: | 
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Hi "sub" ladies. I am curious about how you discovered that you desired to be spanked? Did you think of it while you had some idle time and your man was away? Did you discover it completely by accident? I am interested in what triggered your desire. |
Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 294
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 09:06 pm: |
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I discovered it by accident when I was 29 yrs of age. I was reading articles in my husbands playboy. I read an erotic one about spanking and I noticed I got really HOT! I told hubby as soon as he got home from work, he was happy to try it 
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Straddlinnpaddlin
New member
Username: Straddlinnpaddlin
Post Number: 16
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 14, 2006 - 10:28 pm: |
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A lady that looks at Playboy...very nice. Thanks for sharing how you started ladygator. |
Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 973
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 06:06 am: |
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Hi Straddlin
I only discovered spanking about 4 years ago - and hubby and I have been married for 31 years! I happened to be searching the web and found some sites - the more I read about spanking, the more interested I became (and the more I realized that it was something I wanted and needed).
I was wayyyyyyyyy to embarrassed to tell him - I figured he would think I can gone off my rocker!-my hubby is a sweet, kind, vanilla kinda guy. He would NEVER even THINK to spank me. One day I finally got up the nerve to talk to him about it, and I copied some very good articles about domestic discipline spanking from some very good websites..............
It took lots of conversations, experimenting, and honesty to come into this lifestyle, but it has made such a difference in our relationship.
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Straddlinnpaddlin
New member
Username: Straddlinnpaddlin
Post Number: 18
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 01:19 pm: |
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Pink, thanks for the insight and glad it has made a positive difference for you and husband. |
Chinnook
New member
Username: Chinnook
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 02:02 pm: |
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Hello Straddin,
I have always had fantasies for as long as I can remember. I can remember though looking at some articles in Playboy also and then I went to the internet, I was so turned on by the whole thing I just had to try it. My b/f now knew I was kinky just after we got to know each other. I have always had hand and ankle cuffs. But the problem was I had experimented with other b/f's but he had never done any such thing with any of his other g/f's but he was game. But there was still one problem yet we were living with relatives and couldn't experiment until just recently. We are still in the experimenting stage but so far so good!!!! |
Straddlinnpaddlin
New member
Username: Straddlinnpaddlin
Post Number: 20
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 15, 2006 - 05:51 pm: |
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Living with relatives, ouch! Been there, done that and I can relate. Thx tho for letting me know how u got started. |
Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 778
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 03:20 am: |
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I think it was something I just always knew I was interested in or at least curious about.
The Princess of Spanking™
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Prissietl
Junior Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 71
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 07:27 am: |
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Me to katie, It is something that has always been there, but the internet let me know i was not crazy or sick or alone.
Wonderful thing the internet!!!!
I just decided im old enough and have been married long enough (almost 20 yrs) i should get what i want..................and now i do!
Once a princess always a princess
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 781
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 04:54 pm: |
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LOL, me too!!! I thought I was a total wierdo, LOL... now only a little bit, LOL...
The Princess of Spanking™
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Blushingbride
New member
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 24
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 16, 2006 - 06:20 pm: |
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Add me to the list of "always wanted this" but didn't really do anything about it til the last few months. Mostly due to the embarassment factor, and the fear that my sweetie would think I had gone koo koo. |
Emithe1
New member
Username: Emithe1
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 02:13 pm: |
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I am just discovering this about myself and very excited in more ways than one.
My problem is finding men who understand my submissive side without taking advantage of me. |
Docben
New member
Username: Docben
Post Number: 47
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 02:40 pm: |
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Hey Emithe,
My ex-g/f and I started to get into spanking with a little "slap and tickle" during foreplay. After a couple of time of "teasing", it progressed to full spankings, and then, just for fun we started to role-play. It's just tough finding women would want to play.
(Message edited by docben on November 21, 2006) |
Ma_vie_en_rose
Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 299
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 04:19 pm: |
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I've kind of always been interested too. I guess I'm a bit of a lifer. ;) |
Slipperings
New member
Username: Slipperings
Post Number: 24
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, November 23, 2006 - 02:56 pm: |
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Maybe a new subject on this one..When did you GUY find out you were into this...Just a idea.. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1517
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 23, 2006 - 03:46 pm: |
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Slipperings why don't you start a new thread? |
Superbrat
New member
Username: Superbrat
Post Number: 15
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 01:43 am: |
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I must be he weirdest. I was very, very young. Edited due to underage references. That fed my fantasy for years until I got my first boyfriend to spank me when I was about 19 I think. |
Admin
Board Administrator
Username: Admin
Post Number: 73
Registered: 03-2005
| | Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 02:02 pm: |
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Reminder to all, please keep all discussions about adult, consensual spanking experiences. Any mention of spankings involving minors (including memories of your own experiences before you reached the age of 18) will be edited.
Thank you! |
Freetobeme
New member
Username: Freetobeme
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Monday, November 27, 2006 - 03:52 pm: |
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I really don't know what triggered my interest in being spanked.
But I would fantasize about being spanked by a girl friend, or mother figure or from a boyfriend.
I even had awesome dreams of doing finding myself being placed over a lap for a spanking.
Now I have wonderful husband to fulfill these needs. |
Superbrat
New member
Username: Superbrat
Post Number: 19
Registered: 11-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - 02:04 am: |
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Sorry Admin....that's a hard one to remember. I can certainly see the element you are keeping out of here and I certainly appreciate it. Will have to think about responses to questions like that when it involves memories. |
Misspanked
New member
Username: Misspanked
Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 01:13 am: |
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Although I've never had any specific experiences or a certain 'date' that I can pin it on, my interest in spanking has always been a part of me. I can't remember a time when I wasn't excited about the idea! |
Meilong
New member
Username: Meilong
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 03:18 am: |
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What an interesting series of answers. Thanks everyone.
But what interests me is that none of the respondents got an interest in spanking by being spanked as a child, or spanked in school. That's against all the theories I have heard about. |
Admin
Board Administrator
Username: Admin
Post Number: 74
Registered: 03-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 12:34 pm: |
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Meilong, please see my above post about underage spanking references. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1570
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 12, 2006 - 04:19 pm: |
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Misspanked I could have said that better myself!! |
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