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Braticious
New member
Username: Braticious
Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 27, 2010 - 03:37 pm: | 
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My husband and I agreed to the DD lifestyle. I am willing to be spanked when I do anything wrong or when he just feels I need it. BUT what about the times when he is upset with me and then he ignores me for hours and hours even up to days and days? I want to be over the "fight" but he will not talk to me or even acknowledge that I exist. This is what is happening right now and it is making me miserable. What do I do??? |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 89
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 27, 2010 - 04:46 pm: |
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As with all relationships communication is the key. Why does he get upset with you? Is there something you do or say that triggers this? Maybe, just maybe, it might be something that is worthy of a spanking? Just thinking out loud. But I think most importantly both of you do need to talk about it and get to the root of the problem. Only then will it be possible to move on and find a solution.
All the best,
Yorkie
Nothing says "I love you" like a warm bottom
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Braticious
New member
Username: Braticious
Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 27, 2010 - 04:53 pm: |
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@ Yorkie69
That is the whole problem. He WON'T talk. I have tried. When I say he is ignoring me, I mean he is totally being quiet and NOT saying anything to me. He doesn't even listen to what I am saying except to keep rolling his eyes like I am an idiot. Thank you though for responding. I will keep trying. And by the way, whether I did something worth a spanking or not I wish he WOULD spank me. Then that would mean he was getting better. Last time he did this he went 4 days without saying one word to me. I can't take this again. |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 90
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 28, 2010 - 03:52 am: |
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Maybe it's time for marriage counselling? If he's that closed off it may be time to seek professional help.
Hope it works out for you though. Good luck. 
Nothing says "I love you" like a warm bottom
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 305
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, April 28, 2010 - 11:21 pm: |
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Brat, I wish I could think of something for you to do, but his not speaking at all leads me to think that he has some issues and neither spanking you or not isn't going to solve them.
First thing is to get him to talk, without that there isn't much you can do by yourself and if you can get him to talk, you need to find out why he is giving you the silent treatment...best of luck
my name says it all
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Braticious
New member
Username: Braticious
Post Number: 5
Registered: 04-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, April 29, 2010 - 04:11 pm: |
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I am sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. We are doing fine now. In fact, that same day he texted adn apologized and then brought me flowers. I really talked to him about how the "silent treatment" hurts me and I am hoping next time he will think about that. Thanks a lot everyone. |
Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69
Post Number: 91
Registered: 01-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, April 29, 2010 - 04:58 pm: |
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Cool! Glad he came around. Good news indeed. Here come the spankings!
Nothing says "I love you" like a warm bottom
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3715
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, May 02, 2010 - 11:53 am: |
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I'm glad you are working in the right direction, brat. Move slowly and see if spanking is even something your husband is comfortable with. Things don't always come easy....or come at all. Best wishes.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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