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Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 44
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008 - 05:45 pm: | 
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I think as I get older and have been getting spanked longer that I am more "comfortable" with much harder, longer spanking sessions. Has anyone else experienced this and do you think it is a function of age or just expanding ones limits? |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1840
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008 - 08:24 pm: |
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I've wondered about this myself. I think it's a matter of expanding one's limits. I've joked about having a tough bottom but I'm not sure if it's a physical thing and/or a psychological thing.
On the physical side of things, I noticed when I was single that if I wasn't spanked regularly, my bottom occasionally wasn't as tough as I wanted it to be. It seemed like my threshold had dropped at the time, but I usually got back to my normal greedy self pretty quick. I was also younger though so I'm not sure if that was a factor as well.
On the other hand, pyschologically I've always craved hard, intense spankings and enjoy pushing my limits. I'm always on the look-out for more intense toys and sometimes I can't seem to get enough spanking. Some of that may be hormonal, but that's a whole other topic.  |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3497
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008 - 09:10 pm: |
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Gee Red, I think a whole lot of us here would hardly refer to you as "older" at 28! 
I agree with Bethie, I find that at times in my time when spanking had to take a back burner, it seems as if my threshold did drop. The more often I am spanked the more I can take. Therefore, I don't think in my situation, at least, it is a matter of age as much as the amount of stimulation I receive.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2572
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, June 12, 2008 - 03:21 pm: |
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I can say for cetain that I know my threshold had dropped more then once.
Life gets in the way and spanking takes a backseat to life many times at my house. |
Blushingbride
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 153
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 16, 2008 - 11:34 pm: |
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I agree with it being related to frequency of spankings more than age. When huby and I are occupied with life things that do not allow for regular spankings, the few I get definitely seem to hurt more, even tho he says he's giving me lots of warming up. But when I've had a few recently, I can handle more much easier.
Life is short. Eat dessert first.
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Boomer
New member
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 3
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, July 20, 2008 - 09:15 am: |
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Interesting question. After some intermediate spanking activity, my bottom swells and seems to harden under the skin. As I have not had any spanking experiences until the past several years, I can't attribute my physical reaction to age. It does, however, require extra effort on my partner's behalf to achieve the sensation I'm seeking. I assume this to be the case for others as well. The good news is that's more time over her knee. |
Ruinae8
Spanko
Username: Ruinae8
Post Number: 31
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Sunday, July 20, 2008 - 03:13 pm: |
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I must also agree that the more often I'm on the receiving end the more I can take (both in terms of intensity and length of session). If I havent had for a few weeks it does seem to hurt a lot more and I find I dont go the normal "distance". What I have also discovered is that after a certain while (in the course of a normal frequency of spankings) a numbness comes about which has the effect of deadening the pain, and I think it is at this point that the dom should take particular note as to the physical state/wellbeing of their sub - Has anyone else experienced that numbing effect that enables you to just take more? |
Jaydrawers
New member
Username: Jaydrawers
Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Monday, August 11, 2008 - 03:04 am: |
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I have to agree with those that say it is the frequency of the spankings rather than age that enables you to accept more. When I haven't been spanked for a couple of weeks, my next spanking will have me dancing all around instead of staying in position. This action causes me further spanking. |
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