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Aza
New member
Username: Aza
Post Number: 2
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Monday, September 10, 2012 - 02:22 pm: | 
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Hi,
I just registered and posted on Meet and greet area, but like to have some advice.
We just started spanking. It is strictly erotic and it turns me on to no end. I told my husband that i found it erotic and guided him into giving me one couple of months ago. He is spanking me and i am happier than i was before, but want him to take more charge in the bed-room.
He does not like the idea of me being "submissive". I think it is a turn of for him.
I am looking for advice in how to get him used to the idea. I red some post about this topic. And thought about getting him a book or something but most of the stuff is too hard core for him and i don't want to scare him. |
Rudeaberry
Spanko
Username: Rudeaberry
Post Number: 45
Registered: 01-2011
| | Posted on Thursday, September 13, 2012 - 02:41 pm: |
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If you and your husband engage in role-play that would be helpful to gradually move things forward. |
Ispanx
New member
Username: Ispanx
Post Number: 12
Registered: 09-2012
| | Posted on Monday, September 24, 2012 - 07:04 pm: |
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there are good articles all over the net that are written by men and are instructions for men give good spankings or to introduce women to spanking. Some of them are too rough, but many are not. a few of them will have parts in them would explain how to do excatly what YOU might fantasise about. Why not print out the articles you wish he would read, and highlight your favorite parts. Then leave the articles around the house for him to find by "accident". |
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