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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 272
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2009 - 09:15 pm: | 
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While I prefer my spankings to be spontaneous my Dom Hubby likes to plan some of them out, especially if the spanking is of the discipline type. I don't like to see them on the calander and know it's coming, I would rather get it now and be over with but since I'm the sub, I have no say.
So come New Years day I will be disciplined as a way of reminding me to keep in line. other days when I know I am going to get a disipline spanking falls on the spring equinox, the summer solstice and Sept. 1 which Hubby says is a day on which all subs should honor their Doms. He thinks all subs should have to wear a leather collar on that day so the Doms will know who we are, not so sure I like that.
So whats your choice planned or right now
my name says it all
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Dd_husband
New member
Username: Dd_husband
Post Number: 4
Registered: 12-2009
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2009 - 08:16 am: |
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As of now, we had both, schedualed and non schedualed. Every Tuesday we have maintance spankings, as long as the children are not home. "Good Girl" spankings happen just because she's been a good girl, and she's horney.
She was antisipating our first maintance spanking, and was very excited about it. |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 273
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2009 - 05:47 pm: |
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Yes GG spankings are very good, and turn me on, one reason for my liking either a erotic spanking or a discipline one to take place now rather than later is it can be a let down, I get all hyped up for some Dom/sub time and it isn't going to happen now, might be later that night, next day, but to me it loses
some of it's thrill.
If it's a DD spanking then I can see his point of letting me have to time to think about it and why it's going to happen in the first place, but I would still prefer he just take me up stairs and gve me my punshment spanking right then.
my name says it all
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Darkdruid09
New member
Username: Darkdruid09
Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2009
| | Posted on Friday, January 08, 2010 - 04:57 am: |
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We schedule ours as my wife prefers to know in advance if she is going to be spanked! I actually find the anticipation of this quite exciting and enjoy planning a session. As I am more into the scene than my wife if it was spontaneous she would be spanked every day! |
Tln
New member
Username: Tln
Post Number: 12
Registered: 09-2009
| | Posted on Friday, January 08, 2010 - 11:20 am: |
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One of my fantacies: Coming home from a hard day in the OR, my husband is already home and orders me into the bedroom. He pulls my skirt up and panties down, puts me across his knee and gives me a good, long stress relief spanking. Hopefully it will be followed by some wonderful sex and later on I will be cooking dinner with a smile on my face. |
4pinkcheeks
Spanko
Username: 4pinkcheeks
Post Number: 31
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Saturday, November 06, 2010 - 12:40 pm: |
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I almost always get bare bottomed corner time before and after my spanking. I ALWAYS get it after. The only time I get out of the pre-spanking corner time is when she feels a spanking can't wait and she has to toss me over her lap suddenly! 
Stay Pink! Love, Paula 
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Chuck
Spanko
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 33
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 07, 2010 - 11:36 am: |
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I never set a date in the future for a spanking. I may make a personal decision that Wendy needs a spanking and wait until we are alone to break the news to her. The spanking is administered on the spot. The exception is when we are at a function or public place. I give her a talking to followed by a promise to spank her as soon as we are home and have privacy. My wife has told me can become quite worried as well as hot and bothered know she will be over my lap in a few hours. |
Imabadgirl
New member
Username: Imabadgirl
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, November 07, 2010 - 08:25 pm: |
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My bf and I like to mix it up. Sometimes I've just been such a bad girl that I get a spanking right there on the spot, but other times he tells me in advance that he's going to spank me. Either way I find it very exhilarating, but for different reasons. |
Rosycheeks
Spanko
Username: Rosycheeks
Post Number: 47
Registered: 05-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, November 18, 2010 - 11:00 pm: |
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I like to know in advance but often there is a let down -life gets in the way. Knowing in advance helps build suspence. |
Jeannie
New member
Username: Jeannie
Post Number: 11
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Monday, December 20, 2010 - 12:39 pm: |
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I get and like both. Usually a discipline spanking for a specific offense is spontaneous, administered as soon as possible after the offense. No they are not always in private, but usually are, over the years some of our friends know of our lifestyle and have witnessed a spanking or two.
Maintenance spankings are usually announced in advance, such as Dan will say something like he thinks I needs some maintenance. Usually we will joke about making an appointment, which is a kinda foreplay to the spanking and we will agree on when I will get my maintenance spanking. We make sure that there plenty of time as there is some maintenance sex afterwards. It works for us ! |
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