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Chuck
Spanko
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 21
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 06, 2010 - 11:47 am: | 
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What special attention do you need for your spanking to be considered a "good sound spanking?
Is mood or state of mind very important?
How about intensity, duration and pain?
Is position important? |
Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 332
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 10, 2010 - 08:55 am: |
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The lead up is very important, need to be in the right mood, play around and have him tell me I better behave or else, or get told your in for it tonight as we leave for work in the morning and get to think about it during the day.
Get spanked hard enough that I will have a case of the squirms as I sit at my desk the next day but not beyond that. I prefer a spanking that last awhile, not spank so hard that it's over if a few minutes. a spanking is like having sex, you want it to last not be over before it really starts
my name says it all
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Bottomboy
New member
Username: Bottomboy
Post Number: 5
Registered: 09-2010
| | Posted on Friday, September 10, 2010 - 03:22 pm: |
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very very true words there subbie.the longer the spanking the better it gets |
Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 102
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, September 11, 2010 - 08:30 am: |
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I have to agree...very good explaination of a good spanking...at least for me. I do love a good long session. Lately my husband has even stopped spanking leaving me in "position" while he fixes himself a cold drink and returnes to continue with my spanking...I kinda like the break and the extension of the session and of course the waiting for him to return. |
Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 29
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, September 16, 2010 - 11:02 am: |
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When using the strap, a good spanking is one that turns the bottom red but does not leave bruises. How about the rest of us, how do you stop short of bruises, or do you? When using implements, it can be hard to guage. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 2781
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, September 18, 2010 - 05:37 pm: |
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Is mood or state of mind very important?
How about intensity, duration and pain?
Is position important?
I have to say that all of these areas are important to me.
Mood and state of mind are extreamly important to me!! |
Tommyboy
New member
Username: Tommyboy
Post Number: 7
Registered: 09-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, September 19, 2010 - 11:37 am: |
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All of those things matter a lot. As a male, I know im getting it real good when im not obviously turned on. When the main concern becomes the pain and humiliation and not how sexy it is, you are getting a good sound spanking.
Otk all day.
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Rosycheeks
Spanko
Username: Rosycheeks
Post Number: 32
Registered: 05-2010
| | Posted on Monday, September 20, 2010 - 07:59 pm: |
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When I'm getting a "good one" bruises are sure to happen (I bruise easily) but we don't let that stop us. I have to be in the right mood to accept it however or else I can get really pissy - |
4pinkcheeks
New member
Username: 4pinkcheeks
Post Number: 4
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Friday, October 15, 2010 - 05:06 pm: |
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For me, it involves being scolded while standing with my hands on my head, in just my bra and panties. I stand in front of my spanker, who's fully clothed, sitting comfortably in a chair, and taking her time with the lecture. Then I'm sent to the corner, my hands still on my head. She comes up behind me and pulls down my panties to display my bare bottom, and I stand silent and motionless for a half hour, pondering my soon-to-be-hot bottom.
When my corner time is up, she takes me over her knee and spanks me long and hard with her hand and the hairbrush (or bath brush, or wooden spoon).
No bruises result, just a solid hot pink throughout my bottom and the tops of my thighs. Then she sends me back to the corner naked for another half hour with my hands on my head.
That's a "good spanking" for me!! 
Stay Pink! Love, Paula
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