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Teddy411
New member
Username: Teddy411
Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Monday, September 15, 2008 - 04:34 am: | 
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I'm preparing to talk to my boyfriend about spanking me, I think it might help if I can tell him what he might get out of it. So question for the guys, how do you feel after punishing your partner? |
Boomer
New member
Username: Boomer
Post Number: 12
Registered: 07-2008
| | Posted on Monday, September 15, 2008 - 09:06 pm: |
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Teddy, if I were in his shoes, I'd like to hear that I'd be making a fantasy come true, that you would be wearing some sexy lingerie, that this experience would lead to some passionate sex and that you would also be open to trying something new with me. With that being said, I don't think that I would need to be coerced, just invited to participate. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck.} |
Bbsbbs
New member
Username: Bbsbbs
Post Number: 7
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, September 27, 2008 - 01:46 pm: |
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I have to say I feel really turned on and it is always followed by really great sex.
On my side it is seeing her partially or fully nude.
On her side it is being bossed about and also exposing herself, bottom obviously, but also genitals and breasts.
Afterwards we make up and have sex. She always wants to give me oral as part of the punishment and we usually finish in the doggy position. It seems appropriate, I can go in deep and give her bottom the odd slap at the same time.
Your boyfriend will love it! |
Bbsbbs
New member
Username: Bbsbbs
Post Number: 8
Registered: 08-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, September 28, 2008 - 08:26 am: |
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I have to say, I feel great afterwards.
Spanking, especially in a role play scenario, always puts me and my slave in the mood for sex, for two reasons I think.
First, it let's you work off all sorts of minor frustrations with each other in a harmless way.
Second, seeing her in partial or full undress turns me on and having to wait, because sex is not part of the punishment, just drives me wilder. I know this works for her too.
So do get him to try it, for both your sakes!
bbsbbs |
Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura
Post Number: 888
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Monday, September 29, 2008 - 12:36 am: |
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HORNY |
Spnkmisskitty
New member
Username: Spnkmisskitty
Post Number: 8
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, October 05, 2008 - 10:14 pm: |
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I feel calm and relaxed after a spanking. And the making up for my misdeeds is great! I think it is a great stress reliever! |
Bratattitude
Advanced Spanko
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 134
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 06, 2008 - 10:45 am: |
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I agree with Miss kitty... it is sometimes the best stress relief I can think of! |
Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1688
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 06, 2008 - 02:08 pm: |
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I guess the first feeling I usually have after is one that is nurturing. I want her to know that she is still loved and that I appreciate her and her submissiveness to me. During the spanking is a whole different ball of wax...love the power exchange dynamic..can be quite addictive.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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