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Rudeaberry
New member
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, February 12, 2011 - 01:39 pm: | 
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When a lady is being spanked, should penalty strokes be added if she fails to maintain position, or mis-counts the number of licks, or generally does not behave in a lady-like manner? |
Speevak
Spanko
Username: Speevak
Post Number: 16
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, February 14, 2011 - 12:44 pm: |
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Yes, of course! Also for back-talk, trying to cover her butt with her hands, grabbing a hold of the implement, and so on.
Good discipline is SO important
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Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 47
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Monday, February 14, 2011 - 03:13 pm: |
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If you get too forceful, you may loose her cooperation and be looking for someone else to spank. |
Jeannie
New member
Username: Jeannie
Post Number: 15
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Friday, February 18, 2011 - 11:48 am: |
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The rule at my house is that if I do anything to interfere with a spanking, then that particular spanking will continue to be administered, but the underlying cause for the spanking will change from whatever the original reason I was being spanked to the fact that I interfered with a spanking.
So I will continue to be spanked, but then I will get another spanking another day for the original misconduct.
I don't get additional strokes, I just get another complete spanking. Because almost all of my spankings leave my bottom red & sore, there is somewhat of an unspoken agreement that I will not get spanked more that once a day. |
Rudeaberry
New member
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, February 26, 2011 - 07:16 am: |
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Penalty strokes lose their meaning if they're not delivered during the original spanking.
To stress that the penalty strokes are additional, it's best to administer them at the end of the session. The lady may be required to change position, while a particular implement not previously used may come into play - a riding crop, for example.
The total of additional strokes is dictated by the number of times the lady mis-behaved during the spanking. |
Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1735
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 09, 2011 - 08:47 pm: |
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I dont expect a spankee to sit there completely stoic and motionless during a spanking. A spanking hurts, and her movements tell me that my spanking is having the desired effect. Usually just a gentle reminder is sufficent to get her to return to posistion. Back talking or other bratting techniques during a spanking, thats a different story. If I was planning just a hand spanking, it will persuade me to bring out an implement to reinforce the spanking. If I am already using an implement, maybe grab a second implement (one that she is not fond of). I will not spank to the point of injury, if her behavior is such that it warrents further action, a seperate session will occur to address those issues.
(Message edited by zippo on March 09, 2011)
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Rudeaberry
New member
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 7
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Friday, March 11, 2011 - 04:16 pm: |
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Some ladies, of course, mis-behave deliberately in order to incur the additional strokes they crave... |
Burning_bottom
New member
Username: Burning_bottom
Post Number: 8
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Friday, May 13, 2011 - 04:49 pm: |
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RE extra penatly strokes. i give her the strap hard on her hands! if she puts her hands in the way when getting the hairbrush! it works! she learns control!and obedince.
paul little
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Burning_bottom
New member
Username: Burning_bottom
Post Number: 9
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 24, 2011 - 05:54 pm: |
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RE penatly strokes just spanked a women friend of mine kept wriggling and resiting and putting her hands on her bottom this time she refused to let me strap her hands ! so she got the cane on top of her legs! she wont do it again!
paul little
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Southernmentor
New member
Username: Southernmentor
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2011
| | Posted on Friday, June 03, 2011 - 05:14 pm: |
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Very interesting question. Personally, I don't give penalty swats for not maintaining position, because I understand that it's tough for the spankee to remain still and calm during the spanking, for obvious reasons. However, when she attempts to cover her bottom, I do believe in giving a few penalty swats for that. Also, when the spankee uses any form of profanity during the spanking, to me, that also warrants a few penalty swats. Just my personal preference. |
Rudeaberry
Spanko
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 21
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, June 04, 2011 - 03:08 pm: |
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Southernmentor, Do you apply the penalty strokes to the lady's offending hands or continue to work on her bottom? |
Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 52
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 10:03 pm: |
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The spankee should try to cooperate, that is part of the game. |
Tplayer
Advanced Spanko
Username: Tplayer
Post Number: 222
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, June 20, 2011 - 08:20 pm: |
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If it is a "game" then penalty strokes are fine. For me, they are petty. Spankings and whippings hurt. I move and I cry and I want relief. But what I want more than anything is for it to be a complete spanking that takes me to that place in my head.
If I try to get away, and am whipped harder or faster, that tends to breaks my resistance. If someone were to stop and talk to me about a penalty stroke, I would feel as if I was the one in control.
For my satisfaction, and although I will react as someone in pain, I need for the spanker to be in charge and spank me until I have submitted whether it be one or 100 strokes.
Sometimes I am contrite and submit easily and quickly. Sometimes I am stubborn and resist. When that happens, I am less cooperative, move more and mentally fight the pain of the belt or paddle. I am mad and resent it. On those occasions, I need to be spanked until my head changes and my resistance and resentment gives way to the one that is in charge.
It's all a matter of perspective
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Darlingjenna
New member
Username: Darlingjenna
Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 11:07 pm: |
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I'm debating whether to ask my husband to add penalty strokes in. I like the feeling of being restrained and not able to struggle, but sometimes he (and I) would like for me to be able to maintain a position. Right now if he's spanking me and I move out of position he just tells me to get back and I do.
We just bought a bunch of new spanking implements (they're in the mail and I don't know how I feel about them  ) and I was thinking maybe if he took a brief break from my original spanking to give me a few licks with a different - more severe - implement it would help me learn better control. But I don't know if that would work. |
Mbottom
Spanko
Username: Mbottom
Post Number: 43
Registered: 04-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2011 - 09:00 am: |
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We dont really do penalty swats, more like if I move away (which I usually dont), he will swat my thigh, WHICH I HATE & I lay back down pretty quickly....LOL |
Chuck
Spanko
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 53
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, August 27, 2011 - 10:16 am: |
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Penalty strokes really don’t have much of a place in our system. When a spanking has been earned I administer it. The spanking is over only when my wife has reached a state of calm submission. This mental state can be achieved rather quickly sometimes but other times I have to ware her out to get there. |
Jeannie
Spanko
Username: Jeannie
Post Number: 25
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Friday, October 21, 2011 - 10:52 am: |
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There is no room for penalty strokes in my spankings, usually each & every spanking is done to my limits, my bottom is red and sore and yes usually leaves marks which I wear proudly. When I get the belt or whip I get it!
As I have said before, if I do anything to interfere with the spanking, it continues but it's basis is changed from the original cause to the fact that I interfered with my discipline. Then I get another spanking for the original infraction on another day. |
Rudeaberry
Spanko
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 33
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, December 03, 2011 - 06:36 am: |
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Jeannie, Sounds like your discipline is delivered with a no-nonsense approach! On what basis is the choice made between the belt and the whip? |
Jeannie
Spanko
Username: Jeannie
Post Number: 27
Registered: 10-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, December 08, 2011 - 01:42 pm: |
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That is totally up to Dan, I have no choice, well I do have the choice to end this type of relationship, but I enjoy turning total control over to Dan. There is just something about a good spanking/whipping that keeps me focused. I don't know how or why but it is something I need in my life and I know it, even when I don't want a spanking, object to getting it, try and talk my way or sex my way out of it, after I have received a good whipping I just relax in a special way, I feel so good even as my bottom burns ! |
Croppuser
New member
Username: Croppuser
Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 15, 2012 - 07:25 pm: |
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Well, in our case it is the male who gets spanked, and the worst offense in my girlfriends eyes is topping from the bottom, joking while I am meant to be seriously reprimanded and getting up when I should stay in place. yes, there are penalties..... very bad ones,fun, wild but very sore... not able to sit without thinking of the error of my ways for several days. |
Ispanx
Spanko
Username: Ispanx
Post Number: 23
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 21, 2013 - 12:06 am: |
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I always put the spankee across my lap pushed pretty far forward so the the butt is right on my lap, with the back nicely arched. (this also causes the bottom to look as large, round and taut as possible -- nice view!) This will cause the legs to fall slightly apart, and me to have a very nice view of her "lady parts" as well.
by holding her far forward on my lap, I can simply press my between elboow her shoulder blades with my wrist lightly resting at her waist. I can hold her that way with little or no efferto -- but she has NO possible chance to get her hands back to try to cover her bottom. She won't be able to kick very high, so all she can do is take her spanking, till I'm done with her.
If I'm in the mood to use my paddle, I spank the bottom first, then the backs of the thighs. I give penalty strokes to the backs of the thighs (that I have already paddled nice and red) with a small impression paddle that has one star. I will tell her how many stars I plan to give her, then make her count the licks, If she doesn't do it exactly right, I make her start the count over (of course, I make sure she never gets it right on the first few tries. hehe.)
I like to play mind games with my ladies sometimes. For instance: if she is supposed to be at my house for her spanking at a certain time -- no matter how early she is, my clock will always say she is five minutes late.
So, five stars, for her -- at the end of her spanking.
Since she has to wear a very short skirt to my house she may be subject to some embarrassment on her way home.
It's good for the more stubborn ladies to be kept in a knd of no-win position. Makes it very clear who is ALWAYS boss. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4051
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 28, 2013 - 01:25 pm: |
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Mind games, Ispank? Doesn't sound very nice or fair to me. I would be upset if I went out of my way to be somewhere on time (let alone early) and found out you had changed the clock!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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