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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 80
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 16, 2005 - 05:17 pm: | 
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This has been a very tough week in terms of my bottom. Since saturday I have found myself over Sir William's (my new name for him) knee 4 times and I am not talking about the slow erotic spankings. I got it once for genral brattyness and I really did try to behave but I am over worked, overtired and was very hungry at the time that pushed him over the edge,Got 25 with the paddle for that OUCH. the next one was for stomping my foot when had the manadatory "corner time" Got another 25 with the paddle (still hate corner time but do it) than Monday I got it for leaving 2 chocalate Kisses in the cup holders of his new car- they melted from the heat in the car(it was almost 70) and the heat from his coffee cup which than got on him. He did warn me about this at least 50 times that one day it will catch up to me. It did with 25 from the hair brush Ouchie Ouchie. Yetersday I got it again for general bitching nastyness, and just being a brat. Once again I was up very late on Monday night and was late getting up on Tuesday which already sets off my day and so on and so on. I think you get my point. Because it was the 2nd time for the same offense W decided that the first 25 did seem to do the trick so he gave me 50 with leather paddle (really big time ouchie) of course all spankings are applied after about 20 or so with his hand each time. So you know my butt right now is on fire.
I don't want anyone to think he is a bad person he really isn't he knows that when I am overwork etc. the only thing that works is if someone takes control away and he always does some how. So this afternoon we had lunch at a cute little cafe that is in a very beautiful hotel Unknown to me he booked a room. we spent the afternoon working off all the sexual energey that was built up from so many spankings. You know after it is all over and the two of you are just lying there lazy like. He started talking about that he fells that I need a bedtime and he is going to enforce a bedtime as part of my puinshemnt for being a brat. It is not a good time to talk to me about additional spankings, or punishments because I think with the sex after glow I would almost agree to anything. So for the next two weeks I am not allowed to go out after work I have to leave work at normal time not later then 6:00 which I was leaving much later and have to be in bed by 9:30 with lights out by 10:00. I know he is doing this because my health issues with Lupus require that I rest. So OK I will do it. But I was wondering if there are any others out there who sometimes have additional punishments added on to the spankings.
He also said that if this doesn't work to chase away the bitch than he might consider maintance spankings again. I think the bitch is getting her care keys to leave the house. I surely don't want maintance spankings it seems I get into enough trouble by myself. |
Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 25
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 03:21 am: |
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Ouchie.....send that b**** packing, being bratty is bad enough for the well being of your bottom!
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 83
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 01:03 pm: |
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Poofette,
I keep trying to get the bitch out but there is a side of my personaluty that just seems to keep her in the back but once I get over worked and overtried which always happens in my business (year end stuff ) and with the hoildays and family stuff she sneaks in and before I know it she is right out front being a brat. So for the last couple of days I have been very good (ok maybe not very good but good) and went to bed at the required time. I must say that I do feel better but two weeks I don't know if I can last that long. |
Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 26
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 02:54 am: |
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If you're anything at all like me, it won't last. We all have a bit of a bitch in us and she's bound to come out especially when you're trying very hard not to let her. Can I mention an observation/question/thought? For those of you in relationships with discipline, are you more free to let that side out because you know your top will quell it and you don't have to control it completely? I just re-read that...don't like the sound of it but don't know how to reword it right. I don't mean to imply that a "bottom" lacks control of her own actions at any point but...I dunno, do you understand what I'm saying/asking??? Do you feel "safe" letting out the caged beast because you know it can't/won't be allowed to rampage willy-nilly? Again, I'll remind those who haven't figured it out by now or who've never read anything I've posted, I'm not the world's best communicator!!!!
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 86
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 09:26 am: |
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Poofette,
Sometimes I re read some of my post after I post it and if I didn't know better I would say that English was not my native tongue. I understand what you mean. I don't know that I am freer to let the bitchness come out I just know that when it is out it wouldn't last long because W will stop it berfore it gets destructive. I am not sure I am wording this right either but I think all of us not matter what you are top or bottom have monemts of bitchness either we control it or soemone else does. W doesn't step in untill the biitchness or mood goes down the wrong path. If I am just in a bad mood and am a bit cranky that doesn't mean I will be over his knee, it means he will let it run it's course but if he notices that I am having a hard time breaking the mood he will step in first with a couple of warnings than if that fails with a trip over his knee. Let me add that he is not spanking me because of my bad mood but because the bad mood usually makes me do hateful things to others. I really can't explain it any better than that he just knows how to get me back on track. It must be working because we are married almost 26 years and if I had to do it all over again I would pick the same man with the same set up. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1741
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 09:41 am: |
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I follow what you are saying Red. Many times my mood or attitude are the result of overstimulation or stress. It is at these times that "recentering" me does a world of good.
Stress relief is wonderful.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 8
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 09:51 am: |
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Hi Redhinney,
my name is trish..Andy has sent a couple posts already..I do get punishment spankings every Friday nights..although the spankings do sting alot and i end up crying and kicking my feet like a 5 year old they are good for me..The spankings allow me to vent all my stress and tention built up during the past week..I get demerits alot of the times for brattiness and being late for appt..Andy is a very loving and passionate person and cares a great deal for me..We have great fun together but when it comes to punishment he is very strict,not abusive but strict..I have read many of the posts and the people seem soooo nice..I'm glade we found this site..
Have a great day,
Trish |
Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 88
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 10:06 am: |
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Hi Trish and welcome to the den. I give you lots of credit to be discpline enoughto write down all your "bad" deeds. Sorry that would never work for me plus there are times that a whole notebook would hold all the bad that soemtimes just seems to follow me.
Yes the everyone is very nice and soemtimes very funny. Enjoy thre den |
Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 9
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 19, 2005 - 10:22 am: |
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Thank you Redhinney,
We are all different..Punishment spankings just seem to work for me..I'm not really sure why but they do..I'm a stay-at-home mom raising twin girls and it is sometimes very stressful so by week's end i'm ready for a good cry over hubby's knee..
anyways it is very nice to meet you and everyone..thank you for all your support..
have a great day,
Trish |
Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 28
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 20, 2005 - 01:02 am: |
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Red,
You did understand what I was asking about so I guess we both are better communcators then we thought. I just find myself highly curious about discipline relationships and how they work. I keep rather tight control over myself emotionally and find myself wondering a lot about being able to let it go. I guess I envy that. I think. Maybe.. Not sure I can trust enough to surrender control like that. Odd comment for a bottom, huh? Did you find that hard in the beginning?
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 91
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 20, 2005 - 12:19 pm: |
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Poofette,
I didn't found it hard at all. William and I have been together since I was 16 he was 28. I don't remember a time not being part of him as well as him not being a part of me. We didn't get married until 8 years later. Our wedding night was the first time we had sex. (please don't laugh it's true). I think because I was able to trust him do to the fact he didn't push me into a sexual realtionship I felt I could trust him with everything. Due to this trust a DD realtionship just was a natural extention. I trust William with all of me I knew he would never do anything that woulkd cause my sprite to break he claims he likes it that even after 25 years married I still find my way over his knee at least twice a week becaus of something I did wrong. I so fit the read head personality.
If both you and your s/o decide that discpline spanking is right than I suggest that you both sit down amd make "rules" I don't mean rules like you have to ask permission to do stuff but rules that relate to things like respect, being hateful to others (this is one thing that can get me over W knees at least once a week and the cause of my very first discpline spanking -dam sister in law.) the rules in our case are to make me a better person as well as to make us a better as a couple Once the rules are establish than punsihment should be decided if you break a rule. I beleive that a person who gets spanked should not be afraid of the spanker but afraid punishment. I can honestly tell you that there were and still will be times I actually sweat when William says "corner panties down" because I know by the tone of his voice exactly how upset he is. One of our rules is that he can't spank me just because he wants to and if he is so angry over the situtation that he csn't see straight than spankings has to wait. I have waited in a corner for up to an hour until he cooled down enough to get a grip on the situtation. Need I tell you I did pay dearly and in hind sight it was deservced.
I think I answered your question idf not let me know |
Tom
New member
Username: Tom
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 12:44 am: |
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HI Trish,
I am new to this site and enjoyed your post. You sound like you have a great marriage. Nothing like a good marriage between two people who are also into spanking. I loved the part about you crying and kicking like a 5 year old.. ..I don't know..just something about tears to me that just makes a real spanking better and more memorable for both parties. I just love you crybabies..you are a treasure!
Bottoms Up!
Tom
"You might be a grown, mature woman but I am going to spank you like a little girl, darlin."
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