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Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 28
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 10:10 am: | 
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Reading and thinking, I've been wondering whether one could say that there's something we normally don't do but yearn to express it during a spanking, us bottoms? Or can something similar go for tops too? In which way then? I start to think that I have a spanking addiction... it works better than spirits as for releasing emotions and fun  . It's for free, no hangovers... just a sore bottom  and a great feeling of a hell of strength to overcome everything...
I see I'm not the only one around here who's a very strong personality, stubborn, doing what I wish and attracting rather sub. kind of men. And yet, I love to have a dominant (yet very attentive to my needs and wishes) kind of man around me and even be spanked!  . I'm a very calm person, in control of myself normally (I'd hardly ever act angrily openly), smiling and peaceful, yet I love to be spanked as hard as to start reacting wildly, crying... and I even remember I once snapped at my Top when he was teasing me about him keeping on in spanking me after a very, very intense caning that I was sooo happy it was over (and it doesn't happen to me often enough, I'd sadly say, that I could say that I was happy that the spanking is over...). Well, this caning was very intense, really, I even remember kicking in anger over the floor... which, well, meant a few extra strokes  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 409
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2005 - 12:19 pm: |
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Vulcano, Im not exactly sure what your question is. If Im off in left field, let me know.
I too am addicted to spanking, for many reasons. I do enjoy being able to act differently as a submissive woman than I do in my day to day life. Knowing that he is in charge, he will handle the worries and I can relax for a while is a wonderful gift that being Dom'd brings to me. And knowing that if I get out of hand, out of control or stop taking care of myself will earn me a spanking, is very reassuring as well. If you had asked me 10 years ago what I wanted most in life, it wouldnt have been money, health or even happiness...it would have been peace of mind. Having a Dom who cares about me and has my best interests at heart allows me that peace, and its better than I could have even imagined.
As far as the physical aspects...*grin* As anyone who has been around me knows, normally Im very quiet. But during a spanking I can yell, holler, squeal, shriek and beg for mercy at the top of my lungs, and enjoy every minute of it. I had no idea about that facet of my personality until I began getting spanked, and I must say that its a lot of fun. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
WHY ISN'T IT OCTOBER YET? *stamp*
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