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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 90
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2005 - 09:13 pm: | 
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I know that in the many relationships out there between Tops/Doms and bottoms/subs there are any number of offenses that would result in a spanking and that each relationship will be different.
But what offenses result in a spanking for you.
And/or Tops/Doms what offenses do you spank for.
I know one of the biggest one is health issues. Probably drinking and driving, speeding. I am just curious what some of the other ones may be.
I'm curious would driving while talking on a cell phone be a spankable offense for the majority or not.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 891
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2005 - 09:56 pm: |
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ummmmm Beachley, I could probably say "anything and everything", depending on the mood of the household. 
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 271
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2005 - 11:42 pm: |
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Yes Ann, driving while talking on the cell if I didnt have a handsfree set attached, would definitely be spankable. So is trying to text while at stop lights...although I never do that! 
Anything concerning my health or safety are big issues and can get me in a lot of trouble. Are we talking any kind of offense here? Or just the serious/punishment kind? 
And please dont bring up breaking curfew...
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 91
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 09:21 am: |
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Now see there is one that I never thought of before -- texting while at a stop light. How about texting while trying to drive. That's not a spankable offense unless you are told NOT to it before you do it right. OH Boy I could be in trouble for that one See there is a potential spankable offense I did not even think of.
Wolfie I would not think to bring up curfews EVERYONE knows what happens if you break curfew. Ummm good luck
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Chuck
New member
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 09:23 am: |
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The major reason my wife earns a spanking is for the broad catagory of not telling the truth.
This can be telling a direct untruth, providing only part of the story or in some way manipulating me by withholding information. I can accept mistakes - we are all human, but it upsets me when she tries to cover up. The consequence, if she is caught, is swift and sure.
The second catagory would be health and safety.
I recently tanned her bottom for a ticket for running a red light. Note - I would have given her a good talking to if it had been a speeding ticket but not a spanking. It is easy to go 70 in a 55 zone here in Texas. Running a red light is decision.
Having more than one drink and driving.
Not taking proper precautions when going to dangerous parts of town.
Relationship
Yelling at the kids. It is OK to get mad but it is not OK to loose your temper.
Being very late or changing plans without calling. If it gets to the point I am worried she is in trouble.
Lots of small things and rule infractions that finally add up to a big thing. Example: Buying healthy food for me that she has no intention of eating herself, running out of coffee and using the back up coffee without tell me or replacing it, using my razor on her legs, changing the settings on my radio when she drives my car .... AT SOME POINT .. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
Anything I feel she has done that deserves a spanking. I make the call.
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 897
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 11:10 am: |
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oooooo Chuckie!!! Slow down. When I said "anything and everything" I was just halfway joking. Some things are just a part of being in a marriage or relationship. Changing the settings on your radio is inconsiderate, but come on.
So you are telling me you have never yelled at the kids? I guess that puts you in the saint category in my book.
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 92
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 06:16 pm: |
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LOL - Ooops I think I'd be in trouble with Chuckie most of the time. But I share the radio stations in the car with Mr. B he gets the first half and I get the 2nd half of the buttons. Problem solved in that instant.
I never lie - so that's not a problem. But all the little things -- well what can I say. I'm the wife and the princess.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Bendover
Junior Spanko
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 66
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 09:20 pm: |
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I think we call all agree on one thing. No cell phones while you're being spanked. Never never never. 
Other than that, I would think that a spankable offense would be anything that harms the spankee (such as Chuck pointed out so well) or damages the relationship.
Lack of respect would be very high on my list.
Down with pink panties!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 908
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2005 - 09:28 pm: |
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Totally Ben, respect is very high on the list. Health issue definately, so are we now in agreement that refusing to eat is not healthy?
Now I think I may be in trouble by people following my lead with the Chuckie thing. Sorry Chuck.
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 273
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 09:56 am: |
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Ummmm, I actually have been talking on my cell phone while being spanked...or I guess you could call it more like yelling!
The first time I was talking to a friend who is also a spanko, when both her Dom and mine flipped us over and began spanking merrily away. We kept on talking and laughing, but the conversation was more like..."ouch! Make him stop! Ooooh you meanie! Help! Owwwww!"
The second time was as a favor to Ann. It seems her hubby always chose those moments when we were chatting to come in and swat her a few times, with me laughing uproariously in the background. So to "even up the score" Steve made sure to have me phone her while bent over an ottoman, and she got to listen in as I squealed, cursed and yelled for help. So not fair! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 914
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 11:41 am: |
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While we are on the subject...this morning while driving I was almost hit by a woman talking on her cell, while her child was bouncing around in the back seat completely unrestrained. She switched lanes without looking and luckily I was able to swerve over into the break down lane. Somebody better give her a wake up call!!
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Papa_spanker
New member
Username: Papa_spanker
Post Number: 2
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 11:44 am: |
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We have a Spencer Agreement with each of our spankees. If they violate (and they often do) any of the spanking offences in the agreement, they get a harsh spanking for it. The offenses vary with each spankee. |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 915
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 11:51 am: |
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Oh and Wolfie I completely agree with you..so not fair.....but also sooooo funny! 
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 274
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 01:09 pm: |
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Humphf!!! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 918
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 01:27 pm: |
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I'm sure that sound came out of your mouth too!!!
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Naughtybynature
Spanko
Username: Naughtybynature
Post Number: 102
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 02:14 pm: |
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What offenses result in a spanking for me:
Eating and self esteem.
Did is a word of achievement, Won't is a word of retreat, Might is a word of bereavement, Can't is a word of defeat, Ought is a word of duty, Try is a word of each hour, Will is a word of beauty, Can is a word of power.
*(Unknown Author)
Don't take life so seriously.....it isn't permanent
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 93
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 04:00 pm: |
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LOL -
Do I get a repeat of your singing or I say yelping over the phone come October? hehehe Perhaps when he uses the little plastic flipper thingy. That would be most appreciated on my part at least.
OH and I tripped off the curb this afternoon when trying to text back Steve. So is walking and texting not a good idea. AND WHY IS HE TRYING TO CONFIRM MR. B's CELL NUMBER???? Whenever he does that, I get suspicious that Steve is up to something that is not in my bottoms best interest.
Tell your Dom Wolfie to be good!! 
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 275
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 04:48 pm: |
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My oh my Ann, whatever do you have to be guilty about? I'm sure whatever it is, Steve will be more than happy to let Mr.B know all about it! 
Tell him to be good? But he already is Ann; very, very good! Good at making toys, good at spanking, good at mind games...take your pick. Which one sends the cold shiver up your spine the worst? 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 924
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 05:08 pm: |
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Mind games make me SCREAM!!!!!!!! That is of course, unless I am the one initiating them.
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 94
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 05:33 pm: |
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Tsk, Tsk, Tsk.... Wolfie don't you know that ultimately it is the sub that is the one in control. You have totally lost control of your Dom.
I'm not guilty of anything... I think he's playing his mind games.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 276
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 08:47 pm: |
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I'll be sure to let him know you think so Ann, and that you think I should be the one in control. I really doubt he'll agree with you though. 
Fanny, they make me scream too, but usually with delight. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 928
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 09:23 pm: |
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Nothing wrong with a good scream, Wolfie.
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 95
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 09:24 pm: |
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I'm with you Fanny - mind games in person at least make me think, are you serious???? And then I start doubting or worrying even when I know the truth or that Mr. B is only teasing me. Mr. B is pretty good at them, thankfully he does not use them too often.
No Steve would not agree with me, but you and I know the truth. hehehe But keep it to ourselves.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Bigfoot1408
Junior Spanko
Username: Bigfoot1408
Post Number: 61
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 25, 2005 - 11:26 pm: |
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i don't do "punishment" type spankings yet... we don't live together so i have no agreement to do them, i settle for erotic type and add a swat or two if she has been bratty, she has learned what kinds of bratty things to do to get an extra spank.. }hit me,sass me, tease me, { type things..
they usually end up with her on her back and her knees in her chest with my lieing over her legs with all that beautiful area in front of me to spank and blow razzberries in the middle.
punishment type spankings are a bit more controlling than i want to get into this early in the relationship. we are both learning about spanking neither of us were into it before so it is still new.. if we make the relationship permanent i will take more control but for now i am being easy and baiting the trap. |
Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 197
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 06:07 am: |
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I would definatly say the thing that gets me in the most trouble is my temper. Although lying does and so does self distructive behavior.
I didn't get a spanking for my "blow up" the other day where I punched the wall.. but I think that was because I had 15 minutes to be at work when I punched the wall.
I haven't ever gotten a speeding ticket, and don't have a cell phone so, I don't have to worry about that.. *knock on wood about the speeding ticket*
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Papa_spanker
New member
Username: Papa_spanker
Post Number: 3
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 07:32 am: |
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Saturday evening my "daughter spankee" and let me emphasize that she is NOT my real daughter. We have a papa/daughter role play relationship. Anyway during the course of an OTK session she bratted me by saying, "Are you done yet?!" Needless to say I reached for my favorite impliment, THE HAIRBRUSH, and proceeded to lay a volley of hard smacks right on each side of her sit spot commenting, "Finished? I haven't even started.........." |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 277
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 08:54 am: |
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I'm sure she wont make THAT mistake again!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 96
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 07:21 pm: |
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Yep - that is just asking for a more concentrated spanking. Usually more than I am willing to initiate by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Plus Hairbrushes ar just awfully.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 278
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 07:49 pm: |
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And is that why you sent me TWO wooden ones...you brat! Ones that I was made to bring to Steve so he could try them out on me! Maybe I need to send Mr.B a VBB as well as Squire?
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 97
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 08:42 pm: |
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NO thank you. If that is a bath brush - I am absolutely we don't need one of those.
Now be truthful Wolfie there were lots of other nice things in that basket too. I can't help it if Steve zeroed in on the brushes. HAHAHA
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 63
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 - 08:57 pm: |
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Here I am...minding my own business...AND I GET THREATENED????
Squire does not NEED or even WANT a VBB. And if you have at me sister, be warned. I can and WILL take you down.
Give me a C....C
Give me a U....U
Give me an R...R |
Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 199
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 01:02 am: |
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what is vbb??
Losing my temper is a spankable offense, as of about 1/2 an hour ago.. As you all know I punched my wall last week, and today I was really testy. I was getting mad about every little thing. When we were leaving the mall he told me I was going to get a spanking when we got home (because I poured a whole cup of ice down his back (just bratting around, 'cause he put an ice cube down my back. We got home, put the baby to bed, and he pulled me into our little bedroom type thing, pulled off my jeans and panties and spanked me for quite a while with his hand.. then we had sex (I won't go into all the detail, because I'm sure you don't need an explination on sex) while we were laying in bed afterwards I had a thought.. he and I have both been feeling unfulfilled lately in our desires, so I proposed that this is how we do a punishment session. Start out with your hand, sex and then afterwards a more severe spanking for the actual offense. He agreed, when we got back inside from our smoke, he turned me over on the bed (on my tummy) pulled up my skirt and moved my panties, grabbed the CB (we bought one last week) and spanked me about 20 times with it (about a minute, I didn't actually count the swats but he spanked me for a minute).
I have another spanking coming tomorrow night for not going to bed at a reasonable hour last night.. I went to bed at 5:00am and had to get up at 8:00am for a work related meeting, so I have another one coming for that because it's not healthy for me to not get so little sleep.
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Katherinell
New member
Username: Katherinell
Post Number: 8
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 03:26 am: |
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I found that nothing cools my temper quite like a spanking! I would then become, like putty, in his hands
(EU translation Putty = the soft stuff they use to fix windows in )
'Ours is not to question why ours is just to bend and cry'
Spank me if you Dare!
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Papa_spanker
New member
Username: Papa_spanker
Post Number: 5
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 09:35 am: |
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I've been reading up on spankable offenses. I've decided to make our spankees keep spanking journals and recite thier infractions from their writings before each spanking. Then I will decide what impliment (including my dreaded hairbrush) should be used for that spanking! |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 936
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 12:48 pm: |
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You are kinda scaring me papa!!!
Fortunately, my book is absolutley spotless.
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Papa_spanker
New member
Username: Papa_spanker
Post Number: 7
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 07:41 pm: |
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Well no scare intended Fanny, butt I doubt that ur book is spotless  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 279
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 07:45 pm: |
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Humphf, dont tell me you didnt pick it because the brushes were in there...I'm sure Ann you were giggling like mad knowing I would get to feel them both!
Pagan, why dont you let me ask him if he WANTS one first, before you put words in his mouth. He may say just the opposite! As for you taking me down...pullllleeeease! 
Kendra, VBB stands for the Vermont Bathbrush, a charming little toy that most of us would rather not feel.
I have to keep a book Papa, and I think that Fanny should have to as well! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 940
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 08:39 pm: |
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I repeat, my book is absolutely spotless, as my behavior is above excellent. 
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 201
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 08:51 pm: |
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I don't have a book, of course we all know it would be spotless if I did
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 280
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 10:17 pm: |
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Hang on both of you...I need my hip-waders!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 942
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 27, 2005 - 11:03 pm: |
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Hey Wolfie!!!!!!!
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 281
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 10:20 am: |
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Hey Fanny! You definitely need a lot more of this!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 947
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 11:44 am: |
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YE-OW Wolfie.....but I think maybe she looks a bit more like YOU!!!!
"Queen of Innocence"
If you can't be a good example, be a horrible warning!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Papa_spanker
New member
Username: Papa_spanker
Post Number: 9
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 11:50 am: |
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- YES, YES, YES! FANNY DEFINITELY NEEDS MORE OF THIS!!! |
Admin
Board Administrator
Username: Admin
Post Number: 17
Registered: 03-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 12:31 pm: |
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I know we'll make being off-topic a spankable offense. How's that for getting us back to the subject?
Seriously, I think we've veered way off course here. So ladies and gentlemen, if you please, let's go back to discussing spankable offenses as Beachley presented it. Thank you! |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 949
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 12:57 pm: |
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That's right Madame Admin. you tell those naughty people to knock it off. And one would think Wolfie would know better.
Now as Beachley was saying......
"Queen of Innocence"
Be willing to pass up good, for great!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Beachley
Junior Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 98
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 04:16 pm: |
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I've been told Mr. B doesn't need a book he remembers all too well.
His idea of spankable offenses are anything that I would do that is not using my common sense. Do you realize how broad that category can be?
I very much would like to narrow it down. Although I do use my common sense most of the time.
One thing that always gets me into trouble is if I get an attitude. I will get a warning once maybe twice then that's the end of it. When a spanking is about attitude, they are usually fast and sure and immediate. Not pre-planned or even someplace comfortable - they just come hard and fast.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 285
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 05:09 pm: |
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Wolfie does know better, but she likes to see what she can get away with sometimes. Sorry Bethie. 
Another spankable offense for me is being cheeky. Thats too broad a catagory too IMO.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 312
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 07:23 pm: |
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It's okay, Wolfie, I can remember a thread or two I've driven so off-topic that it took a new thread to sort it all out. I've been on my best behavior here because being off-topic on my own forum is probably a spankable offense. (See I'm back on topic.) I know being cheeky is too, but I can't help that.
Beachley, attitude always gets me, too. Right now the main spankable offenses are the ones concerning my health and well-being. And I can't exactly argue about that. |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 952
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 28, 2005 - 08:46 pm: |
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Bethie, I have the ability to argue about anything and everything!! 
Oops, sorry....off topic.
"Queen of Innocence"
Be willing to pass up good, for great!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 64
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 31, 2005 - 08:31 pm: |
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Squire said the following:
I definitely DON'T want that vicious looking thing. I wouldn't dream of using it on my angel. She only deserves wonderful GGs.
I concur. 
Isn't it wonderful when a long-term relationship allows you to know EXACTLY what your mate is thinking at all time?} |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 101
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 31, 2005 - 08:50 pm: |
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I agree pagan. I usually know what Mr B is thinking too. Isn't that nice.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 286
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 31, 2005 - 11:18 pm: |
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Isnt that a bunch of BS! 
Somehow that doesnt sound like the same guy who recently brought home a bunch of paddles from a garage sale....
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 65
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 07:45 am: |
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It wasn't a garage sale.  He's hardly out scouring the neighbourhood for spanking implements.
His find is still safely stashed in OUR garage, 'airing out'. He found them, so it's time to have them moved again. Quickly.
He mentioned them last night...I tried to tell him that being spanked with a sandpaper covered version of the CB would NOT be delightful...but he seems keen to conduct his own testing.  |
Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 66
Registered: 05-2005
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Well, I just scrolled up to show him the pic of the VBB, and told him that Wolfie is pulling my chain by telling me that she's bought him one.
He thought that was very funny.
See...he thinks it's ridiculous. Right? RIGHT????? |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 290
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 10:42 pm: |
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He is filled with delicious anticipation at the thought of dusting off your bottom with an implement which will cause you the maximum amount of sting with the minimum amount of work on his part.
I share his anticipation...
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 10, 2005 - 01:24 am: |
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Now, I start thinking about starting driving again, maybe I'd get myself a lot of nice spankings . For sure, because I'm a very reckless driver, so reckless that for the sake of my safety and the safety of all the others I decided that it's better not to drive at all . I think he'd spank me really for anything that comes in handy at the time he feels like spanking me . But I'd never know how difficult it is to find the right offences that would suit both of us. He needs a reason to spank me, though he learns to accept that one of very legitimate reasons is just FUN and LOVE . And I need to know I'm making him happy and satisfied... now, how to make him feel satisfied spanking me without feeling sorry I made him unsatisfied giving him a reason to do it??  . Even though he's always telling me that all the reasons he comes up with are usually made up. Yet, it didn't feel right so I started to keep diary and now he has all too many real reasons.. Usually it's for not doing what I myself wanted to do, avaiding things, healthy issues too like not going to the fitness center or falling too much for my desire of sweets, attitude, laziness, forgetfulness etc., etc. |
Kiwi_man
New member
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 4
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 14, 2005 - 05:51 am: |
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Drink-driving is definitely the number 1 spankable offense in my book. I have handed out a number of sound spankings for this,and in every case the lady concerned agreed the punishment was well deserved and wanted to ease her conscience.
this is my first proper post by the way hello all! Joker |
Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 73
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 14, 2005 - 08:10 am: |
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Welcome, Kiwi Man!
I have to say though...Drunk driving is a criminal offense. I don't think a spanking cuts it. It may relieve someone's guilt (although I'm not sure that it should) - but does it really stop her from doing it again?
The lady/ies could have killed herself...or someone else.
This is different to me than not exercising enough, venting temper, or having an attitude. (All of which I'm regularly guilty of...and thankfully don't get spanked for).
Serious point: I don't understand why punishment spankings work in circumstances where the actual serious logical consequences of the action don't.
For instance...if the risk of losing your license...killing someone...going to jail...aren't enough to stop you from doing it - then why would the threat of a spanking? |
Reader_girl
New member
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 30
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 14, 2005 - 01:44 pm: |
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It might be because the threat of a spanking is much more immediate. I don't think most people take drunk driving seriously until it is too late. They figure they wont get caught, or they're sober enough for the short drive home. I guess I think most people don't take driving seriously enough.....
Reader Girl
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 63
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, August 14, 2005 - 02:41 pm: |
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Reader girl....I think you hit the nail right on the head. How many times do you hear the ol' "I didn't think I had had that much to drink" thing. I think that is why some people fall into it so easily, because in their every day life they state it is wrong and really do believe it. I know looking back I have certainly had times when in retrospect I had too much to drink. Did anyone see the Oprah interview with Tracey Gold? She is the young actress that got a DUI with her hubby and THREE kids in the car. She says looking back now she sees how wrong she was but really thought at the time she was fine and thought she was doing the "right" thing since she realized her husband was too impaired to drive. I, for one, know I have to be hypervigilant because I don't drink very often so when I do I am at risk for an extra serving of stupidity.
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1146
Registered: 05-2005
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Pagan, I agree with you 100%. I don't think driving will drinking is even a funny topic to discuss. Honestly, if someone I knew was drunk driving I would call the police for a wake up call before I would suggest a spanking. All you have to do is know one person killed by a drunk driver and your whole prospective will change.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 74
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 10:42 am: |
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Fanny....my cousin lost her 21 year-old son to a drunk driver. Their whole family was ripped apart, not just Matthew.
I saw Oprah. Just because Tracey Gold is likeable doesn't mean that she didn't indulge in a dangerous criminal act. She's lucky that she got a wakeup call. Many don't. Good people do make bad choices.
The person who exited the on-ramp at 120kms an hour and hit my young cousin head on walked away from the accident. My young cousin and his equally young friend did not.
I don't drive if I've had more than one. I have a very low tolerance for alcohol at the best of times...and it doesn't take much to reduce anyone's reaction time, even if you haven't had enough to impair your judgment.
It doesn't matter how you feel. You can't gauge your own reflexes adequately. Given that alcohol impairs judgment, if you've been drinking...you can no longer trust it.
I don't think that someone's guilt should be relieved with a spanking. Having to volunteer for a month or two with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) and meet people face to face whose lives have been forever altered by the act of a drunk driver seems to be a far more effective punishment/wake up call to me. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1150
Registered: 05-2005
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Exactly Pagen. My heart goes out to your family. I have family member (a baby) who was killed. Plus I know a 22 year old girl who was killed by running into a tree while drunk driving and I know a family whose son at 21 years old is serving time for hitting and killing a 16 year old pedestrian while drinking. Forget about relieving guilt, DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 67
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 11:17 am: |
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My point had nothing to do with being likeable nor that she did not commit a very serious criminal act. She does put forth a good example though in her message was very clear on Oprah. Granted, it was after she was caught. My point, which I did not make well apparently, has more to do with the fact that we as a society know to be on the look out for the chronic drinkers that then drive but we need to EDUCATE the occasional drinkers. Your points about having a low tolerance, it not mattering how you feel and not being able to gauge your own reflexes is really the whole thing I was trying to illustrate by bringing up the Gold case. I was in NO way saying that she is cute and should not be held responsible. This can happen to ANYONE that lets their guard down. Good people do make bad choices, and for that not to happen the average Joe (or Josephine as might be the case) must understand not just what happened, but HOW it happened. I'm sure I am still not expressing it the way I would like to. I think we are really more on the same page but just have different ways of expressing it. I think it does take a case like Gold's to make people wake-up and do more than just take a verbal stand while they are sober. The idea of volunteering, and especially with MADD, is a superb one.
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 367
Registered: 04-2005
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I rarely drink, and because of that it is all the more dangerous for me to have one when Im out and have to drive home. Yes, I know I shouldnt attempt driving if I even suspect I am tipsy, yes I have lost people I love to drunk drivers...but like most humans I tend to believe I'm fine, or that nothing will go wrong. Stupid, I know.
Why does the threat of a punishment spanking stop me from even contemplating driving while under the influence? Because although I may be cavalier about my own safety, knowing that not only would I get the spanking from hell but that he would be terribly upset and disappointed in me is what pops into my head when I have had a drink or two. I may be willing to face myself for making this mistake, but I could never face him. Not only would I have broken the law and taken my life and others for granted...but I would have willingly broken one of Steve's cardinal rules.
I know this may make me sound like a child, needing this kind of reinforcement to stay on the straight and narrow. I'm not normally willful, reckless or a thrill seeker. But sometimes I forget things I know I should do, or think to myself "just this once..." The incentive he gives me makes sure this doesnt happen. I dont think it should take the place of jail time if you break this law, I just wanted to show how it works for me.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 75
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 01:13 pm: |
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Kimbers, my comments about Tracey Gold weren't in response to your post, but rather to others' comments regarding the Gold incident.
My apologies if you thought I was taking exception to your comments. That wasn't my intention. |
Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 68
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 01:40 pm: |
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Pagan, no problem and actually I think we have many similar views on the subject.
Wolfie, I think your description is exactly how many gals get into trouble. If the anticipation of getting a spanking prevents that behavior, then more power to ya. For those of us who don't drink often and also view ourselves as pretty responsible folks we must remain hypervigilant. I just take this as saying this is one way you remain hypervigilant in your mind. Though I am now probably ULTRA careful about this type of thing (since I know I am a beer light weight), I do look back to my college days and cringe. If anyone should have had her ass beat a few times it would have been me. And yes, if I had landed in jail it would have been appropriate too. I also realize it is not safe to assume that just because I am *much* older now, a wife and mother in a little routine life that this couldn't still happen to me. You mentioned you are not normally reckless or a thrill seeker, but don't you think that view of ourselves (myself included) makes us more vulnerable to fall into the "it can't happen to me" trap? For me, I think it does anyway. And I know this has gotten a tad off topic, but I do think it is important for women to discuss these types of things...you never know when reflecting back on these types of conversations prevents a tragedy.
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 369
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 07:49 pm: |
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Yes Kimbers, I do think viewing myself as a staid, mature older woman tends to give me the false impression that nothing bad can happen to me. And that's why I like those reminders from my Dom that certain behaviors will not only NOT go unnoticed, but will be punished severely. It may not work for everyone, but I know it does for me.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1158
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 08:18 pm: |
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Wolfie, you view yourself a staid, mature older woman compared to who? Shirley Temple or Cindy Brady?
I don't think you are ready to be a member of the senior citizen set quite yet!!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 76
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 09:21 pm: |
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And you're definitely not mature. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1160
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 10:11 pm: |
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Let's see a show of hands of those of us who ARE mature........................Nope, didn't think so!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 371
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 10:21 pm: |
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I am too mature...at least most of the time!
And the fact that I remember both Shirley Temple and Cindi Brady the first time around, proves that I'm older than dirt. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Kiwi_man
New member
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 6
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 11:19 pm: |
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Hey folks I need to clear something up! I don't think drunk-driving is funny or to be taken lightly either and I'm very sorry if I gave that impression. What I should have made clear is that the spankings I gave were for ANY drinks taken before driving ie.one or two. Drinking and driving to me don't mix at all and should be discouraged fiercely. Drunk driving is something else again and I would want the law to deal with it. I hope this clears the matter up. once again I apologise for any unintentional offense caused.
Kiwi man |
Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 69
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, August 15, 2005 - 11:53 pm: |
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I was thinking mature as in Dharma! I just love Dharma and Greg! Or perhaps in an I Love Lucy sort of way! Bwaaahaaahaaaa!
Oh and Kiwi man....no worries! You didn't start a thing and we need some more spanking gentlemen around here so don't go running off ya hear? Make sure you come over and play with us in the cyber play area! Welcome!
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Kiwi_man
New member
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 05:59 am: |
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Thanks Kimbers-I sure don't want to get off on the wrong foot. Thanks for the welcome.I'd like to add to this discussion by saying that moaning and indulging in self-pity rather than changing whatever is bothering you is a good way to earn a trip otk. This could apply to both sexes of course.I knew a lady once who figured she deserved a spanking if she started being too negative or feeling sorry for herself when she knew she was better than that.Anyone got any thoughts on that? |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 15
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 06:09 am: |
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Oh, yeeah, very nicely said Kiwi-man (BTW welcome here, I'm also quite new in here and I enjoy it very much). Indulging in moaning and asking someone else to change that all for you instead of doing it myself if it's really bothering me so much is something that definetly deserves a trip OTK. I've just had such a trip... even more than just a mere OTK, it didn't make me very happy... but it already starts to bear its fruits... |
Kiwi_man
New member
Username: Kiwi_man
Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 06:28 am: |
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I'm glad to hear you're benefitting from the treatment volcano. Thanks for the welcome.I reckon whatever the reason,when a genuine punishment spanking is being carried out both parties are still aware that the kink is present as well and being fed the ultimate fruit.To have fantasy and reality hand in hand with truly valid purpose;I love that. |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 16
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 07:30 am: |
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Hmmm, I'm not so sure that I'm aware of anything else than the pain during the punishment spanking. The punishment spanking doesn't make me feel sexually aroused, it's rather an emotional thing than sexual. I can dream of it, I can need it and even ask for it, but I can never enjoy it the same way as the sensual spanking. What I enjoy is the fruit it gives. Sometimes I need just a spanking, it's sooo erotic, especially the OTK one as if my body asks for it, but sometimes I need to be punished (as if my soul asks for it). Both is extremely different for me. What I've got last time what neither erotic, neither punishment in my sense, it was sooo different and this is what made me feel unhappy, because even the punishment spanking makes me feel happy just afterwods. But at the end I told to myself that I actually got what I asked for... a very real spanking. And, yes, you're maybe true, the kink about it was probably the thing that made me feel> yes, it wasn't so bad as I thought . Just the thing about getting to be punished without wanting it or asking for it. Often, when I read the posts here, I hear about anger stages etc., about how much the bottoms sometimes refuse to get spanked at the very moment. I couldn't understand... now, I do.\u The problem was that I didn't feel at the moment what I'm spanked for... it didn't get the connection I usually need... and moreover, my Top doesn't feel very much like punishing me, he's saying he has no right to punish me, this very unpleasant spanking was something he gave me because he liked it so - it was just a game for him and I guess it's up to me to give his game a punishment feeling... because for me, it was neither punishment, neither a game. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1167
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 10:01 am: |
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I am a very strong, take charge type of woman, and I am just recently embracing the relingishing of all control. Knowing and trusting that I will not be hurt or degraded is what is important. I will still struggle, but I can now put myself in a different mental state and it can be blissful. Erotic, playful or disciplinary......I can reap the benefits.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1168
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 10:03 am: |
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Vulcano, You are correct he does not have any right to punish you. But as long as it is consensual, you are giving him the right. Then all is good
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 374
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 10:43 am: |
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I do get spanked for put-downs...calling myself names, saying Im stupid or fat. Since he started doing this from day one, it has had a huge affect on me and its very rare for me to do it anymore. Its not just that I dont want the painful spanking I will get, but knowing he doesnt agree with my sentiments and will make me pay for them has shown me that it's hurtful in more than one way to do this to myself.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1177
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 10:59 am: |
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I frequently get spanked for saying "no" about five times too many. Usually in the context of refusing to do what is good for me. I'm just a little bit rebellious.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 74
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 11:34 am: |
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My rebellious streak often lands me in hot water. Though I am normally a practical and responsible kinda gal....I'm not real submissive. By the time I become submissive or contrite things are on FIRE! Oftentimes right after saying EXACTLY the wrong thing at EXACTLY the wrong time. 
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1181
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 11:50 am: |
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Kimbers! Where did you find that emoticon of me? I didn't even know I had my pic taken!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 75
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 12:17 pm: |
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Actually, that is a pic of me being staid and mature! NOT! BWAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAA! 
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 376
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 01:06 pm: |
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Here I am trying to figure out the mature thing to do...
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1185
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 01:36 pm: |
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Where do you find these things, wolfie? They are too funny. Seems to be just a few of us brats posting today, so unless at least one of us change to switchs, it's jusy gonna be girl-chat.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Pagan
Junior Spanko
Username: Pagan
Post Number: 77
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 01:44 pm: |
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Kiwi Man, I didn't take offense to your post at all.
DUI is a topic I feel strongly about. I would hate to see someone feel that they have been forgiven, get rid of their guilt...and then merrily go off to do it again. 
Nor am I suggesting that you're enabling that.
I'm just digging myself in deeper here, aren't I?
Forget it...I think we actually all agree. Someone take a picture...quick. |
Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 15
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 01:52 pm: |
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Who is Shirley Temple, and who is Cindi Brady?
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 76
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 02:10 pm: |
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Oh my, I am indeed older than dirt I guess.
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1187
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 02:23 pm: |
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Apparently Hunny is a big tease, or she lives in a cave. Nobody THAT young should be in this forum.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
"..I hear your music and it's driving me wild!" JPM
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 77
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 02:29 pm: |
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Well dangnabit! I want to be too young to be here! Well ok not really....I have much more fun now!
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1189
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 03:13 pm: |
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Experience is the best teacher, Kimbers. I don't regret any of mine.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
"..I hear your music and it's driving me wild!" JPM
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Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 20
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 04:51 pm: |
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Hey I'm 25! I think I have a perfect right to be here and to post here! Just because I am a little out in the shadows doesn't mean I don't have the right to ask questions about things I don't understand!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 379
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 16, 2005 - 09:09 pm: |
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Hunnybunny, their teasing you. Shirley Temple was a child star from the 40's(?), who sang, danced and bounced her blonde curls into everyones hearts back then. Cindi Brady was the youngest of the kids on the Brady bunch, a sitcom from my youth. *sigh*
You should be spanked for making me feel so old, dagnabit!
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 18
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 01:41 am: |
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Even me, I know Shirley Temple... I remember having a book with her... some sort of canibalist theme... though I've never seen any movie of hers... at least I think not. Maybe once when older after the velvet revolution here... not that they wouldn't be showing American movies, they did, but not a lot... and mainly several years after they were shot (40 years later, oh, why not}... well, we got a lot of Russian movies... all of them happily forgotten. And moreover, Shirley was an American ambasador here in the Czech Republic in 90's. Never heard of Cindi... maybe if she came as another ambasador after her |
Wild1
Junior Spanko
Username: Wild1
Post Number: 64
Registered: 08-2005
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Cindy Brady was the name of an American television character on a show called "The Brady Bunch"..the show actually wasn't on very long but it has been in syndication here for years.
wild1 ;)
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 79
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 01:33 pm: |
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Yes little one...ummm I mean Hunny, you certainly can and should ask anything you want. You do indeed at 25 (gulp) have every right to be here....and you can make us feel old and we shall tease you about it. Sounds like a wonderful process to me. That is all part of the fun of having an open forum with folks of all ages. Besides, I can see it would be fun to be the resident youngest brat!
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 21
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 03:52 pm: |
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Sorry for making you guys feel old! That was not my intention. I looked it up and the Brady Bunch re-runs were playing when I was little I just didn't watch a lot of TV back then. I was busy doing other things. And am I really the youngest?
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Wild1
Junior Spanko
Username: Wild1
Post Number: 71
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 04:05 pm: |
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}without checking profiles, you are most likely one of the youngest
wild1 ;)
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Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 24
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 05:12 pm: |
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Wow do I feel young!
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1197
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2005 - 08:21 pm: |
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We do have some "residents" in their early 20's. Last I checked I think we run from age 20 to 60+
And Brady Bunch reruns have been playing from the time the show went off the air until and including now.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
"..I hear your music and it's driving me wild!" JPM
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Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 26
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2005 - 10:08 am: |
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I'll be on the look out for reruns Fanny.
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Kimbers
Junior Spanko
Username: Kimbers
Post Number: 88
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 01:24 am: |
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Well I wasn't ever much of a Brady Bunch fan anyhow....I hang my head low to admit...but I loved Gilligan's Island, One Day at a Time (the one with Valerie Bertinelli) and OF COURSE I Love Lucy re-runs!
Now Hunnybunny, you have started an interesting conversation in my family. I off-handedly asked my 25 year old sister if she knew of those two actresses...and she did. But now she is curious too. So she is polling fellow Navy wives on the base she lives on...and she is also an 8th grade English teacher. She teaches in a school that is on a year around schedule and she hopes to have time to just ask how many of the 8th graders know who the actresses are. Little did you know you were providing others entertainment! Think of it has having done your public service. ROFL!
Kimbers
"When choosing between two evils I always like to take the one I've never tried before"
- Mae West
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Hunnybunny
New member
Username: Hunnybunny
Post Number: 35
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 03:07 am: |
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Lol Kimbers! You have to remember though I didn't watch a lot of TV when I was growing up. I had better things to do with my life.
The best way to behave is not to
-Abercrombie & Fitch
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 235
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 03:51 am: |
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How much would you concider too much before driving. The only reason I ask is because I went to a casino here in town tonight, and drank like, 1/2 a glass (5 oz) of bud light then drove home. I work in a casino that serves alcohol, and I know the warning signs, and how to avoid getting drunk really quick. Full stomach, drink slowly etc.
Thanx for the input
Kryssi..
P.S. btw my husband and I FINALLY moved. We signed our lease Friday, and just finished moving yesterday.
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Chuck
New member
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 7
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 08:50 am: |
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It is hard to believe but the discussion here is actually making me think.
I spank my wife for what in reality are minor domestic issues, to keep harmony in our relationship and stress relief. It is discipline she accepts and our life together is better because of DD.
Now, there are issues that are much more serious that can threaten a relationship that can't be resolver with a spanking.
A drinking problem and/or substance abuse is one. A DUI should lead to a doctors office not the woodshed.
A serious emotional issue needs to be delt with by a professional with love and support from the spouse.
Back to the spanking offense stuff:
A beer or one glass of wine in an hour is acceptable for my wife and I would assume for most grown women. She may think she can handle a little more but I do not find it acceptable. The very real threat of a hard spanking could make the last round a tonic water rather than another glass of wine.
I think stress from kids, work and the constant hassle of modern life lead to my wife doing things that get her in trouble with me. At some point my normally very organized, intelligent and careful wife breaks a rule or does something that earns her a spanking. The hundred things she thinks she has to worry about or get done become much less urgent when faced with the prospect of having to take her pants down and go over my lap for thorough spanking. You don't think about a "to do" list when you are fighting back the tears as your bottom is being spanked. When it is all over and she regains her composure she is very calm and much more under control.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1203
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 08:57 am: |
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Exactly Chuck, I agree with your last paragraph entirely, especially the last two sentences. I love a man who knows what he is talking about.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
"..I hear your music and it's driving me wild!" JPM
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 389
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 10:20 am: |
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Congratulations on the move Kendra, I hope you will be very happy in your new home!
I would think that a half a beer, on a full stomach and not being overtired, would be fine. Only you know how you felt before you got behind the wheel. I know for me 1 beer can put me under the table and it wouldnt be safe for me to drive.
Thanks for your input Chuck, I know a spanking helps me to calm down and think things thru as well. Call it motivational therapy.
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 236
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 - 10:26 pm: |
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Alcohol doesn't effect me right away, I had only been there for like, 1/2 an hour and drank half the beer. I had downed the beer in 1/2 an hour, then I would have been a little tipsy but not under the table. As it was, I didn't even feel the beer. I think the main reason that the situation wouldn't have been safe is if I had gotten really drunk I was far away from home, and my husband didn't know where I was. I did tell him when I got home that I had drank, and where I was, and he didn't seem upset only because I told him right away.
Anyway, I gotta go.. 1 hour of total obedience. (Strengthens a wife's submisiveness)
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Ziggy
Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 130
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 20, 2005 - 10:05 am: |
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I find that I can drink alot of beer, but some canadian beer it takes less for me to feel tipsy. But If I start to drink rum, volka, stuff like that three drinks and I am walking home, for sure. I have a small bar just down the street. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1276
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 20, 2005 - 05:40 pm: |
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let's shorten this thread by adding a continuation
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
"..I hear your music and it's driving me wild!" JPM
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