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Evangeline
New member
Username: Evangeline
Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 05:37 am: | 
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I think I am somewhat unusual on this site as I am a woman who spanks her man for discipline. Any like me out there ?
I find it somewhat difficult to get genuine contrition and even harder to get tears when I deliver the punishment. (Part of the problem is getting him to stay in position)
I would love to hear how other women accomplish this. Especially getting him to hold still till the tears are flowing and he will have "reminders" for a few days. -- Thank you Evangeline |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 58
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:14 pm: |
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Hi Evangeline,
I am a guy who is spanked for discipline by my Wife. She doesn't post anywhere about this. She just does it. I have been on boards for quite some time and rarely see a woman posting about this.
I got my Wife started on this road and I now have no option to refuse even her very severe spankings. Therefore I might be of some help to you in the meantime if you would like to discuss it with me.
Best regards,
Ed |
Evangeline
New member
Username: Evangeline
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 04:49 am: |
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Thank you Ed:
I would love to hear how your wife gives a very severe spanking.
-- Evangeline |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 59
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, January 30, 2011 - 03:56 pm: |
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Hi Miss Evangeline,
I hope you haven't abandoned us here. There seems to be a lack of activity on the whole board lately. I guess everyone is in winter hibernation. I now have a lot of time available if you would like to continue.
Best regards,
Ed |
Evangeline
New member
Username: Evangeline
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Sunday, January 30, 2011 - 09:46 pm: |
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Thank you Ed:
I would love to hear how your wife does it.
I would love to hear what her methods are when she gives you the ones you hate the absolute worst.
How does she keep you in position to take all of it ? What tools scare you the most?
-- Evangeline |
Dave_961
New member
Username: Dave_961
Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Monday, January 31, 2011 - 11:49 am: |
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Hello, Evangeline and Ed. I am also interested in thorough thrashings. I can chip in with tips if you like. |
Her_guy
Spanko
Username: Her_guy
Post Number: 60
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 01, 2011 - 09:45 pm: |
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Hi Miss Evangeline,
For descriptions of my spankings it would be best for you to search on my user name and read my older posts. I have been on this Forum for quite a while, and although I don’t remember exactly what I wrote, it might be best for you to read them first and then you might have some questions.
It sounds like you are having a problem completing a disciplinary spanking. I need to know a little more about your situation to be of help to you. It won’t do you much good for me to ramble about the specifics of the discipline here, but I can give you some insight into how to complete one if I can understand your situation.
One thing that comes to mind immediately is that you are probably trying to give a spanking too quickly and too hard, as you might have remembered from years past. That doesn’t work very well in the adult domestic discipline scenario. Our “self preservation drive” takes over and we can’t remain in place very long. That happened to me today.
Primarily, discipline is more a state of mind and you, as disciplinarian, will have to set the tone and atmosphere such that he will voluntarily submit to the one you want to give him. Basically he has to feel that he has already been spanked before you bend him over. If you are a true disciplinarian you can do that with a little advice.
With that in mind, tell me which of the two of you started the domestic discipline in your relationship. That would be very important. Was it your idea and he just went along with it, or was it his idea and you are trying to fulfill the role? In my case it was my idea and I had to convert my Wife to become an effective disciplinarian. Which of the two of you has the stronger personality? After I understand what your specific situation is, I can relate relevant methods that my Wife uses.
I look forward to hearing from you and exchanging ideas. There may be some that my Wife can use, although I don’t think I want her to be much more effective than she already is. Haha! I have had disciplinary spankings that showed marks for days and could be felt for more than a week.
Best regards,
Ed |
Malcroft
New member
Username: Malcroft
Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Thursday, June 16, 2011 - 05:08 am: |
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Hi Evangeline
I regularly get soundly spanked by my wife and she has no trouble at all bringing on real tears every time.
first, and most obviously, she always spanks on my bare bottom, and second, she always spanks hard. she uses a variety of paddles for this and she holds me still by placing me over her left knee, holding me tight round the waist and pinning my legs down with her right leg.Her absolute rule that I don't clench my buttocks during the spanking ensures maximum sting, she achieves this by making me bend right over her knee with my head on the floor (it's impossible to clench in this position) if I get out of position I get very sore thighs.
Hope this helps, give it a go! |
Brianeellis85
New member
Username: Brianeellis85
Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 18, 2011 - 02:46 am: |
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From what you are describing, it sounds less like an issue of spanking harder, but establishing firmer control. Personally, I feel it's hard to have a spanking be considered a punishment/discipline spanking if as a spanker you do not have complete control over the situation.
I'll give a quick example of some tips that worked on me. I think I am a pretty typical guy. I have confidence abd I take pride in my work and accomplishments. My spanker knew that, and worked to bring me down a notch. She used a variety of techniques aimed at humiliation and bringing me under her control.
After a while, I was completely obedient to her wishes, following her every command. I can tell you that having to position and fully present your bare bottom to your spanker anyway she demands definitely enhances the pain, especially if she knows where the sensitive areas are.
Lastly, I think for a lot of guys have to break through those layers and stereotype of what it is to be a man (thanks media!). Traits such as pride, dominance, and aggression makes it hard to drop the tough act and allow themselves to feel the pain and true purpose punishment |
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