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Mrsgeo91
New member
Username: Mrsgeo91
Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2012
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 25, 2012 - 04:53 pm: | 
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Hello every one I am very new here . I never have been spanked nor have i ever spanked anyone. One of my friends from back home whom i confided in suggested i try spanking my husband . I started reading about it but cant seem to find anyone to actually give me some good info . Or if i should even try this.
About a year ago caught my husband of 8 years wearing my bras and panties. I went shopping and bought my self 2 new bras and matching panties. I had not even had a chance to wear them yet. I came home an hour early and my husband was standing in the corner of our room wearing one of the bras and matching panties and he was well um having his way with the other bra . I was furious. I was shocked and well ashamed of him. I always had a feeling he paid a lot of attention to my panties. After a long talk I found out this had been going on for years and not only that he had his own stash of panties hidden. The last two years i noticed his sex drive was fading could it be because he was pleasuring himself all to often while dressing up in my stuff?
I want it to stop a year later i know it has not today i bought a file cabinet that locks and i put all my bras panties and swim wear inside it .
I recently confided in a friend it was very embarrassing for me to admit it to her She was like oh he is a sissy boy then? i was humiliated myself . She suggested i spank him for this .I dont know where to begin And i am not sure if this would be the proper way to get him to stop this . can anyone offer advice ? |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4013
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, July 26, 2012 - 12:42 pm: |
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It seems to me that you have two separate issues (or fetishes) here. In my opinion, your husband has a fetish of dressing in your clothes, and that does not have to do with spanking. Have you talked this situation out with him?
Personally, I do not believe this is a spanking issue, unless you both agree to it.
I suggest you keep your personal things away from him, and let him wear what he buys for himself.
If wearing female underwear is part of his personality, I think it will only cause strife between you, if you force him to change.
(Message edited by fanny on July 26, 2012)
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ispanx
New member
Username: Ispanx
Post Number: 7
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Sunday, September 23, 2012 - 12:55 pm: |
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Best 2 equalizers are letting the man go to sleep -- and bondage tape. The soft teasingtouch of a womans playful hand will get him addicted to spankings right away. After that get to work and do an extra good job with that hairbrush. Then immediately, take your liberties for quite a while. After the first spanking like that, you can just tell him to bend over any time you want, and he'll do it.
And, yes I do think sissy boys like spankings. |
Fred2010
Spanko
Username: Fred2010
Post Number: 99
Registered: 06-2010
| | Posted on Sunday, September 23, 2012 - 04:08 pm: |
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I suspect that it does you no real harm to let him wear women's clothing. Why not just humor him and go shopping with him. It could do wonders for your sex-life. |
Submale10
New member
Username: Submale10
Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2012
| | Posted on Monday, December 10, 2012 - 05:46 am: |
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If it makes you both happy.. How could it be wrong?
Talk to him, forcefully. If he enjoys it and you're sex life improves it's a win-win situation. From my experience, getting spanked IN panties is a whole lot better than getting spanked without panties!
Spank his butt and dont stop until he tells you at least one fantasy he has kept secret, you'll be that much closer when it's over and you'll love it! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 4035
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 10, 2012 - 06:16 pm: |
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I am going to add a little something here; unless Mrsgeo have had a change of mind.......please re-read her post. I am reading that she does NOT have a comfort level with the situation. Therefore, submale, you are correct, but it is important to make sure BOTH parties are happy.
I also do not think it is a very good idea to force anyone into anything; we might want to chose our wording more carefully. Possibly neither is comfortable with her talking to him "forcefully."
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Larryk51
New member
Username: Larryk51
Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2016
| | Posted on Saturday, July 09, 2016 - 10:40 pm: |
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There is no way a person should be spanked/paddled if they do not consent--In my case for something very serious which is certainly my fault my wife paddles my naked butt--it is totally deserved and there is no argument--It hurts my butt alot but when over things are fine between us--since it is just the two of us no embarrassment If it is not consentual I do not think it iwll work it does work fine for us |
Markbtm60
New member
Username: Markbtm60
Post Number: 2
Registered: 10-2016
| | Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2016 - 12:32 pm: |
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As a male panty wearer with a very understanding wife she said to me that it is a minor aspect of our marriage. Loving each other entails give and take in all ways and forms and wearing female undies is minor compared to what it could have been! The spankings folloed on from the panty wearing and were not part of the initial understanding. My advice, go with the flow and have exciting sex with him in his undies. Call him a naughty boy and see where it leads. It worked for me but that's no guarantee! ! |
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