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Chuck
Spanko Username: Chuck
Post Number: 42 Registered: 07-2005
| Posted on Tuesday, November 23, 2010 - 10:01 am: |
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Recently I didn’t quite tell the truth about a relatively minor situation and my wife caught me in the deception. If the situation had been reversed, my wife would be getting a spanking. I am the HOH and I do not get spanked. Wendy was mad at me and I got a serious lecture and she suggested (not ordered) I clean the garage on Saturday instead of playing golf. I was in the wrong. It took me almost five hours to do the garage. What could I say. Ladies and Gents how would you handle this situation in your relationship. |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado Username: Bethie
Post Number: 2079 Registered: 04-2005
| Posted on Thursday, December 09, 2010 - 10:52 pm: |
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Chuck, I've thought about this and I'm not sure if my take on this is what you're looking for, but it's all the experience I have so far. The minor problems we've had were handled with sincere apologies, hugs, and all was well again. I know Dan's not perfect so he's going to make mistakes, but the dynamic we have always stays in place. I know how he feels about taking care of me, how he hates falling short of that in any way, and I know he'll make it right. There's nothing else I feel like I need to do. That may sound a little odd to some people, but that's how it works for us. |
Chuck
Spanko Username: Chuck
Post Number: 46 Registered: 07-2005
| Posted on Tuesday, January 11, 2011 - 11:01 am: |
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Bethie, sounds like a very reasonable way to handle the problem. Do all you ladies out there have this type of relationship. Do you ever get really mad at your man? When you have done something that he doesn't like you are probably subject to a spanking. How do you deal with it when you are the one who feels hurt/mad? |
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